i m hating zoya more - Page 3

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

They have turned her into a doormat and sadly she has no self respect left. She is conditioned in an abusive cycle and it's very difficult for a woman to get out of that without a support system. Asad is an abusive man and he has overpowered her completely. She needs to get out of this so called relatioasanship.

i pitty her ..poor girl she has never got lov in her life ..so as she is getting love n relationships over here she is nt leaving this house ..asad's little gestures too give her immense joy bt in all this she is loosing her self respect completely

Originally posted by: surpatel

i pitty her ..poor girl she has never got lov in her life ..so as she is getting love n relationships over here she is nt leaving this house ..asad's little gestures too give her immense joy bt in all this she is loosing her self respect completely

Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

🤣 You make it seem like Asad BEATS Zoya everyday! Asad is not a monster which your words make him seem like. Support system? This is not a battered woman case lol.

I do work in a battered woman shelter and abuse is not only limited to physical abuse. I interact with emotionally scarred women everyday and believe me when I say that this is an abusive relationship where he emotionally abuses her. The emotional scar is the hardest to get rid off. Anyways, he did hit her and has repeatedly manhandled her...well now he just abuses her in a more civilized and reformed way...nevertheless it's abuse.

Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

Never got love? HELLO! Are we forgetting Appi and Jiju???😳

yes she has her aapi n jiju bt she learned abt imp of relationships over here..

Originally posted by: surpatel

i pitty her ..poor girl she has never got lov in her life ..so as she is getting love n relationships over here she is nt leaving this house ..asad's little gestures too give her immense joy bt in all this she is loosing her self respect completely

she should have walked out the house the first time he was abusive.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

I do work in a battered woman shelter and abuse is not only limited to physical abuse. I interact with emotionally scarred women everyday and believe me when I say that this is an abusive relationship where he emotionally abuses her. The emotional scar is the hardest to get rid off. Anyways, he did hit her and has repeatedly manhandled her...well now he just abuses her in a more civilized and reformed way...nevertheless it's abuse.

Originally posted by: surpatel

yes she has her aapi n jiju bt she learned abt imp of relationships over here..

Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

The insults have stopped, the accusing has stopped, the yelling has stopped. That slap was a long time ago and happened only once, the manhandling has stopped a long time ago also. I know abuse is not limited to only physical. The issue here is trust. That is not an abuse. What's the more civilized way he abuses her? When was the last time he insulted her. Other than asking her calmly to say sorry to his stupid friend?

how would a woman feel if her fiance never trusted her...all the more have disregarded her repeatedly over the words of his best friend? The fact that Asad doesn't trust her is emotionally paralyzingly her in every form. No, the abuse hasn't stopped...he still doesn't shy away from judging her at every opportunity he gets. He recently accused her of not knowing her tehzeeb or character ( whatever it was)...for accusing her that she purposely froze watching the fire so he couldn't help Billo...etc etc...the list goes on. The fact that he always finds a reason to blame her is an extremely abusive trait in a relationship.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

how would a woman feel if her fiance never trusted her...all the more have disregarded her repeatedly over the words of his best friend? The fact that Asad doesn't trust her is emotionally paralyzingly her in every form. No, the abuse hasn't stopped...he still doesn't shy away from judging her at every opportunity he gets. He recently accused her of not knowing her tehzeeb or character ( whatever it was)...for accusing her that she purposely froze watching the fire so he couldn't help Billo...etc etc...the list goes on. The fact that he always finds a reason to blame her is an extremely abusive trait in a relationship.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Please be sensitive towards battered women...it's not something to laugh about nor to laugh at anyone's comments. It's really disrespectful because everyone has a their own opinion. You don't have to agree but then you don't have to mock them either.