Do Asya deserve each other? - Page 2

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

actually yes these two idiots are made for each other😆

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

Well i have seen a lot of posts recently questioning asad and zoya's love for each other and whether they deserve each other or not and i would just like to share my view too😃

So I will start with the infamous "zoya trading fiasco" which is the root cause of all these arguments.I will just like to begin by saying that yes i am one of those who belived that no matter how much you sugarcoat it "zoya was traded" and i was apalled.Yes the girl made a mistake a very big one but no woman deserves to be treated the way she was and here if people would like to say that asad doesn't deserve zoya i would probably not oppose them but still do i doubt his love for her NO why because he was clearly shattered and broken at the prospect of having to let zoya go and for the first time i saw him actually physically attacking ayaan.

yes zoya was traded and emotionally manipulated...asad did mistake sod zoya did...asad by getting manipulated by ayaan and zoya for not speaking up when it was needed...

but yes i will not question asad 's love because he takes zoya for granted when his siblings comes

thats the thing he has to change because he needs to clear his priority and understand that SM had so many people for themselves but zoya has only asad...

Asad lost my respect here and something which he will never gain but zoya was no less.I would have respected her had she decided to walk out and not let the two brothers walk all over her.She isn't some timid shy girl who can be subdued she was sherni too bad she has lately become a chuhiya😆

The brothers walked all over her because she allowed them too.Yes she was protesting and crying throughout that "she was sorry" but isn't this the same zoya farooki who doesn't hesistate to speak her mind and stand up for herself where was she then?I still gave her a benefit of doubt thinking that she was probably feeling guilty and hence she didn't fight harder.

She tried running away again when the Qazi asked her to sign the nikaahnama but asad emotionally balckmailed her but she was foolish enough to fall for it.

yes zoya did not question the maulvi once that how come she got married without any knowledge...she disappointed me big time there ...i know she was emotionally broken...but in times of problem real people think with calm and smartness and come out of mess...so sheis totally responsible for this...

Yes she was brought to SM under false pretences and when the brothers made a deal behind her back that she will have to stay in SM till Nikhat got married was yet another blow to their characters and i was happy to see zoya back to her sherni avatar again but was that of any use a hug,some promises and you forget everything😕I am sorry girl if you can be pacified with so little effort you are to blamed not the one who wronged you.

she is letting everyone making decision for herself and thats where he is wrong...people walk over ypu only when you behave as doormat...

My biggest problem with this track has been that asad has't realized that the decision he made was not his to make and how badly he treated zoya but has zoya ever realized this fact?So if the person who have been wronged doesn't realize this can we blame only the person who wronged her?

they are still not aware of consequence of their decision and still relying ayaan for all this...why should ayaan do anything ??? they should think something constructive ...because they should be eager to be together..but they are not doing anything IMO...

Inspite of all this zoya doesn't decide to speak up and just keep acting like a perfect Bahu and asad keeps on making promises he can't keep😕

this thing i am not able to understand...now nikhat is married,..ayaan is at home..she does not need to. behave as perfect bahu or biwi...because there are others who can do this...so zoya should introspect that what impression she is giving to others by doing all this bahu avtaar.

At this point if zoya decides to actually make her marriage with ayaan work will i blame her NO?will i say she ditched asad NO?why because she has time and again said how difficult it is for her to go against her lifelong thinking that Nikaah will a promise that she will not break ever?

yes i will blame...because if it would have been real zoya...she can never hurt humeria and ayaan knowing that they love each other...i can accept her decision not hoing back to asad ifshe wants it...but yes i. can not buy it if she stays at SM and trying to work on marriage...because she has promised something to humzie and even if humzie agrees to this...zoya should make her mind not to go back to asad if she at all wants to give a try to marriage...

Will i blame asad if he decided to move on if he sees zoya giving her marriage a try NO?

no i wont.

why because well if zoya couldn't fight for her love he has no obligations either?

Ispite of all this i belive these two idiots are perfect for each other...No one can love them the way they do...Asad has loved zoya and always will but he needs to learn to prioritize and give zoya the repect she deserves and zoya has loved asad and always will but she needs to start acting more maturily and become less recless

they are perfect for each other...but they need to tell this to others...

Do i doubt their love for each other?NO

no

Do i belive they don't deserve each other?NO

no

Do i belive in this kind of love?Hell NO...but unfortunately true love has always been associated

yes i do unless zoe wants to give this marriage a try...because for me she is not some poor village girl who can not come out of forced marriage when she is clearly in love with someone else...she an very well fall in love with someone else later but. if she decided to give this marriage try it simply means its forced not by will...

with making sacrifices and losing oneself..sad but true

Do i believe in ASYA?yes and no..I still believe that even though these two have been butchered beyond repair they still deserve each other(i don't want them entering someone else's life and making it hell they can do it to themselves🤣) but ASYA will never remain the same for me.I don't think i will make them stronger.All that this track has shown us is that these two are brainless idiots who are probably made for each other cause ek agar khai mein kudne ko taiyaar hai to doosra khai me dhakelne ko

wven tannu times i said that lovers need to fight against all odds...and thats where destiny and god feels that they deserve each other...if they just keep accepting some shit and seperation. in the name of mukaddar..they are useless...everyone nas to struggle to get what he wants...if you do not show enough struggle to get that thing...you simply do not deserve...

if ypu can survive without your so called love..you can surely do not need him/her...if ypu need ypur lov most ...ypu have to get her and work for it...simple

P.S.-This in my view till yesterday's episode..things can change

Originally posted by: sujataraje

Originally posted by: bheegi

Yes Anushree...all your points are well taken but I still feel that deserve each other...

1. Neither one is flawless.

2. They lose their essence when they are apart

3. No one else can jhelo their idiosyncrasies

4. They have their unique way of romancing and showing their feelings which no other sane person might understand

In a nutshell...they are better off together even if they make mistakes

Remember, what Pandu said in MB the other day...

Mistakes can be forgiven but Sins cannot

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

No di i never said they don't deserve each other.Inspite of the fact that their character have been butchered,they have been fools and i don't belive they can be redeemed fully i do think they deserve eah other coz they are better off with each other,no one will make them as them and well no one will be able to tolerate their foolishness😆