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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: surbhiholic

^^ sheila Zainab is _Littles_

well as for your answers... its the difference between Dilshad & Rashid... Dilshad said to Asad as they are getting the chance to help Rashid why should they back off... its not my concern what Rashid did but i cant blame entirely Dilshad cause she has her own personal views... i aint anyone to say when she is ready to forgive the man who hurt her most... Rashid needs them... if they don help them that will make Dilshad feel bad.. so she is doing this...



What does he need her for??. Just to rid him of his guilt thats all. Dilshad is being a total ASS. He does not need them at all, he has enough people. She should be able to see thru his farce. She is also just fulfilling her own selfish desire of wanting to be with him. She should not force Asad due to that.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i don know why Rashid doing so.. i wont justify him.. its his problem.. well i don think Dilshad is doing this just to be with him
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: surbhiholic

i don know why Rashid doing so.. i wont justify him.. its his problem.. well i don think Dilshad is doing this just to be with him




I am damn sure she is as she to yearned to be in Shireen's place as a wife, it should not be at the expense of ASAD. She never got over being left by him . The reason why she did not get divorced is the same. She would easily have gotten a Talak at the circumstances that she had been left with.

Don't let her idiotic rant of he needs us and we have to be the better person and response get to you.

If he had no one to take care of him, than i would say that it is justified a s a human being to help out another human and care for them in time of need but in this scenario he has more than enough people to even need an extra person. Logically speaking he does not need them.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sheilasandhu




I am damn sure she is as she to yearned to be in Shireen's place as a wife, it should not be at the expense of ASAD. She never got over being left by him . The reason why she did not get divorced is the same. She would easily have gotten a Talak at the circumstances that she had been left with.

Don't let her idiotic rant of he needs us and we have to be the better person and response get to you.

If he had no one to take care of him, than i would say that it is justified a s a human being to help out another human and care for them in time of need but in this scenario he has more than enough people to even need an extra person. Logically speaking he does not need them.


right now she is thinking as a wife only who can forgive her husband for anything, but where is the dillu momma we loved who would not listein a word against her children, how can she forget her children's suffering of those 17 years, them sayind all badduas to her asad in front of all and seeing rashid keeping quite in the whole scene, when he could have made shireen quite with just few words... but na he has right to hurt everyone and receive a lot of love from everyone he hurt... 😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshi_ke_dewane


right now she is thinking as a wife only who can forgive her husband for anything, but where is the dillu momma we loved who would not listein a word against her children, how can she forget her children's suffering of those 17 years, them sayind all badduas to her asad in front of all and seeing rashid keeping quite in the whole scene, when he could have made shireen quite with just few words... but na he has right to hurt everyone and receive a lot of love from everyone he hurt... 😡



Right now even forumwasi are supporting him by supporting Dilshads stand. I am a mother and i am a wife too. I would never ever go back to a man who did that to me and my children NO MATTER how much i LOVED him . Even if he was as sick as Rashid when i know he has his other wife, children and other members of his family to look after him.

I'd rather go to a cancer ward or an old folks home or even orphanage and help those who genuinely need help.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Really, there is no justification at all for Rashid, none whatsoever. He does not deserve a break. Secondly, he didnt even try to patch up with his two children, Asad and Najma...He may be dying, but he hasn't tried to reach out to either of them...

From very early on, we saw that Dilshad always tried to mend things between Rashid and Asad. That has always been there, and she has always stood up for Rashid, when there was a matter of the two facing off. The gudiya factory incident, anyone?

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is, what she's doing may not be right, but she has always had this tendency. Sure, it makes me angry for her and even at her, but this stance of hers isn't something out of the blue. It just wasn't as prominent with the past story-lines.

Anyway, personally I do think there should never be any Rashid/Dilshad getting back together, but I'm guessing thats what the writers have wanted from the start. Then again, the whole scenario is more grey than black and white.

My other issue is, why does the man not even try with his children? He has pretty much ignored Najma her whole life, and they don't even show him being guilty over it?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: meezishu

Really, there is no justification at all for Rashid, none whatsoever. He does not deserve a break. Secondly, he didnt even try to patch up with his two children, Asad and Najma...He may be dying, but he hasn't tried to reach out to either of them...


From very early on, we saw that Dilshad always tried to mend things between Rashid and Asad. That has always been there, and she has always stood up for Rashid, when there was a matter of the two facing off. The gudiya factory incident, anyone?

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is, what she's doing may not be right, but she has always had this tendency. Sure, it makes me angry for her and even at her, but this stance of hers isn't something out of the blue. It just wasn't as prominent with the past story-lines.

Anyway, personally I do think there should never be any Rashid/Dilshad getting back together, but I'm guessing thats what the writers have wanted from the start. Then again, the whole scenario is more grey than black and white.

My other issue is, why does the man not even try with his children? He has pretty much ignored Najma her whole life, and they don't even show him being guilty over it?



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Posted: 11 years ago
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It is all so complicated and getting more so each day ! But human relations are just that ...very complicated ! Dilshad is confused and weak at the moment (do not understand why as she was always shown as a very strong woman) Am not in sync with her pressurizing Asad ..neither with Zoya for doing so .
Liked Asad's dialogues last night ...there is difference between feeling the pain and understanding someone else's pain. But here both of them are not even trying to understand his angst ...they are just forcing him to see Rashid's point of view.And Rashid did not even ask Asad or Nazma to be with him ..he even told Ayaan ..you can go but Shireen will stay here .he is a heartless man and does not deserve his children's loyalty.
I also feel a tad uncomfortable with Dilshad wanting to live in SM permanently as it is not really only Rashid's house but also Gaffur Siddiqui's .It would have been better if Rashid ..as he is a wealthy man... taken another house and taken his whole family there.It is a bit odd that Dilshad is ready to live permanently in Shireen's brother's house ...and is wanting Asad to do the same !

It is too complicated and beyond reason !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mamta-s

It is all so complicated and getting more so each day ! But human relations are just that ...very complicated ! Dilshad is confused and weak at the moment (do not understand why as she was always shown as a very strong woman) Am not in sync with her pressurizing Asad ..neither with Zoya for doing so .
Liked Asad's dialogues last night ...there is difference between feeling the pain and understanding someone else's pain. But here both of them are not even trying to understand his angst ...they are just forcing him to see Rashid's point of view.And Rashid did not even ask Asad or Nazma to be with him ..he even told Ayaan ..you can go but Shireen will stay here .he is a heartless man and does not deserve his children's loyalty.
I also feel a tad uncomfortable with Dilshad wanting to live in SM permanently as it is not really only Rashid's house but also Gaffur Siddiqui's .It would have been better if Rashid ..as he is a wealthy man... taken another house and taken his whole family there.It is a bit odd that Dilshad is ready to live permanently in Shireen's brother's house ...and is wanting Asad to do the same !

It is too complicated and beyond reason !



WORD DARLING 👏👏👏 But it looks like no one is understanding this point that Dilshad is absolutely wrong whatever her reasons are. She is not being justified nor fair to ASAD.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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True Shiela . I am so disappointed with the ruin of Dilshad's character .She was the sane one amongst all the senior ladies ...but now her succumbing to a man who abandoned her when she was pregnant and did not look back to see how she and the kids were faring does not deserve any sympathy. It is upsetting to see her use Zoya to brainwash Asad.I think it is cruel of her ..Asad has all my sympathies !

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