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Posted: 11 years ago
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Their pain made me cry today. The poor things. Sanam was hurt, Aahil was devastated. The hurt in his eyes, his heartbreak?? It was so tough to watch. Yet he STILL came to Haya's wedding for her! Isi Ko Toh Mohobaat kehetain hain!


You know I once heard that John F Kennedy Junior and Caroline Bisset had a very tumultuous relationship. (Sadly they died a few years after their marriage in a plan crash. He was flying). I read somewhere that he was truly in love with her and went through a lot, with some of the issues they had. I think there was a rumour she took drugs and cheated on him or something. But I don't know the truth of all that. The reason I brought it up, is because JFK Jnr, was known to be a ladies man before he married Caroline. But people who knew him said that what he felt for her was "The real deal". Today when Aahil entered that wedding wearing that Tux, I suddenly thought of JFK Jnr and Caroline.


I guess when true love happens, whoever we used to be no longer matters. The only thing that matters is the person we love. The person we changed ourselves for. Aahil has changed himself so much for Sanam. I don't think he changed necessarily hoping for her to feel the same about him. (Which I am sure he does want), but I think he changed mostly just because he wanted to. Their love story is actually one of the most touching I have seen in a 4 Lions show. Aahil I think is the first 4 Lions hero that wore his heart on his sleeve the way that he has! It is very emotional. Junoon Tere Ishq Ka!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Serendipity.

OMG I love that Simba and Nala gif you posted! Love Lion King, fav Disney movie of all time. :)
Thanks!😉
Anyway, on tonight's episode, it was dramatic from start to finish, but thoroughly enjoyable.

Started with SaHil intense and passionate fight. I agree both overreacted. Both are idiots! 😆 I have to say, I loved the way KV emoted with his eyes in that scene. After Sanam said that she needs freedom from him and their fake marriage...the way his heart shattered to smithereens, he made it so palpable.
Imagine, she just got accused of theft and greed by his mother, she'd barely recovered before he used the word behudaa harkat on her!!! And he wonders why she flipped like that. She's incredibly hurt, poor girl...

My fav scene from today though has to be that beautiful and poignant Aahil and Haya scene. The way he apologised and blessed her like an elder touched the heart. Even Sanam was touched. :) It looked like she wanted to say thanks but he walked past her still upset...
That was a beautiful touch... bringing her gifts and blessing her with such affection. Aahil was solid GOLD...! But he wasn't ready to be nice to Sanam yet... but she definitely was willing to forget their awful fight. Sanam really has to control her anger...
I agree about the wedding, it was truly atrocious. Utterly distasteful to have a deaf and mute girl married off like that...this kind of mundane lunacy does not happen in real life. But I don't wish to talk about this wedding and ruin my mood sorry. :( Felt like punching Faiz at one point...
Can you believe how he was? He was saying his vows like he was buying a car or something, so childish... 😕

About the precap and spoiler, I think (or I hope) Aahil saves Dilshaad and gets hurt in the process and Sanam takes care of him. It looked like they were at a hospital from that spoiler pic KV posted. I so want such a scene to happen so we get to see Sanam's side of feelings. Or she gets an inkling that she wants to care for him and is affected by him being hurt...

Interesting you should want that😆
I want Aahil to shout out his love first. As this 'I know you hate me...' dialogue will just go on if she expresses her love first...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Their pain made me cry today. The poor things. Sanam was hurt, Aahil was devastated. The hurt in his eyes, his heartbreak?? It was so tough to watch. Yet he STILL came to Haya's wedding for her! Isi Ko Toh Mohobaat kehetain hain!



You know I once heard that John F Kennedy Junior and Caroline Bisset had a very tumultuous relationship. (Sadly they died a few years after their marriage in a plan crash. He was flying). I read somewhere that he was truly in love with her and went through a lot, with some of the issues they had. I think there was a rumour she took drugs and cheated on him or something. But I don't know the truth of all that. The reason I brought it up, is because JFK Jnr, was known to be a ladies man before he married Caroline. But people who knew him said that what he felt for her was "The real deal". Today when Aahil entered that wedding wearing that Tux, I suddenly thought of JFK Jnr and Caroline.


I guess when true love happens, whoever we used to be no longer matters. The only thing that matters is the person we love. The person we changed ourselves for. Aahil has changed himself so much for Sanam. I don't think he changed necessarily hoping for her to feel the same about him. (Which I am sure he does want), but I think he changed mostly just because he wanted to. Their love story is actually one of the most touching I have seen in a 4 Lions show. Aahil I think is the first 4 Lions hero that wore his heart on his sleeve the way that he has! It is very emotional. Junoon Tere Ishq Ka!




More than Aahil 'wanting' to change, or saying he changed because he wanted to.. I feel, this is how the real Aahil always was, and is! He had changed after the incident in his childhood with his dad. Sanam was able to bring out the old him, his love for her brought out the real him.. After all, love is the cure, it's the medicine for all emotional ailments :) you can't beat hatred with hate, but only, love can do that.. Change you.. And most importantly.. HEAL you... :) and this is exactly what's happening here, with Aahil, to Aahil :)
Edited by rouble_lover - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: KhatamKahani

I haven't watched yet so am not reading what has happened. I am trying to not spoil myself before I watch

Go watch quick !!!😆
I just skipped down to whether the marriage happened or not. Truly distasteful. If ratings go down, it's deserved. Sorry to say this. It was so sad for me to watch and see what has happening all week. However TRP audience may not care. They have shown again and again they have no problem with a woman in a marriage as a victim.
It was contentious, this weird nikah rasm. Where I am, the bride's face is not hidden nor is the groom's. The bride can see the groom say his vows and he hers. I don't understand the hidden face custom.( I am an Indian Muslim in Malaysia btw, maybe the custom is different )
To me there are only two ways this can be made better. 1) Haya clears it up ASAP and demands annulment. This seems unlikely, and even if it happens, I have no interest in watching it if it drags. Second option is what I was talking about yesterday. Fair dies ASAP. Haya is still an unfortunate victim here, yes. But it gives a track to RaHa.

I feel Sanam and Rahat should both feel horrible when they find out. They have failed her horribly there🥱
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think they will hug each other when Ahil saves Badi ammi. She will say thank you and they will have a junoon moment maybe. She might say sorry and their love will rise Even more 😃 😃 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post!
U described the whole episode and every character view point so wonderfully
I liked the fight because according to spoilers ahil or sanam is going to be hospitalized, so one of them should feel guilty about the fight(hope it is sanam). Than we would be able to see sanam taking care of injured ahil
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rakshaanra

Indeed.
If India has a society for the impaired they must protest, everyone has the right to communication esp if it involves marriage

I think India probably has, but for dramatic purposes the CVs are using religion as a convenient scapegoat for injustice to women. I agree there are a lot of injustices in all religions, to women in particular.
This particular instance it's a distasteful to show a much loved girl with a disability (as opposed to those deemed a burden) be mistreated in this manner. It was a cheap half thought up social message wannabe.

But I must say, QH is not a place to learn about Islamic law and cultures. If you took these things shown here seriously one would be super pissed now.😆

Chill !! I'm here for SaHil !!!😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't even understand the whole thing! How does the bride not know who she is marrying?! Rahat just sled her, I remember when he was, she was too busy looking around shyly to even understand what he was saying.. He was also very vague, like he didn't ask her reasons.. Etc. just because his bro wanted it, he went ahead with it.. WTH!

Also, Faiz is more immature than Ayan.. Even the old Ayan! I don't understand how they cld even think of this match ! Craziness!

And I missed a few Epis, why would Sanam feel horrible abt it ? Did she want anything to do with the misunderstanding? I'm confused.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sahil333

Just saw the epi. Wonderful post Sage, thank you. Your 1st and 4th gifs, how fitting are those! I cried when he said "I know that", and was feeling very sad and 💔 Even now when I'm typing this I get teary eyed 😭 😭 , Aah man!!!

You know he's a little childish when he throws a tantrum and flings harsh words at her, but looks all devastated when she retaliates and reciprocates his actions😆...
He threw the tux she gave him in anger, but when she threw out his gifts, he looked horrified, like "No! You don't do that please !!"

She gives back tit for tat. When he is kind she is super kind back at him; when he is angry, she is just as angry; imagine when they are in love how would they be ...?
Aahil, just tell her what your feelings are man, you are just hurting yourself and her. (And btw, if you don't know it yet, us too 😔) . And Sanam, ask him what's bothering him, just try to talk it out. But these two are so damn stubborn. 😡
That's why i believe this hospital-rescue drama is leading to his expression of love. She throws it in his face over and over "I know you hate me..." It's about to boil over...
"He flings the tux she gave him on the bed, degrading it. Sanam retaliates by flinging all his ehsaan gifts, the dresses, as he watches in horror, and stops her from discarding the last one, a deep red colored one." THIS was sad, but at the same time (in a way) also funny how horrified Aahil was. I felt it for him and I think he just then realized that Sanam was hurting. But, she was not done yet, the hurtful things that she said to him. Ooh Sanam, why!!
I think he stops himself from saying that awful thing about her honour because he sensed he was losing control. He walked out in anger. ANd she leaves for the wedding alone. While he is cooling down he thinks back on how hurt she looked and how she was crying when he accused her.
Then he remembers how grateful she was when he stood up for her that very morning to his Ammi. She was so happy that he was by her side. Then he goes and does this. When all she was doing is telling Rehan how good Aahil is.
I half wish he had thrown a punch in Rehan, so Rehan can tell him that she was only talking about him the whole time !!!

Sanam's outburst is due to her unhappiness of her badi ammi situation. If only Aahil knew that! Sadly, Aahil confronting her was the straw that broke the camel.
So glad it has cooled down at the end, phew! 😊 . Even though Aahil was hurting, he just can't let Sanam go. His love for her won't let a tiff between them ruin their relationship that's evolving. I think deep down inside, he knows that she didn't meant it, coz she is also taking baby steps to care for him. And she also knows that he cares for her. 😉
Him coming and acting so graciously despite their awful fight suggests he had some time to think about how she reacts to his accusations. Just like how her furious jealousy about his friend changed him instantly...😳

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