What is wrong with Ayan? - Page 3

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Please consider this:

<font color="#0000FF">HOW MANY TIMES DID ASAD SAY THAT IT WAS NOT FINALISED...</font>

<font color="#0000FF">THAT HE WILL GIVE THE GO AHEAD ONLY AFTER SPEAKING WITH NIKHAT!</font>

<font color="#0000FF">Thye had just gone for a chit chat...Najma was dresed pretty casually, and there Shireen starts hurling insults at them!</font>

<font color="#0000FF">Where did Asad say that he supports Imran for Najma...all he did was tell Ayan not to bash up th eguy because INDECISIVENESS is not a crime...</font>

<font color="#0000FF">If NIKHAT STANDS UP AND SAYS SHE IS HURT...EVEN NOW HE WILL NOT ALLOW THE NIKAH!</font>

I am sorry but does nikhat have to inscribe "i am hurt" on a stone and hurl it at asad so that he can finally understand how much this is tearing her up? Does he not have any common sense at all? Nikhat was in love with this guy, now the marriage is broken, on top of that you live in a conservative society. Can he not put two and two together? Or does he have the emotional intelligence of a teaspoon?

As for not finalising anything, when you go to meet the boys parents, you are moving towards a final yes. You dont go there to eat samosa and drink chai. You talk to your hurt sister "before" taking one step further not after discussing everything

Originally posted by: bips

I am sorry but does nikhat have to inscribe "i am hurt" on a stone and hurl it at asad so that he can finally understand how much this is tearing her up? Does he not have any common sense at all? Nikhat was in love with this guy, now the marriage is broken, on top of that you live in a conservative society. Can he not put two and two together? Or does he have the emotional intelligence of a teaspoon?

As for not finalising anything, when you go to meet the boys parents, you are moving towards a final yes. You dont go there to eat samosa and drink chai. You talk to your hurt sister "before" taking one step further not after discussing everything

A Great post as always...

Hey soup girl,

Originally posted by: bips

accepting your mom is the home wrecker is like the ultimate betrayal of the mother and son bond. So ayaan completely skips that part over. He does love his brother though. There are a lot of times when ayaan used to blast raashid for not standing up for asad. I think he pretty much called his father a wimp.

As for what he said, in anger you say a lot of stuff that you later repent. I think ppl have the ability to be extraordinarily cruel when angry and hurt. Asad is a prime example of this where zoya ended up being the target everytime.

But the sheer stupidity of asad not talking to ayaan or nikhat before going ahead with this marriage is mind boggling.

@bold - WHAT???!!!??? Loving your mother doesn't mean you need to be blind to her faults. Wrong is wrong no matter who does it. Ayaan needs to wake up and smell the coffee beans - he expects Asad to bend over backwards for his "sautela" siblings but he can't do the same for them. Isn't he the same idiot who made that horrible statement about Asad sleeping with Tanveer to get out of the marriage?

@chicksoup - brilliant post.

Ayaan has always been a very immature and selfish person. That is not to say he is a bad person but he needs a good, healthy dose of karma and he will get it in spades.

Ayaan has only ever thought of his brother when he needed something or needed to get out of some scrape. He needs to grow up and learn to fend for himself. He needs to realize the amount of harm his mother has caused Dilshie and co and more importantly he needs to see himself as the self-centered idiot that he is.

To an extent Asad too is to blame for indulging Ayaan like this but this is his learning moment too. Hopefully, he won't excuse Ayaan as much now.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

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That is the only Q I wanted to ask at the end of the epi...

What has this guy ever done for Najma...Has hardly ever acknowledged even her existence...has never asked about her..only one hug when her mom was in hospital!😕

I mean, he hasn't even ever got her a sweet, when U come to think about it...😭😆

He used to roam around Humeira's college, and never had the time to say Hi to his 'SISTER'!😲😆

I would not blame Asad till now. Yes, he is at fault, for not following through. But if after today he still does not see through this and question Imran, then I am afraid, he has indeed shown that he did not mean it when he said Nikhat is his real sister. Now that the chips have fallen where they are, and all the cards are open, I want to see if he does the right thing, or not. And, my fear is not.

Originally posted by: monaco

I would not blame Asad till now. Yes, he is at fault, for not following through. But if after today he still does not see through this and question Imran, then I am afraid, he has indeed shown that he did not mean it when he said Nikhat is his real sister. Now that the chips have fallen where they are, and all the cards are open, I want to see if he does the right thing, or not. And, my fear is not.

Imran, is wrong. Simply wrong. Just because he had the basketballs to tell everyone that he loves Najma today does not make it okay for the Khans to continue with any of this shit.

Honestly I want Najma and Imran wedding now. Tanu truth should open afterwards. That will be real drama, and the nice slap everyone deserves. :-) I know I am mean.