Reality bites - Page 4

Originally posted by: nebuna

No way a girl would fall for a character like ASR ans Asad

Mutual respect is important in any relationship and not good looks pulling and catching
4 lions heroes never had any respect for their counterparts
Asad was fine before he slapped zoya but then his thought process was regressive as current time tv shows 😡

People who care little about their self respects would fall for asad and ASR though they look really good on TV

Originally posted by: nautanki_anu

First of all being a self-respecting woman I don't think I will stand there and listen to AAK talking abt tameez and tehzeeb all the time, insulting my parents and judging me, is rigid abt certain beliefs and is unwilling to change.

I wouldn't even want to change him coz I won't even reach that stage where I feel anything for him forget having the patience to see the change. I wdn't even want such a person as my friend.

I must admit that I liked the character growth shown in Asad which I have yet to see in any other character. But that's purely fm an entertainment point of view.

In real life ppl like Asad are a completely NO NO for me.

Having said that there are loads of women out there who wd fall in love with such men and subject themselves to all kinds of abuse, including physical n many such men don't even change no matter how much his woman or ppl around try.

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Ah i actually have a different opinion about the slapgate but i get what you are saying😆

Er, why is no one talking about bechara Ayaan?😆

Originally posted by: sujataraje

ok here are my serious thoughts about these type of guys

1-they are not bad or evil people ...they have flaws as we all do

2-they tend to be very passionate,caring and loyal but at deepest level but unless you break their inner wall you can not see their true nature.

3-to reach their inner layer of heart where the most beautiful feelings and their qualities reside ...you have to go through a long journey which is full of losing self respect,tolerating all type of judgemental attitude,hearing all bad words about you and your upbringing,nature,attitude and perspective ...

4-you do not know how they are in real unless you go through this journey of crap...but wait unless you do not know that a the end of tunnel there is beautiful scenic beauty and light so why would you take a route which is full of pain and losing your self respect as a girl...????and in real life we dont know the future and we do not witness these men's monologues😆

5-unless you transform these people with your love and patience you can not truly love them.but wait why you would love them while they are in their judgemental,d MCP attitude?????

6-so basically its very simple...in shows heroine knows that she can transform the guy and ultimately he will beat everyone around in romance and passion but in real life its not so easy...

hope you guys got what i meant😆

Originally posted by: ASRaddictKKG

Real life? A big No. See my name, Big ASR lover but personally i would run screaming for the hills if my boss held both my arms really tight and cornered me.
AAK? Uff, he's probably the type of guy my friends and I would rag, :p

Real Dream Guy? Dr. Armaan Malik. All the fantasies that I have rolled into one. Angry young man, cute, lovable, funny, guy next door,, he's everything. Actually i saw only the Shilpa Anand version so if something happened to him after she left, donlt know.

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Ah thats an awesome answer😆 But wait, how is it possible to gauge that the guy has a flawless heart? I mean we know Asad has a heart of gold cos we get to witness his inner conflicts, his monologues , his love for Zoya, his interactions with his ammi and every other character etc..But thats never the case in real life right? How exactly do you get yourself to fall for a guy who says you are a misfit and you don deserve to have parents? Its a different thing that we know he doesn't mean all that and he is an awesome guy at the end of the day cos its a fictional character..But does it work that way in real life?

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Thats so so true man..Its fiction, so you got to see such tremendous character development in Asad..Its hard to change people in real life..If only it was so easy, the world would have been a better place😆