What should Asad do?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I have been noticing many people are unhappy with Asad's decision to marry Tanveer..

I want to know your opinion on this case.

Imagine you have a friend who was abandoned by his father in childhood, has relatively traditional outlook towards life, and is very much in love with a woman

Now your friend believes he slept with his best friend (Who is a good person in this case btw) in an intoxicated state ... but has absoultely no recollection of it.

His best friend is pregnant now. She says she can take care of the kid all by herself.

Your friend doesn't know what to do now. What would you advice him?
Would you tell him to go ahead and marry the girl he loves and abandon his child like his father did to him ?
or Would you tell him to marry the best friend and give his child a family..and break the heart of the person he loves most?

I don't know the right answer..I just want to know your rationale behind supporting or critisizing the character..

P.S: Remember two important points here..
1. Your friend is a traditional Indian
2. His best friend is a good person.

Im hating the track as much as you guys.. but somehow I think I get why Asad did what he did today..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Those are some good points
Honestly speaking, I would tell him to go to his best friend and unborn child, but in the show the case is completely different
The best friend isn't good, if she were he wouldn't of have to be in a mess like that, thinking he had slept with her
Tanveer is evil, that's why she made him think he slept with her so she could get him to think he is the father

But then again Asad's choice is totally valid, because he doesn't know his best friend is an evil; bitch and accepted that they had consummated and she's pego with his child, his decisions is okay at his point and I would've done the same, because I believe that my best friend is a good person

Good post though :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nishita, I made a post where I have written about why Asad did what he did..


Most responsible men who think they actually cheated their love and impregnated their best friend as a result would do what Asad did today (assuming they don't know their Bf's evil side) but would do it only after having a heart to heart conversation with their love as she has full right to know why he made that decision. She might even understand his quandary even though heartbroken..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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He should go talk with his love first and then they could decide what they should do.. like adopt the child or anything.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: risingsea101

Those are some good points

Honestly speaking, I would tell him to go to his best friend and unborn child, but in the show the case is completely different
The best friend isn't good, if she were he wouldn't of have to be in a mess like that, thinking he had slept with her
Tanveer is evil, that's why she made him think he slept with her so she could get him to think he is the father

But then again Asad's choice is totally valid, because he doesn't know his best friend is an evil; bitch and accepted that they had consummated and she's pego with his child, his decisions is okay at his point and I would've done the same, because I believe that my best friend is a good person

Good post though :)


Thanks.
I agree with you. If the friend was a good person, the decent thing would be to give the child a family.
Here Asad doesn't know Tanveer is evil.. (Honestly, how many people would imagine their best friend would be a conniving wh**e?) So I think his actions are justified. Atleast for now..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: bheegi

Nishita, I made a post where I have written about why Asad did what he did..



Most responsible men who think they actually cheated their love and impregnated their best friend as a result would do what Asad did today (assuming they don't know their Bf's evil side) but would do it only after having a heart to heart conversation with their love as she has full right to know why he made that decision. She might even understand his quandary even though heartbroken..


Hey Sangeeta,
I just read your post, loved it as always. 😳

May be he should have told her the truth.
But part of me thinks he didn't give her any explaination so that she could believe that he doesn't love her anymore and try to move on.. (May be I'm wrong)
If Zoya thought Asad will always love only her, would she be able to forget him and marry someone else?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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He should grab a bottle of fruit punch and a bag of Doritos and live his life because people are coming after him with baseball bats and he might as well enjoy life while it lasts.
Edited by -Jazzy- - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manpreet23

He should go talk with his love first and then they could decide what they should do.. like adopt the child or anything.


I agree that he should communicate with his love first.
@ adoption What would happen to the best friend? Would she be willing to give away the child? Don't you think its kinda wrong to expect this kind of sacrifice from a mother? or Should all the three raise the child together? Do you think it is possible in an Indian society?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nishitarao



I agree that he should communicate with his love first.
@ adoption What would happen to the best friend? Would she be willing to give away the child? Don't you think its kinda wrong to expect this kind of sacrifice from a mother? or Should all the three raise the child together? Do you think it is possible in an Indian society?



Since the best friend chose to tell him that she's pregnant, its obvious that she wants a dad for her baby. And she could get a dad for her baby if they adopted him plus the friend wouldn't even have to lose his love. Yes , maybe three of them could raise it together. Either way, he should've told his love the truth since he himself hates lies and hiding the truth is equal to a lie.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It's not what he did but exactly how he did it that matters the most.
Asad is very much Asad , a responsible person with a good heart but at the same time too judgemental and prejudiced.
What he did today was very much expected and right in a way but hurting your love more in the process so that she hates you and forgets you is not right. I know people will say that he is selfless and hence he did that. I think he acted as a coward today as far as Zoya is concerned.i can tell you why I feel that way.
He knew he slept with Tanu and he believed that ever since .When Zoya left him he knew why she did it and even after that he saw what she was going through. He loved her and even though he accepted his betrayal and still keeping the reason for betrayal ( Tanu) close to him he went ahead and confessed to Zoya. Yes he wanted to be out with his feelings and also might have been seeking her forgiveness and hoping for a second chance.He made Zoya fall for him once again by his confession and although he said that he wants nothing but that's not true. He was dying to get her back which she did now. Now when that Billi told him about pregnancy no matter how shocked and guilty he had felt he had no rite to insult Zoya the way he did. Any other woman in her place would have slapped the daylight out of him but Zoya being Zoya acted differently this time. Even after getting humiliated she is going to seek the truth for Asad. To let this man free from his guilt , burden but Asad never ever gave her her due respect. Not now and not ever .
I am sorry but I don't sympathize with his behaviour and hope road to redemption will not at all be easy for him. I want him to suffer seeing Zoya with another person even after Billi is exposed and feel how Zoya felt all along. This man never learns even after soo many warning from his mom and Zoya in the past and many direct hints from Billo herself. He has just chosen to keep his eyes, ears shut in case of Billi and that's not normal.
His downfall and current sufferings are cause by Billi with the help of his blind trust and thick head and people this dense don't get any brownie points from me . Ever

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