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chicksoup

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: RiDz_rox
can we stop blaming Asad or Ayaan and start bashing bhaiseena and gang Immy included noodle khala

Ridzie,

Let baharwaale do whatever they want to do...if there is NO UNITY IN THE HOUSE, let everyone watch the COMEDY!😳

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chicksoup

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: rogerrocks
Word..Am just gonna copy paste my post from another thread😆
Why is it that its fine when Ayaan is insensitive but the moment Asad makes a mistake, everyone from Ayaan to Dilshad judge him? I do think Asad was at fault..He knew how serious the issue was, so he should have waited till he discussed the issue in person..But that in noway gives Ayaan the right to question Asad's love..It just makes his love for Asad so shallow and conditional..I think his anger was justified but the insensitivity he displays everytime something goes wrong is baffling..Does he ever realize his mom is the actual home-wrecker here? Does he ever realize Asad doesn't owe anything to him and his family after the betrayal his mom suffered in the hands of his wimp of a father? Does he ever realize Asad goes out of his way to make sure Ayaan and Nikhat are happy and never holds them at fault for what his parents have done?Oh and does he actually realize Asad has every right to be bitter and not care about Shireen's kids but the guy actually doesn't differentiate?
Phew, done😆

👏 DONE!😆

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bips

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: rogerrocks
Word..Am just gonna copy paste my post from another thread😆
Why is it that its fine when Ayaan is insensitive but the moment Asad makes a mistake, everyone from Ayaan to Dilshad judge him? I do think Asad was at fault..He knew how serious the issue was, so he should have waited till he discussed the issue in person..But that in noway gives Ayaan the right to question Asad's love..It just makes his love for Asad so shallow and conditional..I think his anger was justified but the insensitivity he displays everytime something goes wrong is baffling..Does he ever realize his mom is the actual home-wrecker here? Does he ever realize Asad doesn't owe anything to him and his family after the betrayal his mom suffered in the hands of his wimp of a father? Does he ever realize Asad goes out of his way to make sure Ayaan and Nikhat are happy and never holds them at fault for what his parents have done?Oh and does he actually realize Asad has every right to be bitter and not care about Shireen's kids but the guy actually doesn't differentiate?
Phew, done😆

accepting your mom is the home wrecker is like the ultimate betrayal of the mother and son bond. So ayaan completely skips that part over. He does love his brother though. There are a lot of times when ayaan used to blast raashid for not standing up for asad. I think he pretty much called his father a wimp.

As for what he said, in anger you say a lot of stuff that you later repent. I think ppl have the ability to be extraordinarily cruel when angry and hurt. Asad is a prime example of this where zoya ended up being the target everytime.

But the sheer stupidity of asad not talking to ayaan or nikhat before going ahead with this marriage is mind boggling.

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ALISHA ZEN

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

A STANDING OVATION 4 U DEA 4 making this wonderful post ... especiaalllyy d last stanza n tht line in blue...

verrryyy welll said dea haaatsss off to u ...👏

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chicksoup

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

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Originally posted by: sohu_ksgian

👏 😳 😉 👏
Million dollar question dii..A million dollar one indeed😳
Though I felt both asad and ayaan's behaviour were circumstantial but then I agree with you on this sautela dialogue..Everytime he brings it and poor Asad😭
He has nothing to say..It tears him apart to hear that word sautela cause he loves all his sisters equally!! I felt for him so so so much😭

That is the only Q I wanted to ask at the end of the epi...

What has this guy ever done for Najma...Has hardly ever acknowledged even her existence...has never asked about her..only one hug when her mom was in hospital!😕

I mean, he hasn't even ever got her a sweet, when U come to think about it...😭😆

He used to roam around Humeira's college, and never had the time to say Hi to his 'SISTER'!😲😆

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chicksoup

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: bips

accepting your mom is the home wrecker is like the ultimate betrayal of the mother and son bond. So ayaan completely skips that part over. He does love his brother though. There are a lot of times when ayaan used to blast raashid for not standing up for asad. I think he pretty much called his father a wimp.

As for what he said, in anger you say a lot of stuff that you later repent. I think ppl have the ability to be extraordinarily cruel when angry and hurt. Asad is a prime example of this where zoya ended up being the target everytime.

But the sheer stupidity of asad not talking to ayaan or nikhat before going ahead with this marriage is mind boggling.

Please consider this:

HOW MANY TIMES DID ASAD SAY THAT IT WAS NOT FINALISED...

THAT HE WILL GIVE THE GO AHEAD ONLY AFTER SPEAKING WITH NIKHAT!

Thye had just gone for a chit chat...Najma was dresed pretty casually, and there Shireen starts hurling insults at them!

Where did Asad say that he supports Imran for Najma...all he did was tell Ayan not to bash up th eguy because INDECISIVENESS is not a crime...

If NIKHAT STANDS UP AND SAYS SHE IS HURT...EVEN NOW HE WILL NOT ALLOW THE NIKAH!

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youth_showsfan

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

i agree todays episode was awesome

quite intesnse one

but i wanted to slap haseena bi when ever she was smirking seeing family fighting

and ayaan too his love for asad changes according to d situation

he doesnt even take a fraction of second in blaming asad ufff

he needs to understand asad

he always blames asad without seeing his pov

ayaan is d most selfish person when he needs something like bike and all

he'll call asad show bhaichara when he needs to stand up for asad

he'll never ever do it. hope asad keeps ayan away from him for few days then may be ayaan will realise his mistake? asad needs to stop letting ayaan depend upon him then only ayaan will realise.

asad tried talking to nikhat firstly it was nikhat who lied to asad about it and secondly zoya was constantly bugging asad nd dilshaad "hain toh unka rishta toot gaya na baat karne main kya jata hai nikhat ne khud toda yeh rishta" if someone bugs u all d time it means indirectly dt person is forcing u if u remember dilshaad said itni jaldi kya hai baat karne main zoya looked at najma nd said phuphi baat hi toh karni hai if dilshaad and asad agreed just cos zoya pushed them if wudnt have bugged them asad wud have talked with nikhat properly zoya never gave him much time just said "hume imraan ke ghar jana hai"

asad is still not sure about his decision but he s letting zoya take it which is wrong. nd asad knows how to control haseena bi unlike rashid n his family nd this time even imraan is helping out atleast taking najma's side

about ayaan i still maintain he is simply selfish when he needed a bike he asked asad when ever he wants something dts d time he realises his bhaichara but when it comes to supporting asad he never ever does it he doesnt even know his brother for him during billi case asad did just to break d nikah? dts all he knows abt asad?

if he said asad never thinks abt nikhat then does ayaan think abt najma? after hearing d truth asad was reliefed dt najma isnt d reason for nikhats pain more thn najma he was concerned abt nikhat.

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Livingfree

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

WORD 👏 Have nothing more to add.

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-khaleesi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Exactly! Awesome post!

I think all Ayaan is trying to prove is that he's Shireen's son.

Why is he ready to kill Imran when all he did to Nighat was what Ayaan himself did to Humeira?

Humeira's redemption is calling him chilla chilla kay.

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rogerrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: bips

accepting your mom is the home wrecker is like the ultimate betrayal of the mother and son bond. So ayaan completely skips that part over. He does love his brother though. There are a lot of times when ayaan used to blast raashid for not standing up for asad. I think he pretty much called his father a wimp.

As for what he said, in anger you say a lot of stuff that you later repent. I think ppl have the ability to be extraordinarily cruel when angry and hurt. Asad is a prime example of this where zoya ended up being the target everytime.

But the sheer stupidity of asad not talking to ayaan or nikhat before going ahead with this marriage is mind boggling.

I have always felt Ayaan has loved Asad subject to conditions..Remember how he din't think twice before calling Asad sautela?Asad loves Ayaan unconditionally but am yet to see that from Ayaan..And you are spot on about the Asad-Zoya comparison..Asad claimed to love Zoya but it din't take much for him to judge her or berate her the moment things went wrong..I see Ayaan doing the exact same thing..People do say things in anger and probably don't mean half the things they blurt out but they do realize you cant take back those words right? There are times when those words have an adverse impact on the other's party's psyche..So yeah, i do think Ayaan din't mean what he said but i do think it was insensitive as hell esp. because he knows all that Asad has done for him and Nikhat..Oh and why does he even expect so much from Asad in the first place? I don't think its wrong if Asad gives priority to Najma cos he doesn't owe a thing to Shireen or her kids..That said, i do agree Asad was at fault..Its absurd that he proceeded to take such an important decision based on an ambiguous convo he had with Nikhat..But that doesn't change the fact that Ayaan was insensitive..

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