DIARY of a QHian: Mat Jao...
Dec 3:
Dear diary,
Zoya Faruqui has only one advice for people who want to run away from relationships- mat jao...
A son who has considered his father long dead...who carries the hurt to the extent that he can spew venom after all these years and tell his repentant father that he'd never even attend his funeral...who proudly swears that this hatred will only end with the grave😲- his father's or his...Zoya will try all her persuasive powers - gently guide him, chide him, fight him...but at the end of it, she will only plead...mat jao...at least for my sake.👏👏👏
A son who feels betrayed by his mother enough to leave his world behind in search of a pain free world- Zoya reminds him of his duties to his mother who has left him only heartbroken.
A wife who runs away from her responsibilities, in search of a near-perfect world, leaving the perfect world a man offered her - Zoya tells her that the easier way out might be to run...but the real winner fights for his/ her loved ones...however painful it might be.
An Asad Ahmed Khan who has to fight the bitterness and sense of abandonment for the sake of a woman who feels INCOMPLETE without her husband and son.
A Shruthi who runs away from her responsibilities as a wife, to fulfil that of a mother's has to realise that she will be incomplete until she manages to merge both beautifully... (Beautiful contrast of two women- Dilshad, a mother who feels incomplete when she embraces her role as a wife👏; and Shruthi, a new wife who will feel incomplete until she does justice to the wife as well as the mother in her👏. )
MUQAMMAL- to be complete...
What does one have to do to feel complete?
-Realise that joy and sorrow are two sides of the same coin...running away from either would simply mean running away from life. This is the motto Zoya lives by- and she has not let go of it, to welcome hatred or fear of uncertainty...that is because she knows only too well the value of relationships.👏
And she knows that one day ASAD WILL REGRET LEAVING HIS DYING FATHER UNFORGIVEN...PUTTING HIS MOTHER IN A DILEMMA... and she DOES NOT WANT THAT TO HAPPEN TO HIM. She will not allow him to live a life full of regret, knowing he did not fulfill a dying mans wish- did not reconcile with a father who left his arms open, begging to be embraced. Allah forgives, and expects the same of his children.
Aap ke seene mein pathhar hai...a remark that is supposed to shake him to the reality of his words- the harsh words he uttered to his own father. But what she receives is his affirmation- I am exactly like this...and it is fair enough that you see the true face of Asad Ahmed Khan before you are married to him'👏
Asad: All his flashbacks in the car are about betrayal. First, from a man who betrayed him twice,😡 by taking his mother away.😭 Then, by his mother who left him for the man he hated.😭 And finally, a Zoya who refused to stand by him😭...and he says Allah Hafiz'...to the woman he swore to protect, love and behold...just like that!😲😕😭
If Asad is undecided and reluctant, trying hard to convince himself..Zoya wakes up to the reality. She cannot let him go, for any one else...nor will she let him go. She has to convince him, begging on her knees...and she decides to do just that- mat jao...FOR MY SAKE- the last and surest card she has.👏
Raziya: Is going lighter in the head as days go by! Even Badi Bi can see that.😆
Haider: Very well done today👏- now I can see the charmer, without being told that. Mohit has done the finest acting in all his years in the industry...and as usual he has one lady with a cute haircut😳 and her team to thank for that!👏 (Though it beats me that men in QH love to take a bath- ready to welcome any unsuspecting young ladyto the horrors and joys of their nanagapan!😲 Of course, Asad had the excuse that it was his bathroom, Ms. Faruqui was trespassing...lekin hamare flamboyant charmer has no rules at all, I guess. 😕😆)
Humeira: Slowly turning into a man hater, I suppose.😆 LOVED that scene where she stares at the blood in her sink and her own fingers oozing blood- a clue that is lost to Humeira, but thrown at the viewers.⭐️👏😆
Rashid: Ayan leaving the house did not affect him that much, because he knows he has been more than fair to that son...but when he hears the damning words from Asad's mouth- the son whom he begs for forgiveness, and realises he has torn a mother away from her son...his own heart breaks. Loved Shireen leading Rashid away into his bedroom👏- the wife who has witnessedhis heart breaking over and over again, worrying for the children he could never provide for...it is not a new story to her. And Dilshad looks on as the wife whose son wields the power to make or break that man.👏👏👏
PRECAP: So that is how Asad goes on to stay in SM. Zoya begs him to come back for her, Phoophi...and he ends up doing it FOR THE WOMEN IN HIS LIFE, STILL UNFORGIVING.😃
And when a meddlesome Zoya Faruqui starts interfering in his matters, does a stalker alienate her further from the family,😉 to get her out...as promised by spoilers much before the arrival of Haider? 😉No prizes for guessing who all will leave with Zoya then.😛😆
PS: The super duper blooper...Asad left hours before Ms. Faruqui, he must have gotten lost in little big Bhopal since he arrived at the dargah the same time as Zoya.🥱 (Must have slept off in the car!😲😆)
I FELT THIS WAS A WELL EXECUTED EPISODE, 👏except for the fact that this Shruthi female made absolutely no sense to me.😕 Even their song was done well.😳👏
THE BEST PART of the episode was Zoya hugging Asad as he uttered the cruellest words to his father...the plea, the desperation was clearly shown in her hug and expressions- You are making a mistake. You will regret your words...This is not You...JUST NOT YOU...'- 👏👏👏The Zoya I defended at the beginning of all this.
LEAVE THE JUDGING TO GOD...
Edited by chicksoup - 11 years ago
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