Analyzing Humeira - Page 3

Originally posted by: GitaIyer

Right from the time of Zoyaan, I have maintained that Humeira ends up getting all the sympathy.

Humeira is a brat of the first order. I would blame her parent's for her upbringing. This should be a lesson to parents, blind love, of any kind is not good.

@bold- completely agree Pri. I had almost written a line on women taking advantage of men for their own selfish greed and then crying rape. THere are so many such cases currently.

Haider was a villian, and even if he was not a villian, I don't think what he did (or did not do) can be called a crime.

Dont think there would've been such a hue and cry if Haider was show as a positive guy?

I have been disgusted that so many women have cried rape over a consensual love affair gone wrong. What a slap in the face to women who actually HAVE been raped.

As rivs said haider isn't right to involved humeira in his revenge plan but while I don't approve of haiders behavior I have zero sympathy for a woman who has put herself out there to be made a fool of. Had haider been her childhood lover and he had done this I would have sympathized. But he's just her two minute boyfriend that she really has no clue about.

Originally posted by: GitaIyer

Thanks.

@word - That what I mainly wanted to convey. Haider may be bad, but he is not a molestor or rapist. And Humeira may be good, but she is not right or innocent or a victim.

IF she enjoyed the act, why should she regret it later on. Exactly.

ANd has anybody thought about the reverse scenario- what if she dumps him after ayaan returns?

Then it's true love and end game etc.

People are quick to call haider a criminal for what? Sleeping with a girl who consented? He isn't a knight or a prince but a flawed, bad man who is going to take advantage.

Btw since we are calling haider a criminal isn't gaffur guilty of the same too? Heck rashid emotional betrayed and lied to his wife and slept with another woman. His motives weren't pure either. At the end of the day everybody has their own reason for the shit they do and one persons mistakes aren't better than another's just because one is a perceived good character.

Asad himself is guilty of trading a woman like she was cattle. He all but tied her to Ayaan for his own selfish motive. Zoya trusted and loved (loves) asad too - so is asad better than haider? Or is he worse because he is/was actually her fianc at the time?

^just a general response to how people will react.

Del - I have never ever considered Gaffy and Rashid anything less than a criminal.

Originally posted by: QueenOfMyCastle

Del - I have never ever considered Gaffy and Rashid anything less than a criminal.

One abetted murder, the other committed arson. Besides cheating.

I know. I will never forgive Gul for just glossing over Rashid's bs 😡

That response wasn't meant for you. Just a general observation of the forum and how they react. Opinions seem to be governed by who they like vs what the character is doing. Don't knowing it's making sense

Originally posted by: GitaIyer

After a long long time, the forum saw some healthy discussion, courtesy Haira consummation (or not) scene.

Many feel Humeira has been a victim, still others feel she has to face the consequences of her actions (not to mention her parent's)

I believe Humeira is neither naive nor a victim. Yes, she was innocent in the beginning, but damn the CV's, the innocence has been replaced by stupidity of highest order. Let us consider Humeria's behavior from the start of the serial-

- First one-sided love - She was madly in love with Ayan, even though Ayan had repeatedly told her he didnt love her.

- No love, no life - She was ready to lay down her life when she realised Ayan didn't love her.

- Love, but no trust - When finally Ayan fell in love with her (I have my reservations on this too), she didn't trust him enough.

- Finally, No old is gold, only all that glitters is gold - She didn't lose time in falling for Haider and was quick to elope with him. The urgency of the elopement quirks me. She was not being married off the next day that she had to take such a drastic step.

She was more than eager to share the room with Haider.

And if the consummation did happen, she was a willing party and maybe enjoyed it too.

I don't think Humeira is a victim.

p.s. And IMO, Ayaan never really loved Humeira. He started having feelings for her only when he realised that she had gone missing. It was more of sympathy induced love.

After a long long time, CVs sketched a character that is believable (Humaira), such girls exist in real.

Humaira is neither negative nor positive, she is just not prepared for what life threw at her and got lost and this happens with most of the real people too, specially the young and over protected one.

1. She is the only child and pampered to the core and was always got what she want, she is not prepared for rejection of any kind and thus shattered when Ayaan didn't respond to her love - nothing unrealistic considering her background.

2. After trials and tantrums she gets acceptance of Ayaan and before she realizes he dumps her in a very dramatic fashion, he didn't even bother to look at her before leaving and no follow up mail or phone - don't anyone in her place feel humiliated and hurt?

3. Haider comes along and ends up in forced kiss with him and learns that he is plotting against her parents - she channels all bottled up anguish of past few months on him as she wanted to vent out her frustration on someone and Haider took more share of her anger than he deserved in the process.

4. Despite her wrong doing Haider protects her in need she is so craving for such unconditional care, same time her dad marries a young women and disgusts her and crave for an escape. Haider care looks so big before what her ex lover and dad did to her and she consciously ignores her doubts and inhibitions towards him and want to please Haider to ensure she don't lose him - She is a victim of her emotions and circumstances but not necessarily Haider.

Do I support Haider's choice of hurting a young lady to take revenge on her father? No, but it seems to be more possible scenario than a possibility of Zoyaan. Redemption of Haider in one or other way will eventually gives out the message that what he did is not cool. Even Humaira's plight gives out message to not get too caught up with life and want something so badly that you choose to please someone without being risk averse.

IMO, Humaira is the character that can come bit close to reality out of all main characters of QH.

Asad - Handsome, young and successful but no girls until Zoya, who's kidding? Sounds like unicorn.

Zoya - Supposedly progressive but can't see through a fabricated nikah to stand up and save the day.

Ayaan - Don't even want to talk about him...complete fiction.

Razia - kill anyone that rubs her the wrong way, that was easy, what the heck?

Tannu - Runs a successful factory but can't raise child on her own without a so called father...lol.

When I can sit through those characters, I can very well accept story of HAIRA because it is more convincing than any of the above characters and their stances.

Good post GitaIyer!

bahut khub..yaara..

Originally posted by: delena90

I know. I will never forgive Gul for just glossing over Rashid's bs 😡

That response wasn't meant for you. Just a general observation of the forum and how they react. Opinions seem to be governed by who they like vs what the character is doing. Don't knowing it's making sense

Originally posted by: delena90

I have been disgusted that so many women have cried rape over a consensual love affair gone wrong. What a slap in the face to women who actually HAVE been raped.

As rivs said haider isn't right to involved humeira in his revenge plan but while I don't approve of haiders behavior I have zero sympathy for a woman who has put herself out there to be made a fool of. Had haider been her childhood lover and he had done this I would have sympathized. But he's just her two minute boyfriend that she really has no clue about.

Originally posted by: QueenOfMyCastle

I know u did not mean me. I was just being funny...hoping for Gitey to respond. She knows my feelings for these men.

I hate the Sorry Abby scene so much that I had to write an SS where Abbu and Asad are at loggerheads and Abbu is all black.😆

I agree with the blind fangirling. I got an interesting PM today. Unfortunately I deleted it. Should have shared it.

Interesting pm from who? Do tell! Pm karo 😃