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Nandini

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Posted: 12 years ago

#91

Trade is too harsh a word to be used for what happened between Asad Aayan and zoya. If zoya didnt love Asad she wouldn't have agreed to it neither would Asad have the power to make her

How can act born out of love be called trade

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sheilasandhu

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Nandiniraizaada
Trade is too harsh a word to be used for what happened between Asad Aayan and zoya. If zoya didnt love Asad she wouldn't have agreed to it neither would Asad have the power to make her
How can act born out of love be called trade

OK than i shall use the other word for trade -- EXCHANGED .

Actually if you watch yesterday's epi if she herself thinks that the 2 brothers did the same to her which is trade as no one even once thought of her, her feelings and what it would leave her after their purpose of saving their sister was complete . She would be left to be known as a divorcee in a so called orthodox place called Bhopal'

If you ask me it was worse than trading cause Nikhat will be saved . Hummeira though hurt does not have to live with the Stigma labelled divorcee ( Knowing Hassena bi, She is not gonna let that lable of Zoya so easily) . Men in society can divorcee and still not have a stigma but in India and more so in little cities and towns like Bhopal, it is a torment and ASAD of all people should know it since his MUM has had to live with it.

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Nandini

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I think qualifying a situation which was born out of a choice issue between love and responsibility as trade or exchange or barter is an isult to the word love

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sheilasandhu

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Nandiniraizaada
I think qualifying a situation which was born out of a choice issue between love and responsibility as trade or exchange or barter is an isult to the word love

But what love are we talking about here. Just Zoya's love???? What happened to Mr. Khan's Love for her???

You say that it was his selfless act but i say it was a selfish act. And why do i say that is cause who did he sacrifice for...

AYAAN???? Who has never stood up for him even when his sautela brother was being cursed, insulted and abused in public by his mother

Nikhat ???? who did not even know who her bhaijaan's mother was after 17 yrs ( Pls watch earlier epis when Asad gets hurt saving Ayaan) . She too stood and watched her mother insult, abuse and curse him and his family.

Shireen??? Who does not have a single good thing to say or feel for him and his family.

Rashid???? Who has hurt his mother and family to the core that he claims he hates him.

I say selfish cause he did it for himself...For acceptance by that idiotic sautela bhai and family.

To prove how mahaan (great) he is towards is sauteli family even though they have nothing for him. Did he once think by doing what he did that he is going to leave the supposedly LOVE of his life totally shattered. Did he once realise a girl so pure without a family whos depends on him and has always been there for him thru thick and thin. Did he realise , he is going to make her a divorcee and what their community in Bhopal thinks of divorcees . ( he should know as his mum has gone thru that taboo and stigma)

How could he be so selfish.?

Yes Zoya did not speak out. Yes thats her mistake but when someone you love and trust with all your heart ask you to trust him and being in such a confusing situation any woman would be lost and unable to think. He ruined her principals and broke her to the core. He misused her pure love for him hence i will still say he traded her for his own selfish reasons. I don't think Any brother will LOAN/SHARE/EXCHANGE/BARTER ( all other words that can replace the word trade) his WIFE/FIANCEE/LOVE to his brother under any circumstance or anyone for that matter.

So what LOVE are we talking about???? He crying his eyes out ??? Thats not love. Love is when you stand by that person even if that person may have done wrong but needs your help and support and guidance. What did he do he abandoned her into a house that even he knows is so very HOSTILE. So what LOVE are we talking about???

Again i have my POV AND EVERYONE can have theirs.

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Nandini

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Mr Khan's love came second to responsibly. That can be a wrong doing but it cannot be trade or barter

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sheilasandhu

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Nandiniraizaada
Mr Khan's love came second to responsibly. That can be a wrong doing but it cannot be trade or barter

Thats your POV and not mine. Firstly how is he responsible for that family. They have each other and Zoya had only him...

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Nandini

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Posted: 12 years ago

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he wasnt responsible.. Thats why it was wrong

Miss placed sense of responsibility

BTW I have as much right to air my view as you have and i never seid its your view. I was airing my view only

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sheilasandhu

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Nandiniraizaada
he wasnt responsible.. Thats why it was wrong
Miss placed sense of responsibility

BTW I have as much right to air my view as you have and i never seid its your view. I was airing my view only

Yes you are right and i may have worded it wrongly. We are both entitled to our views.

BTW he was equally responsible towards Zoya if not more.

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sheilasandhu

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

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Posted: 12 years ago

#100

The purpose of this post is for everyone to air their different view and not force their view on someone else. Explain your thoughts with coherency and others will follow suit and look at it from each other's perspective.

@sheilasandhu, you've shared your views but don't seem to want to look at the other side of the coin or see that you could be misinterpreting in your views while others have seen your view and tried to reason out why it may not be plausible.

See that if Zoya wants marriage documents signed or no, she could leave Ayaan's house. She is staying of her own will. She signed with her own hands. She is responsible for herself and she let herself be put into a situation she didn't want to help Asad's family.

Look at the bigger picture of how this is one step in ZOYA bridging the gap between two estranged and warring families with this act of selflessness.

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