How will Sanam come back from this? - Page 2

How will Sanam come back from this? This is a very scary question and I think no one will be able to answer that. Her life revolves solely around shaad...shaad...shaad...effing shaad 😡. I can't comprehend that she can be so spiteful towards Aahil, but with shaad she's just a weak puppet clinging onto him and an air headed dumbo.

Originally posted by: mahwash22

Exactly! This is what I was thinking all day. I was rolling my eyes by all the Vamps! Oh, please.. Get over it already.. Again, I am so tired of their negative ideas.

Jannat is so lost in Shaad.. Not even for a second is she thinking about herself.. It's all about what her neek like shouhar will think. She cannot think about anything or anyone. But really, all Shaad is doing lately is demanding silly things from her (cake, suit) and ignoring Jannat (her dress).

I am failing to understand how this would play out.
Today he didn't even spare to take a look at her. Not just one glance. She was so uncomfortable and I kind of felt bad for her.

Oh Sanam.. How are you going to survive all this? What will happen once your memory returns?

Let us have the big showdown between Aahil and Shaad. Let us know what the two men think and what they'll do to get Jannat/Sanam.

Show us some action! It's time to unleash the hidden fury, Aahil Raza Ibrahim. Only that way Shaad will react n show his real face to the audince..

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Hey Ani,

Good post. I have yet to watch any of these episodes. Still almost 2 weeks behind. But still I know what you are saying. My problem with all this was always how Sanam is effected by all this! I felt bad that Sanam who was always such an independent girl, was reduced to the level of thinking of herself ONLY as someone's wife! It was SO not her, from the moment she started to mindlessly dance at Shaad's wedding without a second thought to her mental trauma. All we are still seeing is an extension of that!

The writers should start caring for their characters, really. As much as they like their vamps.

What they have done to Sanam is unforgivable.

I mean, what can SJ do if the writers have written Jannat like this?

The problem is that the only thing she thinks she knows about herself is a LIE! This Shaad ki Biwi thing is the biggest lie of her life and she considers it the biggest truth. She thinks she is trying to maintain this relationship in good faith, and show as much faithfulness as she can muster. The problem for her is that it's not coming naturally. She herself does not understand the reason for the un-ease. She must think it's coz of memory loss that she feels this disconnect from Shaad. She cares for him of course and "loves" him even as we would someone we become close to. But she herself has acknowledged that it is not the "Mohobaat" that changes your life. So she knows she is not "In love". THAT is the word. She knows she cares for Shaad, and she call it "love" as she believes she should love him, as he is her husband. She thinks she is committed to him. But she also knows she is not "In love" with him. Because somewhere in that fogged brain of her's, she KNOWS what being "In love" felt like. Because she has been in love before. So she compares that vague memory to the way she feels now and she knows it does NOT compare!

You said it perfectly !
She thinks she should love her husband, who she identifies as Shaad. She doesn't feel it as earth shattering or life changing, but she clings on to it as he has saved her so many times and she feels she owes it to him to try hard.

I love what you said about "should love' and "in love with". Big difference there.

I hope they don't drag this out too long... not everyone can remind themselves of her plight when she keeps yelling at Aahil ...

We all know Sanam has always been her worst critic. Let's hope she does not hate herself for not realizing that she was barking up the wrong tree for so long. But you have to remember this is NOT her fault. She was lied to in the worst possible way. Her trust was betrayed in the worst way! Her mental state is getting more and more messed up. What she needs is a psychiatrist at the end of all this. Because her head has been messed with so much. Also, the GALL of Shaad to think that writing her a lame letter after lying to her for SO long will be "Acceptable?". How insulting? He should have looked her in the EYE and told her the truth. THEN he can act in this entitled and pompous way he is acting now! How dare he make her feel guilty after what HE did? Makes me even more angry with this man who does Herogiri with a terrorist, but does not have the guts to look this women he has lied to in the eyes, and tell her he is NOT her husband and never was!

Exactly ! None of this was her fault ..

Which is why I was so disgusted, nauseated and revolted, repulsed, sickened (Yeah, brought out the thesaurus there😆) when Sanam2 took that meagre excuse of a confession letter and destroyed it !! ARGhhh!!! I hate that woman!

Because now it becomes Sanam2's fault, not Shaad's because he thinks he has confessed. Ugh. Yuck.

The sooner Sanam gets away from him the better! Can't happen fast enough! His presence in her life is toxic for her now. The GUILT she feels for not feeling as she feels she SHOULD for him, is messing with her mental health even more than before. This is NOT good!

Which is why it's good that Shaad is distracted with Sir Juda and SK. Leaving Jannat in Aahil's hands.

But why did they have to bring back S2's magic? 🤢

Originally posted by: tangam_5620

😭 don't worry Gul have solution for this situation...maybe bring another hero to take over sanam...or make sanam's position more difficult and she goes to mental hospital...n chudails will happier in IM with Shaad, Shaif...etc...so, we hv not to disturb our mind for this story...cause is totally confused ready...

Originally posted by: fanraya

I fully agree with you, awesome post, I am so sad to see our Sanam;s state right now, I just can not take this Jannat anymore, Poor Aahil, I truly feel for him.. When we are going to get back our Sahil, I hope by the time its not too late.. I am sick and tired of her Shaad Jaap, Its just getting too much now.. I do not get it when this will end..and by the time it ends, when Sanam comes back, how is she going to tackle this whole Shaad fake marriage thing.. Anyway about the episode, I am so sick and tired of this OTT sanam2 and Shashi kapoor, can we get something new? what;s with same old Shitty tricks.. Anyway I just want my Jallad Jin back.. I want my Sahil back, although I am not sure if its too late now..😕

Originally posted by: radadolcevida

She will like other characters did before her

Asad after his slap

gaffur after his cowardness

Aahil after his rude behavior

Seher after the switch

So I guess Gul & co knows how to bring back character to be appreciated by the viewers

But for sure knowing Sanam's mentality and personality, she will be hurt. Her obsession was just a way to shut up her inner voice, the Sanam inside of her trying to wake up. The only thing that she remember was him and her world turned around Shaad, so for sure, she will be obsessed by the only thing that gave her an identity. Remember in the first episode of QH3, she was walking lost tryin to find food and to find herself and Shaad came as a savior.

It's just Stockholm syndrome, ( wikipedia definition : or capture-bonding, is a psychological phenomenon in which hostages express empathy and sympathy and have positive feelings toward their captors). For us, he is her captor but for her he is her world. All will finish the day she will realize that she had an identity, a family and a husband.

Ouch !!!! Shaad is going to be hurt in turn.

Those days, I really appreciate Aahil's characters, many said that he was weak but I can guarantee that hiding the truth for her, accepting all her tantrums and anger without even blasting at her, he had to be really strong in his head to face all of this. Aahil has really grow up as a man and I am really surprised.

Everything was not perfect with him but still, he is still good.

Originally posted by: fanraya

I fully agree with you, awesome post, I am so sad to see our Sanam;s state right now, I just can not take this Jannat anymore, Poor Aahil, I truly feel for him.. When we are going to get back our Sahil, I hope by the time its not too late.. I am sick and tired of her Shaad Jaap, Its just getting too much now.. I do not get it when this will end..and by the time it ends, when Sanam comes back, how is she going to tackle this whole Shaad fake marriage thing.. Anyway about the episode, I am so sick and tired of this OTT sanam2 and Shashi kapoor, can we get something new? what;s with same old Shitty tricks.. Anyway I just want my Jallad Jin back.. I want my Sahil back, although I am not sure if its too late now..😕

Originally posted by: darkice7_12

Very thoughtful post, and more in depth than what this show is capable of exploring now.

I hate to be cynical about this, but I expect them to be moving on after a couple of episodes dealing with the fallout of her memory return/truth coming out.

The writers/CVs don't have the guts to actually deal with the mess they have created. From the way they've treated this track up until now, I expect to see no repercussions and no trauma suffered by Sanam or Aahil. I still can't believe that they have Aahil "allowing" (yes, I hate that word, too) his wife to sleep in a room with a strange man, without any effort to separate them over some trumped up reason! No one sane does that . . . not because of jealousy but because of the danger his wife would be in. What if Shaad decides to give in and ends up violating her?

In reality . . . okay in the fiction world, if we were being true to the characters we had gotten to know way back in the beginning . .. that Sanam would be disgusted with herself. Heartbroken for hurting the man she loved . . . and raining fire on the man who deceived her so thoroughly. Recovery would take a long, long time.