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Posted: 12 years ago
#21
Hey honey,I'm gona strongly advice u to talk to ur family.marriage is for life.im sure if u speak to ur parents they will understand.i don't know why u hate the guy but if it's something about him u know u won't be able to live with then plz do something now.talk to anyone u feel can help and understand.
Wish u all the best dear.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#22
Hey😊...calm down n think...this is ur life n only u will decide what to do with it😊...sometimes in life we r stuck in situations fom where no one can help us out...only we can help ourselves😊...I've been in such situations(though not like urs but serious enough) so I know...so don't give up...I'm sure u'll find a way out...I hope n pray that ur problem will be solved😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hun if he's really as bad as you say, try to prove it your mother. Record him, trap him with his own words. Show your mother some kind of proof about the kind of person he truly is..
Other than that. Hang in there. God never gives us anything we can't handle. Have faith. You will pull through this.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Miss.india




i can't do this to my mother!
She already have so many problems and this is her only one wish
Tht's why can't do anything😭




YOU HAVE TO TELL UR MOM ABT UR SITUATION...,,DON'T FEEL BAD FOR TTHAT...A MOM CAN UNDERSTAND A DAUGHTER BETTER...U HAVE TO ACT FAST...OTHERWISE U WILL SUFFER...AND DON'T GIVE UR MOM PAIN COZ IF U SUFFER SHE WILL ALSO FEEL THE SAME...U HAVE TO BE BOLD HERE...OTHERWISE IT WILL BEE TOO LATE...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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good lord! now this is bad!! make ur mom see his bad face!! like you can try making ur mom hear the crap he speaks to you behind her back!! there will be a solution!! thinkkk of something or step down firm telling ur mother u dont want this... u gotta make her understand

He knows how to brainwash people... i don't know why people don't know about him and about his evilness, people fall for him!

my mom never lived for her she has done so much for me, but i can't even het wish! How bad
I've only my friends with me but they don't want to help me in this matter!
I don't have any other relation appart from my mom!



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Miss.india





He knows how to brainwash people... i don't know why people don't know about him and about his evilness, people fall for him!

my mom never lived for her she has done so much for me, but i can't even het wish! How bad
I've only my friends with me but they don't want to help me in this matter!
I don't have any other relation appart from my mom!




If your friends know about him why won't they help you?
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Posted: 12 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: mochhug



If your friends know about him why won't they help you?


because he is rich and his parents r in politics!
One time a girl filed a police complaint against him but later people said that girl was prostitute she has done like this for money ... they just ruined her life ... when i told about this to my mom she said she indeed saw the girl with so many friends (boys), i had an argument with her but she doesn't want to understand the friendship with a girl and a boy! She was born in 70s and think the world and the generations remain the same!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Mom knows best but if she is ignorant on this matter, it is your chance to explain it to her with some proof..
You dont worry do your best to avoid such a marriage when you are already aware of the bad qualities of that person. These days proofs does help out explaining things better when even your own mom cannot understand your opinion/feelings.

On top that, dont worry, always believe there will be a divine intervention in every matter leading to good things in life. I have always believed it and still believing which helps me to move on with this life. Never lose hope and that belief.

Support your mom but be stern on your wish too. After all it is your life and your mom is always going to a part of your life and making that life a good one depends on the choices you make or even if it is a forced one.

So try your best to convince your mom on this matter and leave the rest to God. Explain how you don't want to suffer

We are here to pray, and may everything that happens is for good and good only.

Do Not WORRY
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I said too that i won't be happy with him and my life will be hell but she said that i won't say this after mariage and she is sure that i'll lead a happy married life!
A mom can understand her daughter but now i've a doubt about it a mother can't always understand her daughter's feelings
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Miss.india



i can't do this to my mother!
She already have so many problems and this is her only one wish
Tht's why can't do anything 😭


Did you tell your mom that you hate him...she is your mom and she wants your happiness and she will understand I guess ...try and talk to her ...don't get in to a marriage that you hate as all will be unhappy at the end.

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