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They hate Ahil because he was a womaniser and treated girls disrespectfully because he had a relationship with them outside of marriage (true, he was by the way) but shaad has also misused a girl deluded her into thinking that she's in a relationship with him, he is having feelings for a woman he knows has lost her memory and knows already loves someone else. Although shaad may have good intentions he and ahil are wrong and have both or are both disrespecting women.
Some people say they hate ahil because he manhandled sanam and abused her (which he did) , well didn't rehaan also manhandle seher after the whole tanveer poison drama when he forced her into the room and shut the door on her hand. Even though what rehaan did was only small, it cannot be excused. Physical abuse is physical abuse no matter how big or small it is, which means in this respect ahil and rehaan are both wrong, not just ahil. Although shaad may not have physicallly abused sanam, imagine what sanam would go through mentally once she knows about shaads lie as she has been living with someone thats not her husband. Same thing, its wrong. All of them have or are abusing women.
Some people say they hate ahil because he still needs to be redeemed. Despite asking for forgiveness and despite being wrong because of the actions of other people he still asked for forgiveness, yet somehow no matter what he does he s unredeemable? You do remove sehers mistake right? She exchanged places with a woman she didn't know just for money and destroyed a relationship, yet not once has she said sorry, yet she is redeemed? Rehan let his brother live in a lie, yet he was redeemed? (I'm talking about before he got shot to save ahil) In that case if ahil is not redeemable despite saying sorry then the other two especially seher should definitely not be redeemed, I would have loved her even more if she apologised to ahil and sanam just once.
Look, heres my point. The is not a comparison post on who is the better character, because in fact non of the characters are angels.We all love our favourite characters despite their flaws. However, i can see on many posts that in order to defend a certain character another characters weak points have been bought in. But we have to remember, no matter how small or big a mistake the character has committed, they are mistakes, you cannot defend the same action of one character no matter how small it is and hate another character if they commit the same mistake. You cannot have a certain set of moral codes for one character and a different set for another character.
P.S. I am not asking you to like or dislike a certain character, we all have our own tastes an can like or dislike whoever we want. Every single character on here has committed the same mistakes as each other.
