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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: karan-007

r yu taunting me 😉 people wish of saying anything then QH mein yhik ho raha hai kyunki reality mein bhi aisa ho raha hai n m not saying worship zoya m just saying she went to help najma but wen she saw nikaah hua she didn't uttered a word whereas asad left her for his behna sake phir uske pyaar ka kya fayda I believe asad has done that too wrong I don't hate asad I just don't like a guy who doesn't ask a girl instead orders her

not.. its not you 😆 i don taunt anyone.. who am i to anyway 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#92

If someone called you a worship
er particularly, you are more than welcome to defend yourself but I got nothing to do with that thread, so I'm not sure why thats brought up here! & I have my reasons to say why I think this forum worships Zoya and that has certainly nothing to do with criticizing Asad.

If you know you don't worship her and accept her mistakes then why did you get so worked up by worshiper comment? You're more than welcome to defend yourself but how about quote that person who passed the comment rather than passing indirect comments and pitying on them? & We both know that pity comment was for me.

Why I think this forum worships Zoya is because most of the times more than half of the forum over looks her mistakes, pass off her mistakes by bringing up her intentions or just blame Cvs for making her this way whereas when it comes to other characters, their intentions, emotions are ignored and people use the harshest terms out there especially for both the brothers.

P.S.: I did not understand anything you said about Mods, your posts and comments. Since I have nothing to do with them, I'm not going to comment on them. You feel offended by my comments, quote me rather than passing indirect comments and pitying me. That's the reason I quoted you not because I'm hurt.

Edited by ..Kirann.. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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haha... you are not on the forum thats why you arent getting anything.. people might worshiped Zoya.. but isnt it generalizing to call all worshiper...


there's many members i know personally worships Asad but doest this mean everyone does the same.. of course i am bound to say cz i don worship Zoya.. i am part of forum. commenting on forum nature doesnt mean excluding me or whatever..

about modz post.. you will see on many post people are continuously bashing Zoya.. perhaps you don visit those thread anyway cz this title is indeed attractive.. i cant post on all thread.. so if i make any post it will get closed.. so i wanted explanation from madz...who told me replying on threads rather making new thread.. so its not only you but many people says whoever criticize Asad, a Zoya worshiper... isnt that weird.. see few days back topics.. you will see nth no of post bashing/criticizing Zoya.. then how does forum worship her...

anyway i don sit on report button 24/7 to report to take actions.. then better to reply.. if you think it was you then i cant do anything.. and you are also included among them who believes people worship Zoya..


this is misconception.. if you criticizeZoya.. and people defends her blindly.. then you can so so for those whoever bashed you for cricizing Zoya.. but that never allows you or other to call rest of others worshiper..


for God sake.. you and all other are free on this free forum to make post on Zoya.. showing how bad she is.. this wont make you n other Asad worshiper... this isnt temple that anyone will come and say Zoya is being worshiped.. this is certainly not acceptable...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Is it generalizing? Then let it be. Whoever is offended, my apologies to them but does that change my opinion? No.
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But why are you telling me that? I'm going to comment on what I see. & Why I say as a forum? because I do not want to name members particularly. Neither my comment was for particular members. 95% of the forum over looks Zoya's mistakes from what I've seen, hence my opinion and it will stay the same.
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Honestly, I do not what this Mods issue is about. I'm not the mod so I honestly cannot do anything about it. From whatever I've seen, all I see is Asad and Ayaan getting blamed. I do not have the time to go through every single post on the forum. I check first few pages and all I see is brothers getting blamed and Zoya as some selfless woman who has been wronged by everyone. I'm going to speak for myself not forwhatyou have seen. So I'm sorry to say but I didn't come across those posts.
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Where did report button come from again? It was pretty obvious that pity comment was for me. I'll buy your worshiper wasn't for me alone but that pity one was certainly for me. There's no two ways about it. Sure, if that makes you happy then I'm included among those forum members. What does that change? My opinion? No.
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You're going all over the place with your comments and I honestly am confused. I gave my explanation as to why I think this forum worships her ( not literallywhichwas pretty obvious but I guess i needed to explain that as well) even though I owe no explanations here. & It's not going to change.
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<font color="#0000FF">I already knew it's free forum and I can make whatever post I want but thanks for letting me know. & Would I care if someone terms me as Asadworshiper? No. I know I don't worship him so it wouldn't affect me. & Seems like you took worshiper term tooliterally. Oh Jesus! What's acceptable to you might not be acceptable to me and vice versa. So Yeah...


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Posted: 11 years ago
#95
OMGG OMGGG OMGGG would you please end this blame game once and for all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!😵

Already the current track is indigestible and now this fighting over whose right and whose wrong???

If you want to blame anyone then i would say blame GUL as shes is the one who made the characters like that. SHe has butchered them. She makes the leads dumber day by day while the villains smarter😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Oh yes he sold her. He so badly wanted to sell her. That's all he wanted to do all his life. Put him behind the bars man!!


It's funny how when it comes to Zoya speaking up, people come up with excuses like she was emotionally blackmailed, manipulated, forced and blah blah. & What about Asad? I didn't see him partying after 'giving' her away:/ or did I watch some different show? Was he not emotionally blackmailed? Or are we supposed to use this excuse only when convenient i.e. in Zoya's case? & Why exactly can't Zoya open her big mouth? How many times has she run away from marriages before? If she's so against this wedding, then why the hell is she not saying "QUBOOL NAHI HAI" loud and clear in front of everyone? Just like people are saying Asad is trying to show how mahaan he is, similarly Zoya is trying to show how mahaan she is!🥱 SO tired to this Asad blaming crap. Every time cvs find a way to put blame on him just so that mahaan Zoya can get sympathy even though this whole situation is her fault. Thanks to her immaturity all this mess happened and instead of showing her growing up, once again Asad's made the scapegoat! Last time, Asad didn't show up at the wedding venue, everyone misunderstood him and now that Zoya left on the wedding day and got married to Ayaan, I would've liked to see Asad misunderstanding her and her realizing that she needs to grow the hell up.

I won't say asad sold her but gave up on her due to stupidity nobody hates him but r pissed off upset from him a guy who is mature does that then it surely hurts zoya was immature asad wasn't so I expected him to shout at her ask her wat happened but he so sweetly gave her for nikhat lol a guy ho bachpan se apni maa ki struggle mushkil dekhta hai suddenly listens to shireen phir khud pe gussa ata hai zoya nahi boli wrong par asad waha kyun leke gaya a guy who says how much he hates mr rashid suddenly is too considerate about them rather then the girl who taught him wat lov is tab head spin hota hai in moi in all this won nikhat jo shaddi ke baad bhi haseena se darr ke rahegi kyun asad 1 baar bhi use nshi mila kyun asad didn't let dilshaad go kyun he didn't shoutrd at his bro rather thrn giving him his happiness if this is called niceness then sorry to say I don't like it
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Posted: 11 years ago
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when anyone worship anyone why she/he will feel bad if anyone calls him/her worshiper.. that was indeed generalizing comment... there's none to change anyone's opinion if anyone sticks to his/her opinion...


if forum doesnt accept Zoya's mistake.. why cant other notify them with other post.. make 50-50..


that wasnt enough reason to call the entire forum Zoya worshiper.. at least i don think so.. anyway good luck.. i am again sorry if i hurt anyone's ego
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Yaariyan-

<font color="#0000FF">when anyone worship anyone why she/he will feel bad if anyone calls him/her worshiper.. that was indeed generalizing comment... there's none to change anyone's opinion if anyone sticks to his/her opinion...


if forum doesnt accept Zoya's mistake.. why cant other notify them with other post.. make 50-50..


that wasnt enough reason to call the entire forum Zoya worshiper.. at least i don think so.. anyway good luck.. i am again sorry if i hurt anyone's ego
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As I said if its generalizing let it be. Anyone feels offended, my apologies but still my opinion doesnt change.

I think thats ones own decision to make posts. Whats that got to do with anything? Just because I think forum doesnt accept zoyas mistake doesnt mean forum needs to accept them. Its their wish to accept or not and why would forum change accordung to ones wishes and opinions?

Since you are taking my words too literally i aint gunna bother explaining. But that was enough for me to form my opinion. Ego?? 😆 Dont be sorry for the discussion or your opinion and im not hurt.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I hated Asad's decision as much as anyone else. But I'm not going to act as if he is the villain in all this. Firstly, Zoya isn't a item that can be sold. She in fact is a free person. She gave this big speech today, where was this yesterday? Why was she quiet. Why didn't she just tell the Qazi, listen this marriage was an accident. Everyone keeps saying Asad should have picked Zoya over Nikhaat, well why are we not asking Zoya to pick herself and her freedom that God has given her? Then people say she was emotionally blackmailed and forced by Asad. So wasn't Asad emotionally blackmailed by Shireen and Ayaan also? Asad dragged Zoya to SM but didn't Shireen drag Asad to watch Nikhaat trying to kill herself again.

Secondly, I'm so confused because Ayaan and Zoya both told Asad that they are already married. They keep saying the marriage was an "accident" but there is a different between a marriage being an accident and a marriage being invalid. It seems that Ayaan and Zoya themselves don't know this marriage is not valid so how in the world will Asad know?

Did I agree with what Asad did? NO, of course not. It was cruel and rude of him. Did Zoya have the power to stop this? Yes, of course she did. All she had to do was tell the Qazi she doesn't agree to this marriage and no power in this world could have made her sign the paper or whatever. There can't always be a separate set of rules for Asad and Zoya. I feel bad for Zoya of course, and her sacrifice is much bigger than Asad's, but that doesn't mean Asad didn't make a sacrifice at all.

I remember your post from when Asad left Zoya at the alter to save Tanveer and you said he made this big sin by leaving her and the whole "rape" thing was a result of that. Well a few days ago, Zoya did the same thing yet.

My point, they all had to make sacrifices, but they are all also responsible for this situation. No one had bad intentions in this situation.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: karan-007

I won't say asad sold her but gave up on her due to stupidity nobody hates him but r pissed off upset from him a guy who is mature does that then it surely hurts zoya was immature asad wasn't so I expected him to shout at her ask her wat happened but he so sweetly gave her for nikhat lol a guy ho bachpan se apni maa ki struggle mushkil dekhta hai suddenly listens to shireen phir khud pe gussa ata hai zoya nahi boli wrong par asad waha kyun leke gaya a guy who says how much he hates mr rashid suddenly is too considerate about them rather then the girl who taught him wat lov is tab head spin hota hai in moi in all this won nikhat jo shaddi ke baad bhi haseena se darr ke rahegi kyun asad 1 baar bhi use nshi mila kyun asad didn't let dilshaad go kyun he didn't shoutrd at his bro rather thrn giving him his happiness if this is called niceness then sorry to say I don't like it



You just supported my opinion. Now if you dig deeper you would understand how hard it must have been for him to give his life away for a family who gave him and his family nothing but pain. Do I think hes right in his decision? No. But do I understand him? Yes. Emotions can make you do stuff you never thought you would.
Edited by ..Kirann.. - 11 years ago

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