A RAPE victim cannot marry the RAPIST. - Page 2

Originally posted by: A.Hajnal

Agree with all of you...I have already said it and I will say it again...Cvs and Gul HAVE to show Tanveer in the same light as a Man rapist...

There was no "seduction" in what Tanveer did...That was a sexual assault, They cant make it look like nothing...

If this scene happened with a female character they would have gone hell to make The man look like a Hevan/Animal and what not...So why now they will show it only as a "seduction"...

When Man does that its "sexual assault" when woman does that its "seduction"...?? why so double standard...??

And yes, A RAPE victim cant marry the RAPIST...she showed that in Maryams Track...now she has to do the same now too...

It will HURT me, us if she just showed that as Tanveer was only seducing Asad...

Originally posted by: kankabhor

100% agree with you.. I really really want Cv's not to show any engagement/marriage even proposal of marriage between Asad and Billi.. we can let forum32 know about it,

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

thanks. I have posted it in the forum32 and members everywhere is outrageous about it...if Gul tries to pursue something like this is the near future, that is when we have to work harder to get them to listen to us...we have to complain ...petition whatever possible.

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

4lions isn't ready for a rape victim story. They mean what they show most probably. That tanveer removed Asad's shirt, oogled at him, sent him a flying kiss and they both fell asleep next to each other.

not in this life time will the 'purity' (what a disgusting word) of the male lead ever be under any threat.

Zoya will accept Asad by trusting that he wouldn't do somethin like this (read sleep shirtless next to another woman) in full conscience. This will go for the next few weeks. That's about it I think. No great mind over

matter, rape guilt etc etc.

Alas.

Originally posted by: kankabhor

Can you give me link of your post on forum32 so I can reply there..

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Guys...let us just set our differences about Asya for once here and think about a very serious issue here...RAPE!

Mrs Gul Khan has tried to portray the much talked about scene as SEDUCTION...but it was undeniably RAPE. Does it matter whether its a woman or a man ? NO. It doesn't. Rape is a crime...the rapist shout be prosecuted and should be behind bars. Reports... data shows that most rapes are committed by the people the victim knows.

In QH Billo is a dear friend of Asad whom he trusts and respect...but instead what did she do...she drugged him and raped him. Now, the question is not whether they did it or not...the real problem here is they showed it as Seduction.

I have seen many posts with a concern that Gul might try to enforce a marriage b/w Asad and Billo or even an engagement. Now here is what is very important ...THE MESSAGE...A VICTIM should not MARRY the RAPIST under any circumstances...rape victims undergo PTSD ...they need counseling...a huge support system...lots of assurance...but the last thing they need is guilt ...the thought that in anyway they were responsible for the horrendous crime...and they definitely cannot be coerced into marrying their RAPIST to save their honor. This is not medieval or prehistoric era...this is the 21st century where there is a rape happening in every second.

With the growing rape cases in India this will be a wrong message for Mrs Khan to portray if she thinks of pursuing any kind of relationship between Asad and Billo.

Billo is a RAPIST.

PS: I hope we can leave our differences aside for once and work together for this cause.I work in a Domestic violence shelter...I interact with rape victims on a daily basis...I have seen their pain and trauma. Rape is a crime...and victims cannot marry Rapists period. People need to voice their opinion on this issue. This is a wrong message and should not be accepted. This is a real life issue...and not a mere plot in a fiction. They cannot play with a serious issue like this.