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gossipgirlxoxo

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: karikarinainan

After reading your post, why do i remember "Stockholm syndrome"?

Funny I had to write a paper on that ! But why do you feel like that ?

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gossipgirlxoxo

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: aksasya
I am sorry I can't agree with this...If I am in Asad's position I may ask my would be to leave me but will not force her to live with someother...Asad have no right to force zoya to go to sm...

You don't have to agree 😊

I personally feel that the only person here till now who can change thi situation is Zoya.

If I consider the Dramatic situation

Asad has no choice...

Ayaan has no choice

Humeira has no choice.

I would do the same in their situation, from a dramatic point of view

In old hindi movies like sangam, chaudhavi ka chand and many more this has been done

Had I been in place of Zoya I would annul the Nikah and go back to NY.

all these characters have been caught in a tangled web made by other's

and to a certain extent Zoya !

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gossipgirlxoxo

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Gazala1

With all due respect, you are part of society, if you and all of us choose to be mere onlookers how can we blame the same society for all the wrongful acts happening all around us?
My problem is not with the characters, it's with Gul khan, who is today's woman, she should have known better than to show a man drag his fiance like a cow and hand her over to his brother.

Talk is cheap, but it still is worth a hell of a lot more than being a gumptionless onlooker.

This is also just my personal opinion and neither am I trying to police anyone here.

Atleast this got the discussion started 😉😊

Gul Khan does not matter to me. She is just trying to make money from a show and in the process send some messages.

I accept that I am an onlooker who is a part of society , but am not gumption less .

I did my part and still do it whenever possible.

Everybody applauded when Zoya slapped Rajveer and everyone was happy.

If I did it in real life.

Next day I would be found in a million pieces in some gutter.

This is the reality of life ...

Regarding dragging I will comment on it after that part has been aired !

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Tanzia Scott

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

I have to humbly disagree with you, this is not making the best of an unfortunate situation, this is making a bad situation worse.

If you see wrong being done in society will you be an idle standby or will you raise your voice.

Woman had to fight long and hard and are still fighting to achieve respect in today society and what gul is doing here is making a mockery of all that.

When is it acceptable for someone to force their ideas on you, who gave Ayan and Asad the rights to make decision for Zoya.

Don't get me started on Niikhat, this girl needs to be enrolled into some self help and self esteemed classed, no one is forcing Nikhat to get married to Farhan this was her choice, they are hundred of girls and young women who's parents and who themselves had to suffered a lot, when through worst situation than her and never took the step that Nikhat took. Killing oneself is the easy and coward way out of your problem.

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gossipgirlxoxo

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: latanzia
I have to humbly disagree with you, this is not making the best of an unfortunate situation, this is making a bad situation worse.
If you see wrong being done in society will you be an idle standby or will you raise your voice.

Woman had to fight long and hard and are still fighting to achieve respect in today society and what gul is doing here is making a mockery of all that.

When is it acceptable for someone to force their ideas on you, who gave Ayan and Asad the rights to make decision for Zoya.

Don't get me started on Niikhat, this girl needs to be enrolled into some self help and self esteemed classed, no one is forcing Nikhat to get married to Farhan this was her choice, they are hundred of girls and young women who's parents and who themselves had to suffered a lot, when through worst situation than her and never took the step that Nikhat took. Killing oneself is the easy and coward way out of your problem.

I am absolutely not saying that they are doing the right thing. But As a not concerned party I can speculate and in retrospect do a planned thing. But In real life if you are caught in this situation like a rock and a hard place .. you end up doing things like this.

Also Gul has not yet said that Asad is right.

She is infact potraying that Even Good Men like Asad are flawed.

and that is what I am trying to appreciate.

and Yes I have learnt to shut up...

after what happened to Shehla and how so many lives were affected...

I often ask myself is it worth it.