Originally posted by: misst
this is an interesting post as well as the real vs reel scenario, that's why I am tempted to reply😊
In reality I have hated men like Arnav and Asad most of my life, thanks to my father who is a 90% Asad, I am yet to meet a guy like Arnav in real life. That's the reason I had liked Qubool Hai more, because Asad's character was almost close to reality except for he fights 10 men at a time.
So now back to your question will I fall for such guy? Hell, no. This was my answer 6 years back and I repeat I literally hated every guy like Asad who was all good but still conservative and dominant, since in reality 90% of such men do not have a background story like Asad has, it's more easier to hate them 😊
I used to like guys like Ayaan during my college days who are good for nothing but yet have good sense of humor(Ayaan didn't have it much), a little flirtatious, a little show off, to be precise I liked the guys like Raj of DDLJ and had a dream of marrying such guy because I believed they will be matured eventually as that is the only drawback I felt. But, my muquaddar had planned a Asad ie, a man like my father in my life.😆
My ex-enemy, ex-boyfriend and present husband is more or less Asad, ofcourse he can't fight 10 men at once and he doesn't own a construction company. I am not very much like Zoya but may be 50% like her because I am and was a feminist, over talkative, very messy and a little dramatic, but I had to meet this man in first year of my master's course project and we had a lot of arguments and fights the first day we met, in my wildest dreams also I wouldn't want him as my just friend husband tho door ki baath. But again we came face to face in field study and happened to stay in the same house for 6 days, and amid all the arguments and difference of opinions we took each others phone numbers and series of events made us comfortable with each other and then fall for each other and finally fight for each other when our parents opposed our marriage as it was inter-religious. But none of the things I did intentionally, I never thought to change his thought process, infact I never wanted to meet him again after our first visit, but somehow a lot of arguments made us understand each other which never happened with any of the guys with whom I had fought bitterly.
I feel 80% of the girls including me wouldn't want to fall in love with a Arnav or Asad, some who love fantasy may find men like Asad or Arnav as some thrilling challenge. But all that matters is how you get along with each other without letting your partner walk over your feelings and dignity. I have not watched Sooraj of DABH ever but from what my mom-in-law says he seems to be a very quiet, righteous and decent man like half of the Indian male population, but even these kind of men tend to put your dignity down and hurt your self respect sometimes because they can't stand by you in some situations.
My dad and my husband both have similar characters, but my husband's approach is different from my father's towards his wife. My mom accepted all my father did even though she didn't like and my husband knows I won't and he understands it, we do fight but yet respect each other's individuality may be the courting period has some influence.
Sorry for the long post😊
You are welcome to skip it, if your patience fails you. 😊
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