Troublesome burden of truth... 26.8.2015 - Page 2

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Posted: 10 years ago
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dnt knw whts wrng happen with ths cv's.1st thy copy pasting tracks of s1,2...thn ths women's marriage issue.aise dikhate hai jaise marraige ho gaya to mahan kuch kar lia.aaj kal kon karta hai aisa?1st gv the girl smtime to stand on her own thn decide na.infact in reality many rural areas aaj vi aisa hota hai jaha log kehte hai "kanyadan mahan daan"...its ppl's thinking..& abt kainath i wish cv's shw smthing new lk gv kainath some time,to think of herslf,try to bring bk her SELF-CONFIDENCE...thts the main thng which is missing wheather it was nikhat or nw kainath.my skintone is also dark & some of my relatives still taunt me...at 1st i feel bad bt nw i jst totaly ignore thm.my father is very frndly with me.he says whtever i wnt love or arrange marraige he hv no issue in any way.infact he said b4 i fully commit to sm1 or strt dating or decide to love any1 thn i shud tell him so tht he cn do a bkgrnd check of tht guy...lol.he gv me the right to study furthur,stand on my own,he will see suitors only whn i wil agree whr my grandmom-aunty-uncle & some relatives wnt main graduation k baad shaadi kar lun.i m only child of my parents bt i saw my papa to do a proper bg check b4 all my cousins,masi's marraige.
(p.s-btw,isnt a article b4 leap stated tht this seasn will b same lk s1 whr to chnge the mindset.in s1 thy shws nikhat's case,zoya wearing jeans,didnt knw household works,modeling of a girl,eveteasing,dowry system,corrupt police officers,didnt cr abt law attitude...etc etc smthing lk social issues.i thnk thts why we r seeing same thing.)
now,abt the epi...full of drama...i appriciete tht atleast azad gv a chance to explain mahira bt i will b more happy agar ye dono vai azad-amad sachme kuch kaam me ate.i lk tht mahira said 'jaha izzat nehi waha nehi rehna chahiye".akram's truth will cm wheathr sooner or later bt whnever cm i wnt mahira will nt stay in KM.ya,she alredy thrown out bt i dnt wnt she cm bk awayi...atleast thy shud say sorry to mahira,specialy KB&azad.& mahira also shud stand for her slf respect,sunaoing thm a gd lesson.come on she isnt thr naukrani-she jst help her sis-she is doing a job.i think tht slap kuchg zyada ho gaya.& seriously itna nosy hone ki kya zarurat...felt very bad whn azad throw mahira out.lets see how akram's truth cm out & how azad react.
lovely gif ani.i like it as usual.&ya,i also thnk microwave se kuch isse hai-zoya baked CD,sanam's accidnt twice nw mahira..hehe!lol.infact i said aloud firse microwave...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Minding her own business? Well so then Mahira shouldn't have tried to tell the truth and quietly watched Kainat marry a guy who was outrightly lying about his values and relationship?

Mahira infact had told Zora on the phone that she cannot help her solve her personal problems. Even yesterday while packing her suitcase she said Mujhe kya hai? (Why should I care?) But then she has high regards for Kainat, who she knows is innocent and needs help now that her family members are not doing the needful.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikita_Smith

Minding her own business? Well so then Mahira shouldn't have tried to tell the truth and quietly watched Kainat marry a guy who was outrightly lying about his values and relationship?

Mahira infact had told Zora on the phone that she cannot help her solve her personal problems. Even yesterday while packing her suitcase she said Mujhe kya hai? (Why should I care?) But then she has high regards for Kainat, who she knows is innocent and needs help now that her family members are not doing the needful.


I agree ! Which brings us to my title. For Mahira , the burden of truth is upon her. And because Kainat and her are friends, she felt a responsibility to prevent a bad thing.

Maybe the execution was a little unfortunate.😆...

Maybe she could've spoke to KB alone or Naser sahab. Before making big tamasha in front of all. Best would be if she told Kainat herself.

I suppose they could argue there wasn't any time... *scratches head.* I guess everything went wrong super fast.

I like her monologues. Esp when she says "as it is I should have said my bye-byes to this house and gone. Why should I bother? "

But her conscience would have haunted her.

Still a house servant involving herself in important events like an engagement would have raised a lot of irritation in real life.

Full on drama!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Az07

Even after 50 yes nothing changes ( including all the leaps)
Only marriage matters for a women
50 yrs back they made such a big issue about a 20 yr old nikhat's marriage after 50 yrs Kainat is in that position. Mahira should leave the house. She has a job & she should find a hostel to stay rather than staying with people who don't love her or respect her. The Khan family deserves all the heartbreak for not searching the background of the groom even after Mahira's warning.
Why all Gul Khan heroines are butting into someone else business? Khushi, Zoya, Sanam, Jannat & now Mahira
Only Seher was not like that. She minded her own business


For a change , the family allowed her to prove what she was saying. Even Amaad said, "Let her finish what she was saying! Let's hear her out." And they went to see the proof she offered.

Should've ringed alarm bells on at least the Daddy and Bhaijaan's head- , More investigation required.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I have not seen the episode. In fact not at all this week. Very busy week for me I have house guests again! I just wanted to comment on the regressive marriage obsession. Honestly what is wrong with people? 50 years in future and STILL obsessed with marrying the daughter off to any old D**k? I agree my little girl is my princess and I will never give her to any creep! My parents didn't give me to a creep. They married me to the man of MY choice when I was ready. So the same will apply to my daughter. But they were only Happy about me getting married to my husband coz they knew he was a good guy from a good family. They were certainly not interested in me marrying "anyone". But then I married after graduating Uni and working for a few years. Not some child bride! 😡

Don't know why it feels like QH land is frozen in time? The same things that happened to Nikhat is now happening to this girl? Same desperation to marry off daughter with "defect". At least here this girl actually has a handicap? But Nikaht was just dark skinned? But that was considered a handicap too! Mahira is clearly up in other people's business. It seems all Gul heroine's can't get out of Mahaan zone. Zoya was like that. Sanam as herself and even as Jannat was ready to get up in everyone's business. (Sanam was a little bit better as herself but as Jannat she was super nosy). Same applies to Mahira. I agree with AZ07, only Seher minded her own business. She only interfered when it applied to her own sister. That is all. But she was not into "solving problems of the world". Maybe coz from childhood she had to be practical and solve her own!


The setting seems frozen in time in a reclused isolated place.
If at all it is still the former Ibrahim Mansion (a.k.a Siddiqui Mansion) it seems overgrown with forest and wilderness. When before Aahil's house was in the city.

Mahira was burdened with the truth. A truth that will save a friend. How can she keep it to herself?

But i agree she could've handled it better. Seriously she shouldn't stay in that house any longer. She has a job and means.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: GitaIyer

Full on Drama wala episode. was predictable, but still made for a good watch.

Good post Sage. And you've raised some very valid points.
Fully agree, this obsession with getting girls married off is too regressive. Its not like that in reality, at least not nowadays. Maybe in illiterate rural pockets, this obsession continues, but certainly not in educated and urban families like the Khan Begum and Anand Kumar Family.
The worst part was, no one, neither the parents nor brothers bothered to ask Kaynaat's opinion and fixed the mrg the moment groom said yes. And they all profess to love Kaynaat. One small scene asking her opinion before finaizing, would've at least made it look a lil legit.

Mahira, was right in her place, and the family right in their place. They heard out her part and agreed to see her proofs. Akram had manipulated everything beforehand, so both end up losing.
Mahira crying while leaving the house - was not really necessary. I didn't like that part.



So true! Nobody asked for what Kainat wanted. Did she like the groom? So whoever said yes to her, she must just accept? They are rich people, they shouldn't be so hard up to just shove off their precious daughter to any man.

Still it's 40 years since Zoya, and still a girl is expected to be marriage able to be acceptable.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Even 200 years later, same story.
Some daughter is getting married to a jerk. ONLY the heroine knows the truth. Hero, his family are blindfolded. And, the heroine proves herself to be a hero by proving an obvious truth.😆

I am glad I am not watching this.

P.S. Mahira is whose daughter? Is this a completely new character with no biological connection with any Ibrahims or Qureshis or Khans?😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: najma123

Even 200 years later, same story.

Some daughter is getting married to a jerk. ONLY the heroine knows the truth. Hero, his family are blindfolded. And, the heroine proves herself to be a hero by proving an obvious truth.😆

I am glad I am not watching this.

P.S. Mahira is whose daughter? Is this a completely new character with no biological connection with any Ibrahims or Qureshis or Khans?😆


There appears to be no connection between Mahira and her previous humshakals. Last we saw was Sanam dying on the cliff and Mahira being born. Not sure if it was simultaneous 😕

If so, azaad and Mahira are the same age. 25
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -jawaria-

Nice post sage. Episode was nice with full drama.

Poor Mahira . Felt bad for her.
Amaad is such a cool character. He was so chill in such a situation 😆


Thanks jawaria ... it appears Mahira has very thick skin too. All that beizzati from KB and Azaad and her step-sisters , and she's still upbeat and rearing to do the right thing.

I am very curious as to who is going to warm up to Mahira. Amaad has already shown willingness to hear her out and admiring her spunk... "I like you...!" and Mahira going ...

Wonder who's going to spoil the blue flower search. . Awaited for 4 years... Yipes. Sound like a disaster waiting to happen.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thank you!!😳

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