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Posted: 10 years ago
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Are you honestly promoting suicide for an amnesiac woman's so called guilt and shame?😲👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: In-Sanity-Metis

Are you honestly promoting suicide for an amnesiac woman's so called guilt and shame?😲👏


Where did I mention suicide? may be you shouldn't jump to conclusion about what i promote and not.
FYI- people do die of broken heart, guilt & shame.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: In-Sanity-Metis

Are you honestly promoting suicide for an amnesiac woman's so called guilt and shame?😲👏


we are Sanam's fans which u r not so let teh Sanam fans decide what they want for her .

U can go on about Jannat the way u want to
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: In-Sanity-Metis

Are you honestly promoting suicide for an amnesiac woman's so called guilt and shame?😲👏


Since many are promoting the lying to and taking advantage of an amnesiac women... how is this different? Even if she had amnesia, it was coz she believed a total strangers lies that she has landed in the situation that she is in.


He had a chance to tell her the truth, after meeting with the doctor, but as soon as he mentioned that "Regaining her old memories might make her forget new ones!" he went to panic mode and decided to play along faking to be her husband. Then of course we all know what happened at the wedding etc.


When a women feels that she has been violated, sometimes she feels like you dont want to live. In this case, if Sanam feels weighed down with shame and guilt that is a natural reaction to a women who realises she cheated on her partner. (not by her will, but by omission). But the fact remains, she cheated and she will feel shame and guilt and want to die! (I doubt she really will), but that is what it feels like! Also, nowhere is suicide mentioned!


You feel unclean, and violated. That is the most natural reaction! Any married women would know. That would be like the worst thing in the world. If it happened to me, I think I will loose it. That is why this storyline offends me so much and I can never support it. Because you know how much it hurts if someone cons you into a fake intimacy and you realise that that was totally wrong! I can imagine how terrible she will feel and it pains me!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: flora212

which show😲 I voted for 1 😆

KV's new show.which will happen once he's liberated from this non-sense.😆

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I hope she gains back her memory soon and commits suicide or something ,or shashi kapoor should kill her ... there is no seher , no rehan , now aahil is going to have some changes in face and personality so there is no reason for sanam to stay back ...this should happen so tht surbhi can finally bid farewell to the crapfest ...
they can run the show with aahil -2 sanam-2 or some new entry can fall in love with new aahil.. shaad can marry misbah ...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan


Since many are promoting the lying to and taking advantage of an amnesiac women... how is this different? Even if she had amnesia, it was coz she believed a total strangers lies that she has landed in the situation that she is in.


He had a chance to tell her the truth, after meeting with the doctor, but as soon as he mentioned that "Regaining her old memories might make her forget new ones!" he went to panic mode and decided to play along faking to be her husband. Then of course we all know what happened at the wedding etc.


When a women feels that she has been violated, sometimes she feels like you dont want to live. In this case, if Sanam feels weighed down with shame and guilt that is a natural reaction to a women who realises she cheated on her partner. (not by her will, but by omission). But the fact remains, she cheated and she will feel shame and guilt and want to die! (I doubt she really will), but that is what it feels like! Also, nowhere is suicide mentioned!


You feel unclean, and violated. That is the most natural reaction! Any married women would know. That would be like the worst thing in the world. If it happened to me, I think I will loose it. That is why this storyline offends me so much and I can never support it. Because you know how much it hurts if someone cons you into a fake intimacy and you realise that that was totally wrong! I can imagine how terrible she will feel and it pains me!



I don't understand your reasoning. She hasn't done anything to feel guilty or shame for. They live in separate rooms. She saw him in his boxers? You do that when you go swimming too, married women do go for swims and do see half naked men there. What else? Did they kiss? No. Did they consummate? No. So how exactly did she cheat on Aahil to presume that she will "die" of guilt and shame? And no, don't just presume that she may do all those stuff, you can't punish someone on your presumptions and assumptions. "Die" due to being used? Girls get used a lot worse in this world, would you expect them to die of shame and guilt? No, right? Then why such expectations from Sanam? A life is not a joke. Dying is never a good enough punishment for anyone but awful sinners like serial killers and terrorists. Sanam is hardly that.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: In-Sanity-Metis



I don't understand your reasoning. She hasn't done anything to feel guilty or shame for. They live in separate rooms. She saw him in his boxers? You do that when you go swimming too, married women do go for swims and do see half naked men there. What else? Did they kiss? No. Did they consummate? No. So how exactly did she cheat on Aahil to presume that she will "die" of guilt and shame? And no, don't just presume that she may do all those stuff, you can't punish someone on your presumptions and assumptions. "Die" due to being used? Girls get used a lot worse in this world, would you expect them to die of shame and guilt? No, right? Then why such expectations from Sanam? A life is not a joke. Dying is never a good enough punishment for anyone but awful sinners like serial killers and terrorists. Sanam is hardly that.


fizool hai doesnt make any sense, if her twin sis seher died what will she do living ? all she got is pain staying in ibrahim mansion !! poor soul always been the target everywhere, in india as well as in pak .. enough is enough, if she gains back her memory , instead of getting targetted by witches and vamps, its better she says alvida 😆 who cares 😉 dont mind, if they can kill rehaan , seher just like that, this is nothing wat say ? 😛
Edited by tejaswie - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tejaswie


fizool hai doesnt make any sense, if her twin sis seher died what will she do living ? all she got is pain staying in ibrahim mansion !! poor soul always been the target everywhere, in india as well as in pak .. enough is enough, if she gains back her memory , instead of getting targetted by witches and vamps, its better she says alvida 😆 who cares 😉 dont mind, if they can kill rehaan , seher just like that, this is nothing wat say ? 😛



Makes sense😆 Death is better than going back to IM. 🤣 That place is officially the bhootiya haveli now. 🤣


Edited by In-Sanity-Metis - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@ In-Sanity-Matis:

You are taking everything I said out of context! I never said she should "literally die!" I said she would feel like dying coz she will feel guilt.


I seriously do not think you can equate seeing men in swimming trucks to what happened here? Sanam even saw Aahil in his swimming cargo pants. That is a totally different thing. That is a very detached situation and there is no intimacy is seeing someone in swim wear! But a man being in the same room with you in an "un-clad" state, is a very different thing!


If I walked into a room with a man in boxers or underwear I would feel embarrassed. Coz that is an intimate situation. If it was my husband, I will not! THAT is what I mean. This girl thinks this man is her husband. So the natural limits you would put on your interactions with the opposite sex, you will not put here! She has been mislead into thinking they have an intimate relationship. That is a violation!


Also, this story has not played out yet. They could easily end up in a VERY compromising situation. Then what will Sanam do? When she realises that that should not have happened? Sanam used to share the house with Rehan too? Has she seen him in his underwear? No. That is coz there were boundaries in their relationship. This girl dosent know her boundary with this man, coz she has no idea they have no relationship to each other! THAT is what I object to! No matter how it is dressed up, she is a married women being put in a compromising position with another male! Not something any women would enjoy experiencing once she knows what the true sitiation is!

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