Why Don't We Consider Their POV?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I have read a number of posts calling zoya as well as najma selfish , self-centred,immature and what not.But what if we look at things through their point if view.

What Zoya thinks:
She does not know Nikhat closely.She knows that Nikhat and Imran were going to have an arrange marriage which was broken by Nikhat.She saw Nikhat acting maturely and in front of everyone she was okay with Najma-Imran relationship.She does not know about the promises made by Imran to Nikhat.She does not know the extent to which Nikhat loves Imran.Everybody is thinking that she is being insesitive to Nikhat as she herself went through hell when her marriage wuth Asad was broken and she should know how it feels but the fact is that she thinks that Nikhat's alliance with Imran was just arranged.Now does it pain more if you yourself break an arranged alliance?Or when you cannot be with the person you love and who loves you just because of some rash decisions and lack of understanding?According to Zoya Najma will be the sufferer if Najran does not happen and if it happens Nikhat will move on.How can we blame her?She just does not want her best friend/sister to suffer.Where is she wrong?She loves Najma and wants her to be happy.Thats it.On the other hand she doesnt even know Nikhat how can we expect her to care for Nikhat rather than Najma?On humanity grounds she thinks about her as much as any other person would.How is that selfish or wrong.She is not potrayed as any mahaan lead she is just a human being with certain flaws.For her Imran is the right man for Najma because he stood up for her in front of everyone.What type of person Haseena is matters but not more than Imran and Najma's love.

What Najma knows:
Najma is a baby .She is in pehla pyaar mode.She sees what Imran wants her to see.She completely believes that Imran loves her and will never decieve her.She is already guilty that she left Imran in the first place.Now she doesnt want to leave him at any cost because she has seen him broken on Eid and before.Also she has not been involved with Nikhat still she considers her as a sister.She did noy want to do injustice to her which was visible in her initial conversations with imran.And come on love makes one a little self-centred.Let us for a moment think that Imran truly loves Najma.He is not hiding anything from her nd Najma loves her too.Due to Asad's fear Najma breaks her relation with Imran.Imran's mother forces him for a relation and he complies.Then the relation is broken from the other side and he meets Najma again because he realizes that he cannot live without her.This is what Najma knows and here nowhere Imran is wrong so she desperately wants to marry him. I strongly believe that Imran is the one who is at fault because he has not told the entire truth to anyone.He is being unfair to both Nikhat and Najma.


P.s.-Yes I am biased because I just love Zoya so much.:p
This is just my POV and I know many will disagree.All the opinions are welcome but no bashing please.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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it is not the main point that she is more close to najma than nikhat.the point is that she herself was shattered when her nikah was cancelled with asad.being herself a girl,can't she understand other girl's pain. and she was the girl who always understand people.ok she cant see the sadness of nikhat but hurrying the najran nikah is ridiculous.she can see clearly that asad is not feeling well abt all these things but she is just thinking abt her tomato.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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When I watched the episode for the first time, Zoya pissed me off. Then I watched it another two times (don't judge, I was on holiday) and had time to reflect upon her character, I realized she's been this way from the very beginning 😆

Foolish, immature, silly, very interfering, but has her heart in the right place.

Her time to grow up is coming - I am very excited to see her enter the Siddiqui mansion and watch her live without Asad, who has for a while been her protector.

Najma I was pissed at too, and poor girl's gonna be heartbroken when she finds out Immi is already a Baby Daddy 😆

Or is he? Still not sure if it's actually his child!

P.S. I love Zoya too 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rishika21

it is not the main point that she is more close to najma than nikhat.the point is that she herself was shattered when her nikah was cancelled with asad.being herself a girl,can't she understand other girl's pain. and she was the girl who always understand people.ok she cant see the sadness of nikhat but hurrying the najran nikah is ridiculous.she can see clearly that asad is not feeling well abt all these things but she is just thinking abt her tomato.


But my point is that she does not even know that Nikhat loves Imran.And it does not hurt that much when you yourself break an arranged relationship.She was totally in love with Asad and what she saw was far far heartbreaking.But she doeant know that Nikhat loves Imran.She is hurrying because she is scared that something bad will happen and Najma will not get her share of happiness.Well its just my opinion.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: KulfiBai

When I watched the episode for the first time, Zoya pissed me off. Then I watched it another two times (don't judge, I was on holiday) and had time to reflect upon her character, I realized she's been this way from the very beginning 😆

Foolish, immature, silly, very interfering, but has her heart in the right place.

Her time to grow up is coming - I am very excited to see her enter the Siddiqui mansion and watch her live without Asad, who has for a while been her protector.

Najma I was pissed at too, and poor girl's gonna be heartbroken when she finds out Immi is already a Baby Daddy 😆

Or is he? Still not sure if it's actually his child!

P.S. I love Zoya too 😆


Well I dont know that I made sense or not in the above post but atleast I tried to.I just want to see Zoya in the positive light anyhow because I love her so much and I cant see people bashing her all the way. :p
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i dont feel Zoya is to be blamed too, come on she lives in fairytale ki duniya, and she is such a girl who doesnt think of pain in the time of happiness, she forgets and forgives, so its logical for her to behave like that. She loves Najma and she feels 2 Lovers should unite before its late.
she isnt mature enough to understand the graveness of the situation both the families are into.

She needs a Gaffur to happen to mature from her teenage and step into adulthood. :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: IsPiKmKND


But my point is that she does not even know that Nikhat loves Imran.And it does not hurt that much when you yourself break an arranged relationship.She was totally in love with Asad and what she saw was far far heartbreaking.But she doeant know that Nikhat loves Imran.She is hurrying because she is scared that something bad will happen and Najma will not get her share of happiness.Well its just my opinion.

par kal shirin ne asad se kaha tha "ki haan meri beti ne rishta toda tha par yeh bhi sach hai ki imran nikhat ek dusre se mohobbat karte hai".aur ayaan also said ki nikhat ke liye yeh rishta nahi,uski zindagi thi.i definitely dont think ki zoya thought that nikhat doesnt love imran.but she is just engrossed in thinking abt najran ignoring all ppl.
P.S-i love zoya very much but yesterday she really .dissappointed me.i just hope ki zoya stops becoming indifferent and gets back to her old attitude.i seriously cant see her like that.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

i dont feel Zoya is to be blamed too, come on she lives in fairytale ki duniya, and she is such a girl who doesnt think of pain inthetime of happiness, she forgets and forgives, so its logical for her to behave like that. She loves Najma and she feels 2 Lovers should unite before its late.

she isnt mature enough to understand the graveness of the situation both the families are into.

She needs a Gaffur to happen to mature from her teenage and step into adulthood. :)


All of us have loved Zoya for the same thing till now.Its just the situation in which she speaks that is wrong not zoya.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rishika21


par kal shirin ne asad se kaha tha "ki haan meri beti ne rishta toda tha par yeh bhi sach hai ki imran nikhat ek dusre se mohobbat karte hai".aur ayaan also said ki nikhat ke liye yeh rishta nahi,uski zindagi thi.i definitely dont think ki zoya thought that nikhat doesnt love imran.but she is just engrossed in thinking abt najran ignoring all ppl.
P.S-i love zoya very much but yesterday she really .dissappointed me.i just hope ki zoya stops becoming indifferent and gets back to her old attitude.i seriously cant see her like that.



Whatever she made out about Nikhat was just in that one encounter where Nikhat's dialogues of supporting Najran were far more convincing and effective than Ayaan's or Shireen's.
We 'll soon see a mature Zoya hopefully. 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Actually zoya is zoya nothing changed but now she take worng side as per viewer so y we bash her
If we bash asad in tanu track then y not zoya

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