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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dillu momma is the best👏😊
Shireen is pure selfish..😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes, it is very apparent what gul is trying to say. She is saying dark color can be bitch and girls with dark color will always be less lucky than than fair and fat Nazma. Women like shirin and Nikhat are really leeches in life who only take from their families. She wants to say to people marriage is a farce of a institution and wants us to celebrate divorce. Yes marriage is not necessary but it is also not a farce to be mocked.
Gul khan has made a mockery of Islam and girls. Girls are a commodity to be either traded or to mourn when born. Islamic nikAh omg I would recommend to make sure one knows the rules before you set foot near a nikAh venue.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nikhat is a loser! She needs a dose of reality and a can of whoop ass! NOT to be indulged in her madness! She will be cursed for getting married After making SO many people's lives miserable! I hope her marriage SUCKS so she will know what it is like to be in a loveless marriage that she doomed others into!!

She is officially pathetic!! Should be in the psych ward!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saathfan

Yes, it is very apparent what gul is trying to say. She is saying dark color can be bitch and girls with dark color will always be less lucky than than fair and fat Nazma. Women like shirin and Nikhat are really leeches in life who only take from their families. She wants to say to people marriage is a farce of a institution and wants us to celebrate divorce. Yes marriage is not necessary but it is also not a farce to be mocked.

Gul khan has made a mockery of Islam and girls. Girls are a commodity to be either traded or to mourn when born. Islamic nikAh omg I would recommend to make sure one knows the rules before you set foot near a nikAh venue.

Here if u want to blame anybody in the whole situation its only shireen and noone else!
Because of her that nikhat is in such a kind of situation!
we r not to blame nikhat in all this!

and as far as this marriage is concerned its only that ones life is more important than getting married to the right person!

that's all i was trying to say!
a arriage can only be called one if and only if the hearts of the bride and bride groom uniteand other than that nother situation cannot be called a marriage!
but now in this case as far as i can se this is all no a marriage but a sacrifice!
that too for an innocent soul who is damaged,heart-broken and lost all self respect because of her own mother and is too innocent and selfless to blame anybody else for her situation but herself!



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Nikhat is a loser! She needs a dose of reality and a can of whoop ass! NOT to be indulged in her madness! She will be cursed for getting married After making SO many people's lives miserable! I hope her marriage SUCKS so she will know what it is like to be in a loveless marriage that she doomed others into!!

She is officially pathetic!! Should be in the psych ward!!


No one has the right to say or blame nikhat in whatever is happening!
one can only blame shireen for whatever situation this is!
what can a girl do when her own mother thinks that her daugther is a burden that she has to remove from my shoulders otherwise she will be a dark shade in our lives!

trust me they r parents and their children tend to believe them most and hence loose all self-respect because of those sorry name of parents!

these kind of parents really exist in real world and its nowonder to me!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sowmy18

Here if u want to blame anybody in the whole situation its only shireen and noone else!
Because of her that nikhat is in such a kind of situation!
we r not to blame nikhat in all this!

and as far as this marriage is concerned its only that ones life is more important than getting married to the right person!

that's all i was trying to say!
a arriage can only be called one if and only if the hearts of the bride and bride groom uniteand other than that nother situation cannot be called a marriage!
but now in this case as far as i can se this is all no a marriage but a sacrifice!
that too for an innocent soul who is damaged,heart-broken and lost all self respect because of her own mother and is too innocent and selfless to blame anybody else for her situation but herself!




Yes shirin is a nutcase and she has been chiseling away at Nikita's self worth slowly but surely. But nikhat is not someone to be pitied. She is a educated girl with family and resources who is coming across as a selfish brat who is saying just get me married. She is a weak person who will always be a loser and user of sympathy. It's like poor me look at me. I have no sympathy for nikhat
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shireen is so selfish...She gives baddua to Asad,disrespects his ammi whenever she want and asks Asad to sacrifice his love for her daughter...😡
In sab me bichare AsYa aur AyRa phas gaye...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saathfan


Yes shirin is a nutcase and she has been chiseling away at Nikita's self worth slowly but surely. But nikhat is not someone to be pitied. She is a educated girl with family and resources who is coming across as a selfish brat who is saying just get me married. She is a weak person who will always be a loser and user of sympathy. It's like poor me look at me. I have no sympathy for nikhat

yes i understand ur point of view but what im trying to say is that a daughter will be more connected to a mother than anybody else!
not only a daughter everybody is influenced or inspired by a mother!
if a mother is only not having any hope on a daughter then noone else's assurance will be enough for her not her dad not her bro not anybody!
because noone in this world can take the position of a mother!
so i always sympathise with nikhat because her own mother whom she trusts more than her life doesn't trust her at all!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: manognasai

Shireen is so selfish...She gives baddua to Asad,disrespects his ammi whenever she want and asks Asad to sacrifice his love for her daughter...😡
In sab me bichare AsYa aur AyRa phas gaye...


Exactly shireen is a very weak woman!
because of her that all this is happening!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sowmy18

After today's episode i understood one thing out of all the mess that has been showed!

Gul is trying to show that marriage is not everything in life!
atleast its not important than our own life and happiness!

I understand that marriage is a life time commitment and all that
but is it really really important if it is doing more damage than good that too to many people!

Here i can only see one thing!
both Asad and Zoya are sacrifising for nikhat including ayaan!

That's all it is!

And in all this we cannot and should not even consider it in the pointof marriage!
If for all the people in the show itself the marriage is for name sake then why r we taking it so seriously!

we shldn't see all this as marriage or zoyaan weshould see this as a sacrifise by everybody for a damaged,innocent,wronged and depressed girl!
and dont bash me if i say that im actually proud of Asya and zoya because they are sacrifising everything for this especially zoya!


From my personal POV, I do agree that marriage is not everything in life. I am speaking for myself. But can we make this decision for all that "marriage is not everything in life"?

It is very important to define what "marriage" is. The definition varies from person to person. For some, marriage is the formalization to the world of the joining of two souls in love. For some, it is a social status requirement. For some, it is purely to ensure that there is companionship for life.

A very important question that need to be answered before making the statement - "marriage is not everything in life" is this. Do you get lonely? Are you satisfied with your own company? Do you need that special someone? If the answer is "yes" - then marriage at some point does become everything in life.

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