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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChamakChallo91

True! Marriage is a part of life...but it's only a PART!

Poor asya and ayra 😭

ya! its a very sadistic and brytal situation but when is life ever fair?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yes what u said is partly true...but before sacrificing they should think that whether this is right for nikhat or not??? who knows haseena comes with her another disgusting demand???!
but as a family what they are doing is really respectable!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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So far everybody is doing it for Nikhat's sake while Asad zoya are selfless shireen and Ayaan are selfish. Even ayaan is shown in good light today as he is concerned about Humeira and donot know abt nikahnama formality. Razia is the only hope right now coz she'l do anything for Humeira ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: srashti_kul

yes what u said is partly true...but before sacrificing they should think that whether this is right for nikhat or not??? who knows haseena comes with her another disgusting demand???!
but as a family what they are doing is really respectable!!!

Who cares about what Haseena does or doesnt do when a life is at stake!
the sacrifise is not for nikhats rishta its for nikhat that too to bring back her sanity
and this is all temporary!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jujube

So far everybody is doing it for Nikhat's sake while Asad zoya are selfless shireen and Ayaan are selfish. Even ayaan is shown in good light today as he is concerned about Humeira and donot know abt nikahnama formality. Razia is the only hope right now coz she'l do anything for Humeira ..


yah! but i feel ayaan is also sacrifising somuch eventhough its nothing compared to asya!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It's not sacrifice in any form...it's a modern day slavery. It was a trading of a woman. Asad has no rights to sacrifice Zoya for Nikhat...simply none because he doesn't own her.
And for Nikhat...I am sorry...the woman is pathetic...I don't have an ounce of sympathy for her...she is a woman who has repeatedly shown lack of self respect...her only goal in life is to get married...anyways, she is just pathetic.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

It's not sacrifice in any form...it's a modern day slavery. It was a trading of a woman. Asad has no rights to sacrifice Zoya for Nikhat...simply none because he doesn't own her.

And for Nikhat...I am sorry...the woman is pathetic...I don't have an ounce of sympathy for her...she is a woman who has repeatedly shown lack of self respect...her only goal in life is to get married...anyways, she is just pathetic.


im sorry but i completely oppose your point of view!
zoya was not forcibly involved into all this she herself got involved in all this by accidentally getting married to ayaan!
so she should also take responcibility and she knows that!
its just that heart doesnt accept this fact because she loves asad roo much!
but aftr asad gave her assurance and asked her to keep faith in him she thought of doing the biggest sacrifise in her life and prove tht love is what is the thing that matters but not marriage!

and she thought of doing this sacrifise for the sake of an innocent soul who lost all her self respect because of the situations tht happnd and felt like her own life is burden to her parents!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well I don't know what Gul is trying to show, since all her storylines are so messed up, but I understand what you're saying.
Marriage isn't everything in life. But society makes it out like you have to get married and if you don't then you are a shame to your family. While a person themselves might not believe that to be the case, they know people would look down on their family, and they feel forced to get married, like Nikhat.

In the show I haven't seen Nikhat showing any personal desire to get married, apart from when she got to know Imran, but other than that she just seemed happy without it.

In the show I'd blame Shirin for Nikhat's state. She always made her daughter feel unattractive and useless and has continuously stated that no-one would marry her, so Nikhat already felt like a failure. I mean how is a girl meant to feel when her own mother degrades her? Whenever I see Nikhat breaking down I feel it more because she feels she's a burden on her family rather than the fact she isn't getting married. No woman or man should feel such pressure.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: butterfly15..

Well I don't know what Gul is trying to show, since all her storylines are so messed up, but I understand what you're saying.

Marriage isn't everything in life. But society makes it out like you have to get married and if you don't then you are a shame to your family. While a person themselves might not believe that to be the case, they know people would look down on their family, and they feel forced to get married, like Nikhat.

In the show I haven't seen Nikhat showing any personal desire to get married, apart from when she got to know Imran, but other than that she just seemed happy without it.

In the show I'd blame Shirin for Nikhat's state. She always made her daughter feel unattractive and useless and has continuously stated that no-one would marry her, so Nikhat already felt like a failure. I mean how is a girl meant to feel when her own mother degrades her? Whenever I see Nikhat breaking down I feel it more because she feels she's a burden on her family rather than the fact she isn't getting married. No woman or man should feel such pressure.



very very well said!
a mother should always be the solid support of a child but instead she only doesn't have any hope and keeps on pressurising her!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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But looking at zoya... what is she going to do...

Dilsahd is more angry



Well said... how happiness is important

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