DIARY 10: Apr 18-And The Curtain Falls..Qubool Hai.pg 59...QH 2link.p1 - Page 45

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

u posted after so long ...maine wu nhi padha ...i just read two topics in past two days wich say tanu destroyed everything ...n i dont ve guts to read or watch it ...

Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

and u have promised that u will not. And u know the reason why. Rather take my advice and watch some cartoons. Aladin and Jasmine for instance.😳

yeah baby 😳 i wont read or watch it ...

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Diary of a QHian: And the Curtain Falls...Qubool Hai.

Dear diary,

There is a smile in my heart despite the heaviness that the episode has freshly imprinted on my heart. So we bid adieu to season one of QH...Its been one heck of a journey...for the protagonists...for the actors...for the team...for the audience..DRAMA IN REAL LIFE!😲😳

I never thought I d say Qubool Hai to Gul killing off a romantic pair...par karna pad reha hai.😕 I know many will firmly disagree with me. But then, that is what the show is about...Qubool Hai...No matter what...The Show Must Go On. And if Gul wants to see if a season 2 will work out, what better platform than a channel that wants to hang on to her and an actress who is bankable. And considering Asad had died many months back for her😭, when KSG wanted to quit with a 4 month notice...all I can say is..I am glad AsYa is together...😊

I, Asad Ahmed Khan, take you Zoya Faruqui, to be my wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part...correction...even death cannot part us...That is the most beautiful parting gift Gul gave as she sailed out of season 1...A happily ever after AsYa...TOGETHER FOREVER!

A quick peek into the fate of the characters that held us bound to the screen over the past months...😊

Rashid: He has waited all his life to be reconciled to Najma and Asad..and now they are with him. He had the good fortune to be forgiven of his sins before he left for his heavenly abode.

Dilshad: A Woman who has lost everything? A few moments back, she was holding on to her husband's picture...missing him in her life...and now she is running away with her grandchildren. She could easily give up this fight..but she has been left in charge..as the guardian angel to the children of her children. Indeed, Najma was foreseeing the future of her daughter when she exclaimed that her daughter was closer to Dilshad.

Najma: Loved the parting shot.👏 And the parting words👏...the events of her short life play out before her eyes...and all of them are happy memories. She leaves a loving family behind...but there is a smile on her lip..a peacefulness on her face as she utters Qubool Hai...to the call from her heavenly father. (I loved the flashback of the wedding scene here...Najma was saying Qubool Hai as she entered a new life with Imran..and now she was saying the same, as she entered another realm of existence...)

Shireen: She is a woman who loved her husband over anything else...now she lives...for her children. She has come a long way, by accepting Dilshad as her sister...but she has to live on with the pain of separation...in a world alien to her, until she is called.

Nikhat: The girl who was pried out of her shell..who could proudly look up to her dead father in heaven, and tell him that she had made him proud...she had learned to live! She is ready for the storms that life has in store...another Dilshad has been born...nothing can wither her spirit now.

Ayan: A boy had grown up...stepped out of the shadows of his father and brother. He may or may not have forgiven his father...but he lost everything when he lost his Humeira. And now he will live with that void of his own making...and hopefully find someone who will fill that emptiness.

Haider and Humeira: Dilwaale dulhaniya le jayengey. The dulhan will stick to her husband, no matter what...He is her rock. He is what makes her forget the betrayals of her past.

Gafur Ahmed Siddiqui: He confesses to his crimes..shamefacedly...to be cast away by the girl who sought him all her life. He became the disappointment he always feared he would be...until the man he once hated the most- Asasd Ahmed Khan- redeemed him, for his Zoya. Zoya may not even have been aware of this emptiness...she never had the time, after her children came...but he sensed it all the same. He knew that it was time for them to settle all their dues on earth... And the father receives his pardon...he dies forgiven. Again sweet memories of his two little girls..all that really mattered to him, though it took him time to realize that...

Raziya: She lives to pay for her sins...she is doomed to a life of solitude...

Tanveer: Mentally deranged? Morally so disintegrated that she has invited the devil to dwell within her..that gives her almost supernatural powers...she has sold herself to the darkness...there is only hell for her...in life, and in death...

The last episode of season 1:

It was done beautifully.👏 I am glad I was mentally prepared for this massacre. I loved Raqesh today...especially in Gafur's room...(We lost such fine actors!😭)...

Tanveer goes on to stab Asad and Zoya later...she claims she will make Asad suffer by killing Zoya slowly...😭

Sure enough...the first time Zoya gets hurt, Asad knows it...it jerks him back to reality...and he hears her cry...That wills him to get up and find her...a battle they cannot win...a viciousness they cannot escape from or counter...

Dilshad is out in the garden...playing with the children. Suddenly the house feels eerie to her.💔 She has only a bad premonition as she goes looking for Najma...she was simply taking too long to change and come...

A mother's worst moment..seeing her child's dead body...Dilshad can barely breathe out Asad's name...and she runs...to witness another home...all her three children are being taken from her😭...minutes before she had told Zoya that they were to accept everything that came from Allah- good or bad...and she shuts her granddaughter's eyes to the death of her parents...

AsYa...Last moments...gazing at their daughter...their future...their legacy...😭😊

And spending their last moments on earth, reliving the beautiful moments they spent as one...they both remember the other saying qubool hai...to living together...dying together...

Thus victory is theirs...Hum na rahengey, tum na rahoge...phir bhi rahengey nishaaniyaan...

Sanam Ahmed Khan: A little girl has been orphaned. And worse, a part of her has been taken away. Twins share everything from their mother's wombs...they are truly lucky to have a soul mate from their conception. Sanam has lost a part of herself...a part she may not even remember...a void that cannot be filled by any other relationship. That vacuum in her heart connects her to her parents...her twin...Sehar Ahmed Khan...

What happened to the second twin? Does Tanveer get to rule over this spitting image of Zoya? A Sita and Gita track? Naaahhh..

I hope Ayan or Humeira comes to claim their niece...I really want her to grow up between the two houses...to be introduced when Karanvir is ready to leave the show...or better still ...let that be another romantic track...

Who knows what the future will bring to Qubool Hai...I pity the true blue fans who were not forewarned of this catastrophe...it was quite intense and heart wrenching...being forced to let a part of your virtual world die...

I hope and wish the best to Gul and her team...😳

I will definitely give season 2 a try...and write on what strikes me...all of Gul's heroes in the past have been intense...Aahil is amusing...Casanova!!! Looks like he does not carry a baggage around😲😆

...wonder how it will work out...looking forward to it...Like I mentioned to someone...if QH 1 helped me tide over IPKKKND, I hope QH2 will help me get over QH1...though I am very skeptical.😉

So...the curtain falls...everyone says qubool hai...

"A girl calls and asks, "Does it hurt very much to die?"
"Well, sweetheart," I tell her, "yes, but it hurts a lot more to keep living."
Chuck Palahniuk, Survivor

"The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time."
Mark Twain

"When he shall die,
Take him and cut him out in little stars,
And he will make the face of heaven so fine
That all the world will be in love with night
And pay no worship to the garish sun."
William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet

If Shakespeare gave a happy ending in death to his most intense couple, why can't Gul try to immortalize one couple, along the same lines? They did not die of old age or cancer(Not that that is a bad end) ...they died young...preserved forever...young and together...looking down from heaven and smiling up on the adventures their daughter(s) is/ are to take...

😊🤗

A beautiful post.the episode brought tears and i could'nt sleep at night.It made me realize how attached i have become to QH.For me Kabhi as Asya will be the most beautiful couple and they seem real .I am definitely going to see QH 2 coz i love surbhi.I will also look out for other shows of Gul.I have become a fan for life.No matter how much i criticise QH it has been the best show on tv,the only show of which i did'nt miss a single episode till date

Originally posted by: vm17

A beautiful post.the episode brought tears and i could'nt sleep at night.It made me realize how attached i have become to QH.For me Kabhi as Asya will be the most beautiful couple and they seem real .I am definitely going to see QH 2 coz i love surbhi.I will also look out for other shows of Gul.I have become a fan for life.No matter how much i criticise QH it has been the best show on tv,the only show of which i did'nt miss a single episode till date

I hope you write these diaries about QH 2 also.in addition to being a fan of gul i am your fan also.i will look forward to your diaries.

the episode was nice.i loved the fb's of najma and gaffur.asya of course only remembere thenikah and had a last look at one of their daughters.

Poor dilshad all her children killed she has to make a fresh start and raise her grand daughters.she has a bahana to live.

Asya had to die coz of the leap but they could have showna car accident or something.Tanu killing everybody shows her a s awinner.though she could'nt seperate asya.It was disturbing.I did'nt like her being the winner of season 1.Pl.share your thoughts and reply.i always love to hear from you

Also i expected another diary after april 1 we got the end.I am greedy

Am unable to get over the grief...Asad and Zoya didn't deserve this

Season 2? I hope the writers will be sincere towards their work and will not show the lousy attitude they showed in many of the episodes of Season 1.

Loved the post! QH season 1 has left us teary eyed :(

🤗

Originally posted by: chicksoup

THanx..😳🤗

You really cannot expect me to think beyond this as of now...😭

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3993104 😭

As for analysing Tanveer...I guess U have to thank someone for taking my mind off the tragedy... May not be relevant to what U asked..but thsi is teh reason why I don't feel Tanveer won or anything..it was just a natural culmination of what her personalty trait would deliver...

It is not always circumstances make a man...

For eg. Do serial killers have some life altering experiences in childhood? Do serial rapists have a different childhood from normal people?

Tanveer has been explained well in the show.

She was a girl who stuck to Asad...someone who spent little time anywhere else...had no other friends.

She was a disturbed child for no reason...she succeeded in hiding her crimes as do all natural criminals...shayari was probably a veil to hide under...to seek attention from one male member she felt attracted to...

She moved out...typically the kind of girl who will stab a classmate for a pencil or eraser...as she grew, her criminal desires were given wings...she would not even hesitate from gouging out her own eye to frame someone...to exact revenge...

And she shed her inhibitions slowly and turned into a dreaded criminal..Billo Rani...silent, lethal...

She had liaisons with many men for sexual gratification...she openly drooled at men...as Imran mentioned...he was never sure the kid was even his...she had sex to trap him..realised he was not rich enough and went away...

She was recruited by Raziya...and Asad slowly became more than a prey..he became the object of her desires...and Tanveer would not let go until she was dead...

If she desired something, it had to be hers...she would kill and die for it...

Contrast her with Raziya...who did it all to save her mariage...her status..her husband's honour...her daughter's rights...she had a reason...so she might deserve forgiveness..

Not Tanveer...she is the devil Incarnate...she growls like a beast in the asylum...thirsts for blood..and nothing can satisfy her.

Not sure why everyone wanted more than this as a backstory for Tanver...she was quite clearly written for me..

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-superhuman-mind/201212/the-making-serial-killer

"I didn't know what made people want to be

friends. I didn't know what made people attractive to one another. I didn't know what underlay social interactions."

"I don't feel guilty for anything. I feel sorry for people who feel guilt."

"I'm as cold a motherf**ker as you've ever put your f**king eyes on. I don't give a shit about those people."

These creepy Ted Bundy quotes patently summarize the main traits of a psychopath: A callous, exploitive individual with blunted emotions, impulsive inclinations and an inability to feel guilt or remorse.

The causes of psychopathy remain a mystery. We don't even have a satisfactory answer to the question of whether psychopathy is a product of Mother Nature or a feature of upbringing. ...

Dr. Robert Hare, who is one of the most experienced researchers in psychopaths, who has studied them in prisons and other institutions for upwards of 40 years, and has written the book, Without Conscience and also developed the "Psychopath's Check List, Revised" which is the "Gold Standard" in criminal courts for determining if an offender meets the criteria for being a psychopath.

The qualities of a psychopath, as listed by Dr. Hare are:

1. Glib and superficial charm
2. Grandiose self worth
3. Need for stimulation, prone to boredom
4. Pathological lying
5. Conning and manipulating
6. Lack of remorse or guilt
7. Shallowness of expressions
8. Callousness, lack of empathy
9. Parasitic lifestyle
10. Poor behavioral controls
11. Promiscuous sexual behavior
12. Early behavioral problems such as lying, fire setting, stealing etc.
13. Lack of realistic long term goals
14. Impulsivity
15. Irresponsibility
16. Failure to accept responsibility for own actions
17. Many short term marital relationships
18. Juvenile delinquency, crimes and acting out between the ages of 13-18
19. Revocation of Conditional Release
20. Criminal versatility

The bottom line on psychopaths (by whatever name you call them) is that they have no true remorse for the things they have done, the hurt they do to others, or the laws they break. They may be good at pretending and saying they have remorse, but the bottom line is that they don't change their behavior for long, and that the pretense of remorse is simply to convince the person they are trying to con that they have "changed""but then they end up right back in prison again, or they cheat again, or lie again, or emotionally or physically abuse their loved ones again and again and again.

...

Now what is in red is Tanveer...every bit of it! All I can say is AsYa was up against one monster...😲🤢

😳 C you in the new season..hopefully, soon...😳

Thanx.You have analysed tanu well.She is insane.She is not normal and the above mentioned characteristics fit her perfectly.She is evil personified and does'nt have anything good in her.She professes to love Asad yet did'nt hesitate in feeding him a nut dish knowing he is allergic to nuts.Also the way she stabbed clearly shows she is a psycho.

Hello Soup🤗How are you?

Originally posted by: chicksoup

THanx..😳🤗

You really cannot expect me to think beyond this as of now...😭

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3993104 😭

As for analysing Tanveer...I guess U have to thank someone for taking my mind off the tragedy... May not be relevant to what U asked..but thsi is teh reason why I don't feel Tanveer won or anything..it was just a natural culmination of what her personalty trait would deliver...

It is not always circumstances make a man...

For eg. Do serial killers have some life altering experiences in childhood? Do serial rapists have a different childhood from normal people?

Tanveer has been explained well in the show.

She was a girl who stuck to Asad...someone who spent little time anywhere else...had no other friends.

She was a disturbed child for no reason...she succeeded in hiding her crimes as do all natural criminals...shayari was probably a veil to hide under...to seek attention from one male member she felt attracted to...

She moved out...typically the kind of girl who will stab a classmate for a pencil or eraser...as she grew, her criminal desires were given wings...she would not even hesitate from gouging out her own eye to frame someone...to exact revenge...

And she shed her inhibitions slowly and turned into a dreaded criminal..Billo Rani...silent, lethal...

She had liaisons with many men for sexual gratification...she openly drooled at men...as Imran mentioned...he was never sure the kid was even his...she had sex to trap him..realised he was not rich enough and went away...

She was recruited by Raziya...and Asad slowly became more than a prey..he became the object of her desires...and Tanveer would not let go until she was dead...

If she desired something, it had to be hers...she would kill and die for it...

Contrast her with Raziya...who did it all to save her mariage...her status..her husband's honour...her daughter's rights...she had a reason...so she might deserve forgiveness..

Not Tanveer...she is the devil Incarnate...she growls like a beast in the asylum...thirsts for blood..and nothing can satisfy her.

Not sure why everyone wanted more than this as a backstory for Tanver...she was quite clearly written for me..

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-superhuman-mind/201212/the-making-serial-killer

"I didn't know what made people want to be

friends. I didn't know what made people attractive to one another. I didn't know what underlay social interactions."

"I don't feel guilty for anything. I feel sorry for people who feel guilt."

"I'm as cold a motherf**ker as you've ever put your f**king eyes on. I don't give a shit about those people."

These creepy Ted Bundy quotes patently summarize the main traits of a psychopath: A callous, exploitive individual with blunted emotions, impulsive inclinations and an inability to feel guilt or remorse.

The causes of psychopathy remain a mystery. We don't even have a satisfactory answer to the question of whether psychopathy is a product of Mother Nature or a feature of upbringing. ...

Dr. Robert Hare, who is one of the most experienced researchers in psychopaths, who has studied them in prisons and other institutions for upwards of 40 years, and has written the book, Without Conscience and also developed the "Psychopath's Check List, Revised" which is the "Gold Standard" in criminal courts for determining if an offender meets the criteria for being a psychopath.

The qualities of a psychopath, as listed by Dr. Hare are:

1. Glib and superficial charm
2. Grandiose self worth
3. Need for stimulation, prone to boredom
4. Pathological lying
5. Conning and manipulating
6. Lack of remorse or guilt
7. Shallowness of expressions
8. Callousness, lack of empathy
9. Parasitic lifestyle
10. Poor behavioral controls
11. Promiscuous sexual behavior
12. Early behavioral problems such as lying, fire setting, stealing etc.
13. Lack of realistic long term goals
14. Impulsivity
15. Irresponsibility
16. Failure to accept responsibility for own actions
17. Many short term marital relationships
18. Juvenile delinquency, crimes and acting out between the ages of 13-18
19. Revocation of Conditional Release
20. Criminal versatility

The bottom line on psychopaths (by whatever name you call them) is that they have no true remorse for the things they have done, the hurt they do to others, or the laws they break. They may be good at pretending and saying they have remorse, but the bottom line is that they don't change their behavior for long, and that the pretense of remorse is simply to convince the person they are trying to con that they have "changed""but then they end up right back in prison again, or they cheat again, or lie again, or emotionally or physically abuse their loved ones again and again and again.

...

Now what is in red is Tanveer...every bit of it! All I can say is AsYa was up against one monster...😲🤢

😳 C you in the new season..hopefully, soon...😳

Very well analysed👏. Person like Tanveer doesn't need a background always. They are simply insane. There are lots of them outside in this world. She is well explained.

Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

Time to bid this heaven a good bye too :( *sigh!*