Was Radha Overreacting ??

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@jyoti06

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Posted: 17 years ago

#11

@Riya and Noni:I agree with u guys to some extent that its the right of mothers to slap their kids if they r going in the WRONG PATH...but the question here is Was Gini actually going in the wrong path??😕...I mean we still don't know whether Gini would hv actually taken that alcohol or not bec she was just holding the glass😕..thats the reason why I said...Radha Overreacted mayb😕..

Also when your child is a kid..u can beat him/her up for their own good but when u become an adult then a mother's duty is to handle their kids in a more matured way😊...Ragini here is a 18 yr old adult...and in such a situation if a mother goes and slaps her in front of her friends then she can very well turn into a rebel..At this tender age its very important to understand your Kids and their mentality before taking any drastic action😊..

Radha could hv just went upto Gini and taken her home quietly and then in a close room she could hv slapped her or explained her but instead she slapped her in front of her friends which is very much insulting especially for a grown up girl like Gini because not only her friends were present there but also outsiders in the pub saw the entire drama..Just my point of view😳

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sharmadha

@Sharmii

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Posted: 17 years ago

#12

i think radha was wrong in slapping IN FRONT OF EVERYONE.....nothing else...at this age such a slap in front of everyone can cause serious damage toone's self esteem...radha as a mother as a mother has all the right to show her daughter the right path but as a human being we shouldnt degrade anyone...least of all our kids that too in front of everyone.

And let me tell when ur self esteem is affected ....its affects the syche like no other thing and leaves an invisble lifelong scar!

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Sharna

@sharna2k6

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Posted: 17 years ago

#13

Aww Jyoths its nice to see your posts again !!

I have not yet the update but from reading your post, I see Radha reacted the way I thought she would .. slapping her daughter in front of everyone. I'm not suprised she did this. From the very begining I thought so that Gini would be more of the "rebel type" i guess. Not bad at all no, but they would show her as the more rebel type and show she's drinking alcohol, when she's really not, and there is more from her point of view. If any of that made sense. LOL. But yes, at the age Gini is at, radha needs to be careful that gini doesn't do anything irrational. she needs the most love and comfort right now. radha needs to sit down with her, and woman to woman talk with her.

But in a serial like this, this was expected. How else would they have created something?

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Nupur

@Nupur9

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Posted: 17 years ago

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Originally posted by: Sharmii
i think radha was wrong in slapping IN FRONT OF EVERYONE.....nothing else...at this age such a slap in front of everyone can cause serious damage toone's self esteem...radha as a mother as a mother has all the right to show her daughter the right path but as a human being we shouldnt degrade anyone...least of all our kids that too in front of everyone.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm...Me Thinks this is expereince talking.......😉

Me is having hearty laugh thinking this could be Apu jaan as the giver and Sharmii as a receiver....

Me also thinks Sharmii ne Apu Jaan ka peecha na chodena ki kasam khai hai....hence the repecurssion!!!

Me seriously thinks it's time you sudharo Sharmi!!!!!!!😆😆