What is wrong with Ayan? - Page 4

Originally posted by: monaco

Honestly I want Najma and Imran wedding now. Tanu truth should open afterwards. That will be real drama, and the nice slap everyone deserves. :-) I know I am mean.

And, what will be icing on the cake? Farhan falls for Nikhat and stands up for her. (if there is an entry, if not, there should be one) I really really feel for Nikhat.

Originally posted by: delena90

@bold - WHAT???!!!??? Loving your mother doesn't mean you need to be blind to her faults. Wrong is wrong no matter who does it. Ayaan needs to wake up and smell the coffee beans - he expects Asad to bend over backwards for his "sautela" siblings but he can't do the same for them. Isn't he the same idiot who made that horrible statement about Asad sleeping with Tanveer to get out of the marriage?

i agree wid u sumi ...
i understand ayaan was hurt by nikhat's pain ...but d way he talked to asad was just nt justified ...he is blaming asad for being partial to najma ...at first place asad never did it ...but if does so ..i dont consider him rong as najma is nt only his little sister ..she is sumwhere his daughter ...n he has all rights to b partial to her ...n najma ke paas asad ke alaava h hi kaun ...ayaan ask ur mother najma se uske abbu unhone hi to cheene h ...

Originally posted by: delena90

@chicksoup - brilliant post.

Ayaan has always been a very immature and selfish person. That is not to say he is a bad person but he needs a good, healthy dose of karma and he will get it in spades.

Ayaan has only ever thought of his brother when he needed something or needed to get out of some scrape. He needs to grow up and learn to fend for himself. He needs to realize the amount of harm his mother has caused Dilshie and co and more importantly he needs to see himself as the self-centered idiot that he is.

To an extent Asad too is to blame for indulging Ayaan like this but this is his learning moment too. Hopefully, he won't excuse Ayaan as much now.

Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

whatever.

Peetega Ayaan bahut bahut peetega.

Buss is Buss.

Originally posted by: monaco

I would not blame Asad till now. Yes, he is at fault, for not following through. But if after today he still does not see through this and question Imran, then I am afraid, he has indeed shown that he did not mean it when he said Nikhat is his real sister. Now that the chips have fallen where they are, and all the cards are open, I want to see if he does the right thing, or not. And, my fear is not.

Imran, is wrong. Simply wrong. Just because he had the basketballs to tell everyone that he loves Najma today does not make it okay for the Khans to continue with any of this shit.

I guess for once you and I have differing opinions.

Why is Inran being judged and held to a different standard as compared to Asad and Ayaan? Is it easier to forget and forgive cruel and manipulative behavior if it comes from the leads? Lets compare all three shall we:

Asad:

1. Is physically abusive towards Zoya - throws the phone at her, chokes, pulls a gun on her and yes even slaps her.
2. Disbelieve and humiliates his fianc in favour of the best friend.
3. Put her in the line of fire and sent her to Akram without even knowing the entire story.
4. Judged and berated her constantly.
5. Taunted her (initially) about her dead mother and father.

Of course he was redeemed post the SR but it doesn't mean Asad didn't do these things.

Ayaan:
1. Constantly flirts with Humeira but claims he doesn't love her.
2. Takes advantage of her goodness because it's an ego boost for him. Hell, he chose to ignore the fact that Humeira thought she was flirting with him online - what more of a clue did that idiot need.
3. Makes a deal with Razia and then is unbelievably cruel to Humeira, who didn't do anything to him!
4. Finally, completely and utterly breaks humeiras heart.

And I have all just listed out his crimes against Humeira. The man used and manipulated his brother at every turn. Yes, asad over-indulged but when was the last time Ayaan thought about anybody other than himself? He is selfish, immature and weak but somehow we aren't asking for Ayaan to suffer for his mistakes for the rest of his life.

Imran:
1. Agreed to marry Nikhat when he wasn't ready for it and did not stand up for her against his mother.
2. Cries to najma and begs her to come back because he is truly in love with her.
3. Ambiguity with regards to tanveers baby - however his sleeping with tanveer has nothing to do with either najma or Nikhat because he didn't cheat on either of them. Somebody's sexual past in not up for discussion. However, if the child is his then yes he needs to come clean.

Imran despite his lack of spine never took advantage of Nikhat - and he could have. He had the cajones to apologize to Nikhat yesterday and he told her the truth. In fact imran indicated once before to Nikhat that he was in love or had loved someone else.

Imran is no better or worse than our leads so why should he suffer a life of purgatory? With regards to yesterday everyone had some amount of blame for the situation - but shireen had the most.

1. What parent prostrates themselves in front of woman who insulted their daughter?
2. What stopped Nikhat from calling asad back and telling him how she felt? Or how about the one when she called him before eid?
3. Nikhat didn't need to lie for humeira - she could have indicated she was unhappy without taking imrans name!
4. Nikhat, I understand was blinded by love, but thanks to her parents and insecurity of looks she too swallowed her respect to go back for what?
5. Najmas first reaction was shock at seeing Nikhat there. Why isn't she allowed to be happy about the fact that imran loves her? She doesn't owe Nikhat or anybody in that family anything.
6. Asad and dilshaad's fault is that they rushed it but nothing is finalized.

After yesterday my hate for shireen and Ayaan is back full force and karma is definitely a bitch and I can't wait to see them suffer the consequences.

Tanveer, btw, will be angst but I wouldn't be surprised if she was proved a liar and the child is not imrans after all!

Originally posted by: Siri22

@bold- But that's the thing na chicksoup. He never had any kind of affection/relation with Najma unlike Asad who CLAIMS to love all his sisters equally,bought a flat for Nikhath based on Ayaan's words that Nikhath loves Imran.

Asad has never seen Najma cry for Imran whereas Nikhath was very vocal about her feelings for Imran. Which is why Ayaan's behaviour was understandable.

But Asad's rush into this whole thing doesn't make any sense.I'm not saying he should think about Nikhath and palce her over Njama and read her eyes to see how hurt she was but expected a little bit of sensitivity from him. How about giving it some time? He knows haseena bi very well who would want to give their sister into such a family?

But ofcourse Gul wants to show the brother's clash and who can stop her?