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Posted: 11 years ago
#61
Di, trust me... pehli baar mujhe episode dekhne se darr lagta hai...
Pata nahin kyun, something is holding me back...
I am reading all kinds of post about Asad this, Ayaan that...
I read your after the episode wala note; Asad is sacrificing his love in order to save Nikhat...
Nevertheless, I do agree with your post. Bas.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: me2you

Di, trust me... pehli baar mujhe episode dekhne se darr lagta hai...

Pata nahin kyun, something is holding me back...
I am reading all kinds of post about Asad this, Ayaan that...
I read your after the episode wala note; Asad is sacrificing his love in order to save Nikhat...
Nevertheless, I do agree with your post. Bas.


watch it with an open mind and watch it for the acting caliber,,,
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Posted: 11 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: bheegi


watch it with an open mind and watch it for the acting caliber,,,


Done... indeed, acting wise it was a brilliant episode. The Asad-Zoya-Ayaan scene was heart-wrenching. Just the way I could feel Zoya's pain after the SR fiasco, exactly like that I could feel Asad's pain today and that is only because of the acting. These three are just outstanding 👏
Sacrificing his love for Nikhat...how on earth that will help her rishta, don't know.
But we should keep one thing in mind: 'aapko humare mohabbat par yakeen hai?'
This track, the thoughts and everything is more deeper than we think...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: me2you


Done... indeed, acting wise it was a brilliant episode. The Asad-Zoya-Ayaan scene was heart-wrenching. Just the way I could feel Zoya's pain after the SR fiasco, exactly like that I could feel Asad's pain today and that is only because of the acting. These three are just outstanding 👏
Sacrificing his love for Nikhat...how on earth that will help her rishta, don't know.
But we should keep one thing in mind: 'aapko humare mohabbat par yakeen hai?'
This track, the thoughts and everything is more deeper than we think...


That just means that Zoya will now treat this nikaah as real and try to make it work😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
#65
hey sangeeta di
loved ur post as usual
the way u have explained stuff is just amazing n awesome
i'll just say zoya ran to save najma but wt ws d end result? najma got married due to this ayaan nd her accidently got married nd now nikhats rishta is about to break once again due to her stupidity nd dumbness.
she has spoiled everyones life (including herself) above all asad's a guy who never wnted to fall in love fell nd wt she gave in return? pain nd betrayel? why did she had to run on her marriage day? cudnt she do something else?
zoya is not bechari nd she cn never be bechari for me she is d reason for all this mess along with ayaan. she always fall in billi's trap if she wud use her brain a little more such mess shall never happen.
now billi can happily blackmail asad dt if u wnt ur sister najma's marriage to be sucessful marry me as i am carrying imraans kid. Najm's entire life is at stake as she cudnt stop d marriage. for once i feel d mess she has created she shud solve it on her own nd face it. she always creates mess but never solves it. This time many life's r at stake cos of ayaan n zoya's stupidity asad is in a position where he needs to chose b/w his love n his sister(bth r equally imp). but d point s he trust zoya nd his love so much dt he knows dt once d mess is cleaned things will get back to normal.his heart says d nikah hasnt happened nd he doesnt agree to it but somewhere down d line brain said ys it happened. (same way zoya believed after dt sr fiasco her heart said something n her brain said something)
ppl r thinking it to be bartering i agree i too felt it but then if i think in another way d mess zoya created she is responsible to solve it. For now its right for him to send zoya in sm but i am equally sure nd hoping he will do something about this issue. zoya got married wt else is asad supposed to do? for us its false n fake but acc to show nd zoya she is accepting it dt she accidently got married. its a sensitive issue nd needs time to clear it. its easy to say womens r not commodity i agree they r not
BUT at d same time a women should take d responsibility of clearing the mess dt they have created.
its easy to rant such stuff but difficult to accept, d mess was created by zoya and ayaan nd many lifes r at stake they should clear dt mess out rather running. this shall also teach zoya dt u cant b impulsive always. this shall teach ayaan dt how much selfish he is he needs to stop ranting dt prove ur love for nikhat.
p.s for me asad n humaira r two ppl who requires sympathy at d moment as they r d ones who'll suffer d most due to zoya and ayaan's dumbness. i feel really bad for asad n humaira in all of this.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Firstly, love love love the song. One of my favorites!
Secondly, love the post and agree with you. I watched today's episode...and I'm still trying to get over it. I have no words.
Honestly, while everyone is bashing both the brothers, I'm trying to see things from a different point of view. Yeah even I'm disappointed with the brothers especially Asad, but I feel sorry for all of them, feeling least sorry for Ayaan though. Yeah, he showed a huge amount of selfishness today, and him going to Asad like that was uncalled for, especially when he used the Nikhat and Najma card. I was like what the.., but at the same time I could understand a siblings plight. I could see the desperateness in him, especially when he broke down. He was coming up with anything to get his brother to agree to him. I still wanted to slap him though.
As for Asad, while he disappointed me, I felt really bad for him. I don't think you were wrong at all. Today we saw a different array of emotions with him. He was hurt and betrayed, and then angry. Very angry, which he had every right to be. But then he was broken. Ayaan broke him at that point. He was put into a position where he could not move at all. If he said no and something happened to Nikhat even worse than this, he would never forgive himself. He'd never be able to live his happily married life. Ayaan and his family would never let him forget either. And this is in Asad's character in my opinion. He loves immensely and he can do anything for his loved ones. Especially his family. He will go to extreme lengths to protect them. I agree this is not the way to go about it, but right now he sees no other option. He is just like his mother in all senses I feel. I feel like the children's lives are very parallel to their parents (I don't want to get into that explanation on why I feel that way). When Zoya had come back from Ajmer, yeah she was ready to fight for her Mr. Khan, but as soon as she found out Tanveer was pregnant, no matter how evil that woman was and what she had done, Zoya was ready to sacrifice her love. Because she knew he was doing the right thing. She was thinking about that child who would grow up fatherless.
And Gul, what can I say about her. She really can not make Zoya the bad person. Even if the girl at fault, she is right, and even if she isn't she still is right. She somehow finds a way to turn it around and make everyone else seem the bad guy.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: youth_showsfan

hey sangeeta di

loved ur post as usual
the way u have explained stuff is just amazing n awesome
i'll just say zoya ran to save najma but wt ws d end result? najma got married due to this ayaan nd her accidently got married nd now nikhats rishta is about to break once again due to her stupidity nd dumbness.
she has spoiled everyones life (including herself) above all asad's a guy who never wnted to fall in love fell nd wt she gave in return? pain nd betrayel? why did she had to run on her marriage day? cudnt she do something else?
zoya is not bechari nd she cn never be bechari for me she is d reason for all this mess along with ayaan. she always fall in billi's trap if she wud use her brain a little more such mess shall never happen.
now billi can happily blackmail asad dt if u wnt ur sister najma's marriage to be sucessful marry me as i am carrying imraans kid. Najm's entire life is at stake as she cudnt stop d marriage. for once i feel d mess she has created she shud solve it on her own nd face it. she always creates mess but never solves it. This time many life's r at stake cos of ayaan n zoya's stupidity asad is in a position where he needs to chose b/w his love n his sister(bth r equally imp). but d point s he trust zoya nd his love so much dt he knows dt once d mess is cleaned things will get back to normal.his heart says d nikah hasnt happened nd he doesnt agree to it but somewhere down d line brain said ys it happened. (same way zoya believed after dt sr fiasco her heart said something n her brain said something)
ppl r thinking it to be bartering i agree i too felt it but then if i think in another way d mess zoya created she is responsible to solve it. For now its right for him to send zoya in sm but i am equally sure nd hoping he will do something about this issue. zoya got married wt else is asad supposed to do? for us its false n fake but acc to show nd zoya she is accepting it dt she accidently got married. its a sensitive issue nd needs time to clear it. its easy to say womens r not commodity i agree they r not
BUT at d same time a women should take d responsibility of clearing the mess dt they have created.
its easy to rant such stuff but difficult to accept, d mess was created by zoya and ayaan nd many lifes r at stake they should clear dt mess out rather running. this shall also teach zoya dt u cant b impulsive always. this shall teach ayaan dt how much selfish he is he needs to stop ranting dt prove ur love for nikhat.
p.s for me asad n humaira r two ppl who requires sympathy at d moment as they r d ones who'll suffer d most due to zoya and ayaan's dumbness. i feel really bad for asad n humaira in all of this.


I wish the writers had taken a different route here. Showing Asad feeling betrayed and therefore sending Zoya to SM would make more sense but saying "hamari mohabbat par yakeen karo aur wahan chali jao nikaah ka naatak karne' is totally out of character for Asad and butchering all the growth he has shown over the past few months

This should have been a learning track for Zoya but instead they have made it a sympathy gaining track for a woman. The creatives are trying to push the nikaah issue to the back ground and making Zoya the bechari here to get sympathy from women.

For me, it's an illogical track and doesn't make sense given what the characters have been and are...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bheegi


Gul has taken us back to the ancient era where women were always becharis and men were always the tormentors.

Right now mahabharat has better women characters...have you seen Satyawati? Wow, she is one strong woman and every man bows down to her wishes

yes i have she is hell of a strong character.shades of grey isn't something new😆..but the way gul has shown this i do feel for zoya nd m angry at asad but as much as asad is at fault for forcing her into this zoya will be for accepting this
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Posting after long, I don't think any of this is muqaddar ka khel, as much as uninspiring/useless writing. How destiny plays spoilsport... could not be like this... I mean who accidentally gets married and then asks for your bride and you say "sure bro... I trust my love will find its way back but yeah sure you can pretend with her for some time till we figure it out?"

I would've bought the theme if it made sense.

Yes, sometimes one has to accept things and make the best of it, move on, make it work. Other times you have to put up a fight and say none of that... but never is destiny this dumb!


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: LaVita-E-Bella

Firstly, love love love the song. One of my favorites!

Secondly, love the post and agree with you. I watched today's episode...and I'm still trying to get over it. I have no words.
Honestly, while everyone is bashing both the brothers, I'm trying to see things from a different point of view. Yeah even I'm disappointed with the brothers especially Asad, but I feel sorry for all of them, feeling least sorry for Ayaan though. Yeah, he showed a huge amount of selfishness today, and him going to Asad like that was uncalled for, especially when he used the Nikhat and Najma card. I was like what the.., but at the same time I could understand a siblings plight. I could see the desperateness in him, especially when he broke down. He was coming up with anything to get his brother to agree to him. I still wanted to slap him though.
As for Asad, while he disappointed me, I felt really bad for him. I don't think you were wrong at all. Today we saw a different array of emotions with him. He was hurt and betrayed, and then angry. Very angry, which he had every right to be. But then he was broken. Ayaan broke him at that point. He was put into a position where he could not move at all. If he said no and something happened to Nikhat even worse than this, he would never forgive himself. He'd never be able to live his happily married life. Ayaan and his family would never let him forget either. And this is in Asad's character in my opinion. He loves immensely and he can do anything for his loved ones. Especially his family. He will go to extreme lengths to protect them. I agree this is not the way to go about it, but right now he sees no other option. He is just like his mother in all senses I feel. I feel like the children's lives are very parallel to their parents (I don't want to get into that explanation on why I feel that way). When Zoya had come back from Ajmer, yeah she was ready to fight for her Mr. Khan, but as soon as she found out Tanveer was pregnant, no matter how evil that woman was and what she had done, Zoya was ready to sacrifice her love. Because she knew he was doing the right thing. She was thinking about that child who would grow up fatherless.
And Gul, what can I say about her. She really can not make Zoya the bad person. Even if the girl at fault, she is right, and even if she isn't she still is right. She somehow finds a way to turn it around and make everyone else seem the bad guy.


Thanks Lavita. I wish Asad had not said- hamari mohabbat par yakeen hai na ? That just shows he is using Zoya to pacify Haseena and Ayaan. He should have been angry at Zoya and asked her: how could you do this to us? You have created this mess and now go and sort it out with Ayaan. IMO, the writers goofed up in trying to garner sympathy for Zoya. Gul cannot show her alter ego wrong, can she?😆

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