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Posted: 11 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: kankabhor


Nice reply..After long time...Hows you??..

I am bored with blind feminism now so avoid reply to these posts.. I am not saying Asad is right, but even Zoya is at fault.. If she can say "Qubool nai hai" in front of 100 ppl including Quazi in her first marriage, why can't here??

I don't feel like blaming Asad because root cause of this situation is Zoya herself..Yes she does not deserve harsh punishment but life is harsh many times.. I am not supporting Nikhat, but would Asad Zoya ever live happily if Nikhat dies??😕 That was very difficult situation for Asad too, so may be his decision is not 100 % correct but he did the best he could do ..Nothing was in his hand and noone want to watch their siblings dying in front of their eyes.. And I feel Zoya did not speak up because somewhere she knew that she cant let Nikhat die, deep inside she knew the situation is helpless..


Hey🤗 I'm good, you tell me? Long time eh. Nothing man, busy with uni and work, just been inactive!

Oh tell me about it. This forum is way too biased towards Zoya so much that I have no sympathy left for Zoya thanks to all the worshiping.

WORD! She landed everyone in this mess. I don't even get why priorities are brought up here. He's seen his sister slitting her wrist and if he's told the only reason to save her is Zoya getting married to Ayaan then why wouldn't he go for this option? Right now the main mission is to save Nikhat's life. It's about someone's life for goodness sake. If Zoya can not think through and get out of the house without informing anyone on her wedding day to save her 'sister' by finding out the truth and land everyone in the mess, then why can Asad not choose to save Nikhat's life? It's a sacrifice for both the couples. No one's happy but that's just how life is. & Exactly. Why can't Zoya speak up in front of everyone? Even she knows, thanks to their mistake, this has become such a huge mess.

All this trafficking, trading, slavery, abuse stuff people are coming up with is absurd. These are sensitive topics and really harsh terms used for this situation. How exactly did Asad treat Zoya as a slave? Because he told her she'll have to make this sacrifice? Sure, he would've asked her but he doesn't show her right on her as if she's his property. It's better to look at intentions than coming up with such harsh terms! I don't even know what to say actually!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..


Hey🤗 I'm good, you tell me? Long time eh. Nothing man, with uni and work, just been inactive!

Oh tell me about it. This forum is way too biased towards Zoya so much that I have no sympathy left for Zoya thanks to all the worshiping.

WORD! She landed everyone in this mess. I don't even get why priorities are brought up here. He's seen his sister slitting her wrist and if he's told the only reason to save her is Zoya getting married to Ayaan then why wouldn't he go for this option? Right now the main mission is to save Nikhat's life. It's about someone's life for goodness sake. If Zoya can not think through and get out of the house without informing anyone on her wedding day to save her 'sister' by finding out the truth and land everyone in the mess, then why can Asad not choose to save Nikhat's life? It's a sacrifice for both the couples. No one's happy but that's just how life is. & Exactly. Why can't Zoya speak up in front of everyone? Even she knows, thanks to their mistake, this has become such a huge mess.

All this trafficking, trading, slavery, abuse stuff people are coming up with is absurd. These are sensitive topics and really harsh terms used for this situation. How exactly did Asad treat Zoya as a slave? Because he told her she'll have to make this sacrifice? Sure, he would've asked her but he doesn't show her right on her as if she's his property. It's better to look at intentions than coming up with such harsh terms! I don't even know what to say actually!


🤗... Yeah these days don;t feel like coming much on forum.. Classes also started, busy schedule..

Exactly.. These are really very harsh words for Asad.. If Zoya can choose leaving Asad on wedding day without telling for Najma's happiness then this situation is worse because Nikhat is dying..Thats all I can say..

Well, btw Zoya did not speak up and told Asad truth abt Tannu when she got to know about it..She chose to let Asad live in guilt for his entire life... She let him live with giult and without self respect.. Even when she knew Asad was marrying Tanveer, Zoya did not speak, she was in fact ruining Asad's life by not telling truth.. What was that?
Truth came when Tannu herself confessed and Asad heard it, what if Asad never heard and got married to Tannu..Isn;t is same as whats happening now? If Asad forced Zoya in relationship, that time Zoya was on verge of forcing Asad in relationship indirectly by not telling truth..Why din't Zoya tell Asad , showed reports? Oh , Zoya is also like this..She can also leave Asad and prefer her principles, ideologies and her loved ones life..
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Posted: 11 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: kankabhor


🤗... Yeah these days don;t feel like coming much on forum.. Classes also started, busy schedule..

Exactly.. These are really very harsh words for Asad.. If Zoya can choose leaving Asad on wedding day without telling for Najma's happiness then this situation is worse because Nikhat is dying..Thats all I can say..

Well, btw Zoya did not speak up and told Asad truth abt Tannu when she got to know about it..She chose to let Asad live in guilt for his entire life... She let him live with giult and without self respect.. Even when she knew Asad was marrying Tanveer, Zoya did not speak, she was in fact ruining Asad's life by not telling truth.. What was that?
Truth came when Tannu herself confessed and Asad heard it, what if Asad never heard and got married to Tannu..Isn;t is same as whats happening now? If Asad forced Zoya in relationship, that time Zoya was on verge of forcing Asad in relationship indirectly by not telling truth..Why din't Zoya tell Asad , showed reports? Oh , Zoya is also like this..She can also leave Asad and prefer her principles, ideologies and her loved ones life..


I feel ya. Semester just started and I already feel so stressed!😆

Word but why would anyone care about that? Zoya's a selfless poor girl and Asad is selfish and trying to become mahan!

Thank You for saying that. Before every time Zoya did a mistake, people always brought in her intentions but now when Asad's put in a situation where he has to make a choice, he's being called slave master, selfish and God knows what. Why not look at his intentions as well? Does he want to let her go? Of course not. Didn't he say, he's dying thousand deaths? Did people not notice his tears? Did people not look at his expressions? or did people chose to ignore all that? But as I said these excuses work as per convenience. It's funny now Zoya used to be my most favorite character once upon a time and now I do not feel for her at all. Things this forum can do to you😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#74
for all the bashers
you are not allowed to bash any character too
what do you think asad should do when he knows zoya is already married to someone and if he also allows zoya to stay at his home do you really think zoya will be ready to marry him second time
if sending zoya to ayaan saves someone's life then its worthy
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pk1611

That's what I said, he traded her happiness for Nikhat's, he put Nikhat first, for which he is wrong... So is Ayaan... N Zoya said no but she didn't open her mouth when the kazi came... She was dragged but she could have refused to sign the papers... Its not like she is an abala naari...
Gul is wrong in showing so many things-- it's ok to keep things frm ur intended, it's ok to act impulsively in all situations, the only aim of a woman is to marry, it's ok to commit suicide when the going gets tough... N it's ok to get emotionally blackmailed, n it's ok to sign nikaahnama knowing that the wedding was a misunderstanding, n the list is endless...
All I'm saying is Asad n Ayaan r wrong but so is Zoya ..

gul isn't showing anything wrong but she is showing a lot which is hard to digest at the same time but this is the reality of life this happens I won't go far here only some people say zoya deserves it as she ran from wedding or not told asad n most of them r youth so this is yhe yhinking process is gul isn't showing ki how badly she is playing with story she is showing this happens n its time we change some aspect of it in life n asad is wronh in putting zoya there due to nikhat as by doing it he is no way helping his sis
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Posted: 11 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Oh yes he sold her. He so badly wanted to sell her. That's all he wanted to do all his life. Put him behind the bars man!!


It's funny how when it comes to Zoya speaking up, people come up with excuses like she was emotionally blackmailed, manipulated, forced and blah blah. & What about Asad? I didn't see him partying after 'giving' her away:/ or did I watch some different show? Was he not emotionally blackmailed? Or are we supposed to use this excuse only when convenient i.e. in Zoya's case? & Why exactly can't Zoya open her big mouth? How many times has she run away from marriages before? If she's so against this wedding, then why the hell is she not saying "QUBOOL NAHI HAI" loud and clear in front of everyone? Just like people are saying Asad is trying to show how mahaan he is, similarly Zoya is trying to show how mahaan she is!🥱 SO tired to this Asad blaming crap. Every time cvs find a way to put blame on him just so that mahaan Zoya can get sympathy even though this whole situation is her fault. Thanks to her immaturity all this mess happened and instead of showing her growing up, once again Asad's made the scapegoat! Last time, Asad didn't show up at the wedding venue, everyone misunderstood him and now that Zoya left on the wedding day and got married to Ayaan, I would've liked to see Asad misunderstanding her and her realizing that she needs to grow the hell up.

You know I really miss seeing you around here on this forum. Its either your away a lot or Im away a lot these days. Whatever it is...but I miss seeing your comments.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

How low will this man go...you didn't give a sacrifice...you sold her dammit. This is insane...every single one needs to be behind bars.


Chill!!!
Those characters are just fictional. i am sure in real life they wouldn't do so.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Exactly!! I am sad for him..bt thinking logically...he actually sold her..for his sister..for his brother...
Damn sure if Nikhat's life wasn't in danger..he wud hav gone beyond limits to dismiss dis nikah...
Nikhat is ur sis..so wat?? Zoya..isn't c ur life..or dat was wat u said???
Nikhat is behaving insesibly..*yeah dats not abnormal, as per d situation c'z facing* bt Zoe.c'mn do smthg evn more insensible...n say him...evn u can cut ur nerves fo him whn Nikhat cut her nerves..whn c was nt evn in luv wid Farhan!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#79

Originally posted by: .Mandy.



I agree, Zoya is the one who broke her promise by leaving without telling Asad where she was going and she has yet to tell him what she found out. Love works both ways and Zoya shares fault in this. Asad did not happily sacrifice his love here, he has his sisters to think about one of which tried to kill herself repeatedly.

True and more so, isnt Najma more of Asad's responsibility than Zoya's? Isnt it important to inform Asad about something that majorly affects Najma rather than trying to be a fictional lady bond.😕😆 Asad does not know about validity or invalidity of nikaah and nor does Zoya so how is Asad to be blamed. He is doing what is legal.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

really...so you think Zoya deserved to be butchered and traded because of her impulsive behavior...Zoya and Ayaan cannot be blamed for whatever accidentally happened ...it was invalid until Zoya and Ayaan signed it. But guess what Asad made it very clear that it's valid now because he traded her by dragging her into this. Yes, he needs to be far away from the society and locked away...infact all the men in QH should be incarcerated because they are all bunch of criminals.

Of course if someone is being rash than you have to bear the brunt. Thats why NO rash driving or decisions in life. How on earth is Asad to be blamed? Poor guy he is actually the victim of others idiosyncratic behavior/obessive behavior. On Zoya, well do ponder about this; Isnt Najma more of Asad's responsibility than Zoya's? Isnt it important to inform Asad about something that majorly affects Najma rather than trying to be a fictional lady bond.😕😆
Asad does not know about validity or invalidity of nikaah and nor does Zoya or Ayaan then how is Asad to be blamed. He is doing what is legal.
No I wont say all men in QH or anywhere are criminals😆😆 Isnt Asad the same who won your heart sometime back?😳😆😆
Asad deserves most sympathy in all this mess.
Edited by realitybites - 11 years ago

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