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Posted: 11 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: LOLitaPawar

Lol conveniently forgot(or ignored) every bad thing asad did to zoya, no? All the manhandlings,every dig at her upbringing and every moment of distrust!Such purity and tehzeeb!
And lol you are talking as if being attracted to someone is a sin..yup he went after zoya in the dargah but it was just that ATTRACTION.It wasnt as if he looked at her with creepy lust..not everyone is a prude you know!
All three of them were at fault during the whole trading zoya fiasco..the seller was as much willing as the buyer 🤢

I am not even a fan of ayaan but asad deserves no pedestal either


And so conveniently you forgot this post is about the difference between two brothers and their behavior. Not about what Asad did to Zoya or Zoya did to Asad. I would love to discuss that as well but this is not the post for that. And I don't see TM glorifying Asad neither did she say Asad's a saint. So I don't see what your point is. At least Asad is committed to the person he loves unlike Mr. Ayaan who claims something else and shows something else. Getting attracting to someone isn't a sin but it's who that someone is that matters. She's his brother's love. The same brother who has done so much for him and this is how he pays back? It's like saying it's completely okay for me to have a crush on my good-looking cousin. No it's not. Sure getting attracted to someone isn't a sin but it's about who that someone is!


& Sure Asad said mean things to her and no one's justifying that but ever since he admitted his love, he has changed himself for her. Remind me one time where he has said rude things to her after admitting his love? Whereas Mr. Ayaan after admitting his love, still goes onto eye someone else's love, flirts with other girls!🤢
Edited by ..Kirann.. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: LOLitaPawar

Lol conveniently forgot(or ignored) every bad thing asad did to zoya, no? All the manhandlings,every dig at her upbringing and every moment of distrust!Such purity and tehzeeb!
And lol you are talking as if being attracted to someone is a sin..yup he went after zoya in the dargah but it was just that ATTRACTION.It wasnt as if he looked at her with creepy lust..not everyone is a prude you know!
All three of them were at fault during the whole trading zoya fiasco..the seller was as much willing as the buyer 🤢

I am not even a fan of ayaan but asad deserves no pedestal either


No I didn't forget every bad thing Asad did to Zoya, but this isn't about that. And Asad paid for his wrong doings. In the worst way possible too.
Attraction isn't a sin, but it's how you go about that attraction. There is nothing wrong with flirting, but there is something wrong, once you make that promise and commitment to someone else and are still flirting. I think you should go back and reread the post. Ayaan running after Zoya was brought up for a reason. But no, Ayaan running after Zoya wasn't attraction, in the real world it would be considered desperate and creepy lol. No not everyone is a prude, but not everyone also continuously flip flops and changes the way they feel about one person or the other. Not everyone completely ignores the person who they claim to love while living in the same house as them.
Also, I said Ayaan flirting with Humaira messed with her head. He knew how she felt about him. One minute he claimed he loved her and the next he said he didn't. He kept flip flopping and changing his mind. Flirting isn't wrong until it's your elder brothers to be wife. Flirting isn't wrong until you've claimed to love someone else. Ayaan can look at whoever the hell he wants, he can flirt with who ever the hell he wants, but then he shouldn't be making fake promises to another girl claiming he loves her and wants to marry her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: bheegi

Thanks for making this post Lavita


I totally agree with you

The biggest difference: Tanu, despite her friendship and evil intentions managed to bring AsYa closer

Zoya, despite her friendship and noble intentions will increase the gap between AyRa.

What does it say about Ayaan's commitment?

I know a lot of people didn't see anything wrong with that glance but I think it was subtle and it was real


Thanks bheegi!

Yup, despite Tanveer's presence, Asad and Zoya still came closer, and he still acknowledged Zoya and her feelings.
Zoya needs to understand that when people see her being touchy and what not with Ayaan, it doesn't look right, and of course will give everyone the wrong impression. Especially Humaira, because she's told Humaira one thing but from Humaira's eyes, it seems to be another.
Ayaan should be checking up on Humaira and seeing how she is handling all this.
Ayaan has never been one to handle commitment well from the beginning.

I'm hoping that look was nothing, but let's see where this goes.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: soumyasingh

I haven't seen the episode yet, so can't comment about the said "look". I don't think he's falling for zoya -- atleast I hope not. Nevertheless, he is ignoring humeria, which sucks. I get why he's constantly looking out for zoya and taking care of her, but ignoring humeria isn't going to get him anywhere.

As for Asad purity and ayaan's flirting, I'd like to point out that even though flirting is kind of harmless, and asad has been portrayed as uptight and unwilling to love, asad understands the value of love better then ayaan, and consequently values zoya more than ayaan values humeria.


The look was definitely there, I could be wrong and it could be nothing maybe just the way the actor Vikrant was looking at the time, but definitely came out to look like something else.
Flirting is harmless until the person ends up to be your brother's love lol. I have no problem with flrting and being attracted to another, but when you've made the commitment to someone else, then it's a problem. The only reason I added that because it shows Ayaan's commitment issues. He can't seem to make up his mind.
Asad understands the value of not only love but also everything else because of the hardships hes faced. He values Zoya more now because he has lost her before. Ayaan got off easy with Humaira.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..


And so conveniently you forgot this post is about the difference between two brothers and their behavior. Not about what Asad did to Zoya or Zoya did to Asad. I would love to discuss that as well but this is not the post for that. And I don't see TM glorifying Asad neither did she say Asad's a saint. So I don't see what your point is. At least Asad is committed to the person he loves unlike Mr. Ayaan who claims something else and shows something else. Getting attracting to someone isn't a sin but it's who that someone is that matters. She's his brother's love. The same brother who has done so much for him and this is how he pays back? It's like saying it's completely okay for me to have a crush on my good-looking cousin. No it's not. Sure getting attracted to someone isn't a sin but it's about who that someone is!


& Sure Asad said mean things to her and no one's justifying that but ever since he admitted his love, he has changed himself for her. Remind me one time where he has said rude things to her after admitting his love? Whereas Mr. Ayaan after admitting his love, still goes onto eye someone else's love, flirts with other girls!🤢


Oh My God do you really think liking your brother's love is equivalent to liking your cousin?Sure the former isnt a great idea either but still it is not comparable to liking your cousin.Anyway I was talking about ayaan's attraction towards zoya in the dargah episode...she wasnt asad's love back then,was she?
And lol no I didnt forget what this post is about,I just think that if we are going to talk about asad as a lover and a human then 'what asad did/said to zoya' should be included too,no?
But if asad vs ayaan is so important may i just point out ayaan's trust on zoya v/s asad's judgements...I hope you dont say his judgements are all in the past now because then many of ayaan's faults been discussed here should become things of the past too!
Sure asad hasnt been rude to her after admitting his love BUT he did trade her for his pathetic sister's life..people may call that selflessness but I dont!Like dilshaad said he didnt sacrifice anything!! Whatever sacrifice there was,was zoya's
I suppose he got enough punishment post the fake asad tanveer consummation scene and that scene in the ajmer dargah where he prays so sincerely is one scene I really like...its just that I feel ayaan is getting a lot more bashing then he deserves.

Edited by LOLitaPawar - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: LaVita-E-Bella


Thanks bheegi!

Yup, despite Tanveer's presence, Asad and Zoya still came closer, and he still acknowledged Zoya and her feelings.
Zoya needs to understand that when people see her being touchy and what not with Ayaan, it doesn't look right, and of course will give everyone the wrong impression. Especially Humaira, because she's told Humaira one thing but from Humaira's eyes, it seems to be another.
Ayaan should be checking up on Humaira and seeing how she is handling all this.
Ayaan has never been one to handle commitment well from the beginning.

I'm hoping that look was nothing, but let's see where this goes.


I agree, Zoya is taking this role of bahu a bit too seriously. I don't like the fact that she hasn't paid any attention to Humeira's feelings recently. Ayaan- I have no expectations at all anyways

That's another reason I feel this is heading towards Ayaan falling for Zoya...he will realize it when she leaves

Not looking forward to bathroom scene tomorrow😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bheegi


I agree, Zoya is taking this role of bahu a bit too seriously. I don't like the fact that she hasn't paid any attention to Humeira's feelings recently. Ayaan- I have no expectations at all anyways

That's another reason I feel this is heading towards Ayaan falling for Zoya...he will realize it when she leaves

Not looking forward to bathroom scene tomorrow😕


Exactly. Not even bahu role, I could still understand to an extent, but she's taking wifey role too seriously. No one in that house has considered Humaira's feelings. When Zoya was locked out and came back in, her and Ayaan walked away completely shoving Humaira to the side. I didn't like that. And when Zoya came back from waiting for Asad. Humaira and Ayaan were having a moment.
Yeah I never had any expectations from Ayaan. I always doubted his feelings for Humaira too. I was hoping I'd be wrong, but now it's showing. When he realized he loved Humaira it was when she was Rajini. So did he fall for Humaira-Humaira, or Humaira-Rajini?

I keep seeing people talking about the bathroom scene. What is that about?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: LOLitaPawar


Oh My God do you really think liking your brother's love is equivalent to liking your cousin?Sure the former isnt a great idea either but still it is not comparable to liking your cousin.Anyway I was talking about ayaan's attraction towards zoya in the dargah episode...she wasnt asad's love back then,was she?
And lol no I didnt forget what this post is about,I just think that if we are going to talk about asad as a lover and a human then 'what asad did/said to zoya' should be included too,no?
But if asad vs ayaan is so important may i just point out ayaan's trust on zoya v/s asad's judgements...I hope you dont say his judgements are all in the past now because then many of ayaan's faults been discussed here should become things of the past too!
Sure asad hasnt been rude to her after admitting his love BUT he did trade her for his pathetic sister's life..people may call that selflessness but I dont!Like dilshaad said he didnt sacrifice anything!! Whatever sacrifice there was,was zoya's
I suppose he got enough punishment post the fake asad tanveer consummation scene and that scene in the ajmer dargah where he prays so sincerely is one scene I really like...its just that I feel ayaan is getting a lot more bashing then he deserves.


I didn't say it's equivalent but that was an example to show nothing wrong with getting attracted but it's who you get attracted to! Of course it's okay to get attracted but TM said the way he ran after was creepy and it really was. I mean if a guy who I don't even know followed me like that, I'll probably report him to police.

Sure if you are so keen to talk about Asad as a lover and a human, let's discuss what he said to Zoya and what he did. And please don't conveniently forget Zoya's faults like this whole forum does! If we talk about as lovers then ever since he has admitted his love for Zoya, he hasn't disrespected her, said anything rude to her, doesn't flip-flops whereas Ayaan has admitted he loves Humeira God knows how many times, doesn't give a shit about her existence and definitely doesn't care how she feels. As a human, sure Asad has flaws and no one really denied it. But since you're talking about trust here, how many times has Zoya lied to Asad? How many times has she gotten him and herself into trouble? So why exactly should he trust her? And let's not forget she was the one who started fighting with him not he. Sure he crossed the limits, bu he did change himself. He learnt from his mistakes and that definitely makes him a better human being. Now coming to Ayaan, when did he realize Humeira's worth? Has he stopped messing with her head? He tells her something and his actions show something else. Has he learnt from his mistakes? And his past mistakes certainly hasn't helped him realize his so called love's worth!

& LOL Ayaan was as much part of that trade as Asad was! And he does accept it was his fault!

I guess you haven't seen Asad bashing in this forum. He has been bashed much more.
Edited by ..Kirann.. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: forbiddenlove

Terrible post. Illogical and Irritating. Ayaan has never "cheated" on Humera by doing anything indecent. And that look everyone was talking about...that look was a look of sympathy, and respect. More of a 'i know you're going through shit but hang in there look'. There was nothing impure about it.

He is trying to protect her, thats all. Any comparison to Asad or anyone else is uncalled for.

Your comment is "irritating" and "terrible". What's uncalled for about the comparison? You dont want anyone to criticize your precious Ayaan and Zoyaan? 🤔
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Posted: 11 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: LOLitaPawar


Oh My God do you really think liking your brother's love is equivalent to liking your cousin?Sure the former isnt a great idea either but still it is not comparable to liking your cousin.Anyway I was talking about ayaan's attraction towards zoya in the dargah episode...she wasnt asad's love back then,was she?
And lol no I didnt forget what this post is about,I just think that if we are going to talk about asad as a lover and a human then 'what asad did/said to zoya' should be included too,no?
But if asad vs ayaan is so important may i just point out ayaan's trust on zoya v/s asad's judgements...I hope you dont say his judgements are all in the past now because then many of ayaan's faults been discussed here should become things of the past too!
Sure asad hasnt been rude to her after admitting his love BUT he did trade her for his pathetic sister's life..people may call that selflessness but I dont!Like dilshaad said he didnt sacrifice anything!! Whatever sacrifice there was,was zoya's
I suppose he got enough punishment post the fake asad tanveer consummation scene and that scene in the ajmer dargah where he prays so sincerely is one scene I really like...its just that I feel ayaan is getting a lot more bashing then he deserves.


She brought up the scenario because because both in the end are wrong. Zoya was going to be Ayaan's sister in law, so hence she was going to be family.
The only reason Ayaan trusts Zoya is because Razia doesn't trust Zoya. He's just like his daadi in that matter. Anyone who Razia blames, Ayaan will automatically side with them. If Asad hasn't trusted Zoya then Zoya just as many times hasn't trusted Asad. Trust doesn't just come out of nowhere, it takes time to build.
Asad's judgements are in the past because they don't reflect him today. He's changed. Of course, no one can change that those things did happen and he did say things to Zoya, but since he admitted his love, he has not done anything of that sort. Ayaan's faults in his past reflect him today because he hasn't changed. He's still the same guy who doesn't know how to commit or what he wants.
Smh, please let's not bring up the "trade" issue here, because no one "traded" anyone. At the end of the day, Zoya made her decision. And this post has nothing to do with that whole situation and who made the sacrifice. Everyone at that moment did what they felt was right for the situation. If Asad "traded" Zoya, then Zoya allowed it, and without Ayaan, none of it would have happened. He made the first step by asking his brother for his bride. Also, let's not forget the time Zoya was going to do the exact same to Asad. What happened then?
Ayaan is getting bashed because he's an immature little brat who has no consideration for anyone else's feelings.

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