Is Shaan an 'ADARSH' Pati??

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Dear friends,
I wanted to discuss a slightly HATKE TOPIC for a change but which is very relevant to the show..😊 I hope that you will pitch in and share your opinions coz all of us have a say in this matter..

I find it extremely SEXIST that on Indian Telly everybody always talks of ADARSH PATNI all the time😒 Its strange that though the female child is still in a lot of ways

treated as a 2nd class citizen and exploited ( though times are changing), when it comes

to marriage it is the woman's responsibility to take care of the husband and family and if the husband drifts, she is blamed!!

KHANAK has proved herself over and over again that she is indeed an ADARSH PATNI

so I thought we should discuss if SHAAN will prove to be an ADARSH PATI - IDEAL HUSBAND for Khanak! SHE DESERVES IT!!😃

I think Shaan has many good qualities which puts him in the category...

1. He loves and deeply cares for his wife- which is of vital importance!

2. He respects her opinions , even Sunil does - and I was really happy to see that track ( Project etc.,) cause that really elevated both Khanak and Shaan in my eyes.

3. He had the guts to stand up for her in front of his mother and Khushboo!! I wish he had done that earlier because I really found it hard to digest the abuses hurled at Khanak. Even Sunil didn't come to her defence.

4. One of the best things he did was to teach her ENGLISH! and the reason for which is more

praiseworthy because he did it so that he didn't like his mom and SIL constantly calling her GAWAR!👏⭐️

5. The only thing which I am a little concerned about is that he had started on the path of Responsibility and Independence but seems to have lost interest! I hope that this is only temporary( he can think only of her all the time), and soon he will be back on track and make all of us PROUD! 👏

Please bear with me if the post is too long...😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey i like the post. you're right on indian tv they are always talking about ararsh patni

though i think shaan does have qualities of an adarsh pati as you counted them. but i don't think he loves his wife that's small word, i think he worships the ground she walks on absolutely and definitely. but like all husbands he is an idiot and eats the halwa WITHOUT even LOOKING AT IT lolzzzzzzzz.

i also think he doesn't fully understand his wife but that's okay he will learn with time

and to top of all his adarshness he is just soooooooooooooo cute and HOT! 😃 and of course dreamy 😍
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Shaan is an Adarsh Pati and that's for true....He always stood up for Khanak and didnt even care about his Mom and Bhabhi.....He started undrstanding Khanak and he brought back Khanak after facing so many difficulty.....He worked in that Bhojnalay and did all stuffs cozz he started caring for Khanak which is a sign of an Adarsh Pati
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Posted: 14 years ago
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he is indeed a adarsh pati for she surely has all the qualities of being a adarsh pati little more left surely he will learn in the course of his married life .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sana.shanak

Shaan is an Adarsh Pati and that's for true....He always stood up for Khanak and didnt even care about his Mom and Bhabhi.....He started undrstanding Khanak and he brought back Khanak after facing so many difficulty.....He worked in that Bhojnalay and did all stuffs cozz he started caring for Khanak which is a sign of an Adarsh Pati

Yup forgot to mention that part, Thanx. It was especially difficult for him to do that - shows how much he cared for her!👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Shan is actually not hubby material he is more like a boyfriend that i would have.😆 But the fact that he doesn't fit into your everyday boring hubby makes him all the more delicious.He is so not a typical husband so calling him adarsh well,i dont know.But he is one of the most unusual husbands for sure.😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Nice post simi.... More than a adarsh pati shaan s so different...he gives space for khanak and more like her companion...their relationship is not like typical hubby wife relationship till now because both of them are more or less same on their ego side but truly love each other and will be there for each other....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Nice topic Simi.
What makes an adarsh pati? that depends on what we want from a pati (husband). For me, Shaan is not yet husband material. Am with Sejal on that. He is still a bit too childish ... being a lover/boyfriend is different from being a husband. I also did think he had turned a corner when he stood up to him mom, but when he was about to marry Natasha, that's when I felt he has still not graduated to the 'husband' level yet! A husband should and would worry about what his wife will do if he left her... If Shaan indeed worried abt what will happen to Khanak if he married Natasha, we did not see it. So based on what has been shown so far, Shaan is an adorable guy, passionate in love, very romantic, cute, unusual in being extremely patient, but aadarsh pati? hmmm... he has some way to go for that.
Just my view...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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for me shaan is adarsh pati....carefully read is following lines..................1)he told khanak TUM MERI ZIMMEDARI HO MAIN TUMHE YAHAN LAYA THA.......2)he followed khanak instead of natasha n told her MAIN KHANAK KE PEECHE GAYA KYUNKI WO MERI PATNI HAI AUR YAHI SACH HAI..........3)told khanak TUM KHUSHBOO BHABHI JAISI BAN SAKTI HO PAR WO TUMHARI JAISI NAI BAN SAKTI............4)even after 4mths of marriage he prefferd for emotional bonding rather making it physical.....5)he's a mahapurush...hmself use to sleep on sofa......6)d way he called khanak WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE n called her on stage......so i thnk he is very very close to d choice of adarsh pati,,,,👍🏼
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hmm nope, he is not ur regular aadarsh pati , he is any gals dream pati ... note difference .......

Shan is more a friend , he is understanding, he makes mistakes accepts them and learns from them , he stands for wify's rights, he showers her with love and respect, he confess when he is lost and clueless ., he can feel Jealous and possessive too , aadarsh pati is more like saint ...............................and shan is more like HUMAN

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