Hypocrisy and a downright Unethical friendship! - Page 6

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

honestly, I have never liked Asad's character...he is judgmental, extremely prejudicial, regressive in thoughts and hypocritical...I simply cannot tolerate such qualities In a man but above all I was shocked when he slapped her...that was when I completely started despising the character...but saying that I did start giving him the benefit of doubt and stated accepting him in Zoya's life because he showed signs of empathy. But, his recent interactions with Billo is probing me to think differently once again...Asad is being downright unethical here with his so called friendship...I am sorry, I grew up having very close friend who are boys since kindergarten ...some of whom are still my best friends but in no way do I hold their hands or hug them as Asad and Billo does...it's absolutely unethical and is an insult to our respectively partners.

I cannot completely fathom the fact that Asad allows Billo to touch him whenever she wants even if holding hands knowing very well how Zoya feels about it...he should be more thoughtful about the whole situation because this is a sensitive issue that his own mother has gone through. How can he even joke with Zoya on the basis of jealousy? It really doesn't matter whether we are from the western world or from the eastern...something unethical as this is wrong everywhere.

Friendship is a wonderful relationship but there has to be boundaries maintained and respected in it too. When that very friendship knowingly or unknowingly hurts your existing partners it's very important that the individual realizes it and doesn't cross their limits.

For the last couple of episodes Asad's behavior towards Billo is not that of friendship anymore IMO...to me Asad is at his hypocritical best and their relationship seems downright unethical.

I am sorry...if things doesn't change for the good...I don't think I will be able to support and rejoice in Asya's nikaah as a woman or as a viewer. I believe it's time for Asad to realize Zoya's worth and acknowledge her importance as her as his first priority or I would strongly want Zoya moving on with someone who really deserves her because at the end of the day Zoya deserves a better man than someone who walks away leaving her shattered and broken from a near death experience to his so called friend.

Originally posted by: sonam_

I'm pretty amused by the double standards people have on this forum...The one's who seem to detest the closeness and friendship between Asad and Tanveer really love and appreciate the same kind of closeness between Karan and Surbhi off the camera... The high regard they have for relations like love and marriage apply only to fictional characters and shows but when it comes to reality everything seems cool even if it is the other way round... I know this has nothing to do with the show but since you made a topic on hypocrisy and downright unethical friendship I couldn't help but point out the bias...When people are ok with it in reality then why not in a fictional show...???

because Asad and Tanveer both are supposed to come from conversative backgrounds where their actions especially in public aren't deemed right..

KSG and Surbhi are 2 different people compared to Asad and Tanveer.

I do agree with you but not completely...Tanveer touches him with a purpose but Asad isn't aware of it and his expressions whenever Tanveer is close to him doesn't look like he's enjoying it...

Originally posted by: Sanaa629

because Asad and Tanveer both are supposed to come from conversative backgrounds where their actions especially in public aren't deemed right..

KSG and Surbhi are 2 different people compared to Asad and Tanveer.

Originally posted by: sonam_

I'm pretty amused by the double standards people have on this forum...The one's who seem to detest the closeness and friendship between Asad and Tanveer really love and appreciate the same kind of closeness between Karan and Surbhi off the camera... The high regard they have for relations like love and marriage apply only to fictional characters and shows but when it comes to reality everything seems cool even if it is the other way round... I know this has nothing to do with the show but since you made a topic on hypocrisy and downright unethical friendship I couldn't help but point out the bias...When people are ok with it in reality then why not in a fictional show...???

Originally posted by: sonam_

Its not about characters or actors... I'm talking about people's mindset... Those objecting to the closeness have issues because its about their favourite couple and not because of their background... Consider a situation wherein Tanveer would've been a genuine friend and well wisher, even then, the idea of them holding hands would not have gone down well with the fans...

I think you're mistaken. It's not about favourite actors being all touchy or not. It IS about their background. Because friend or not Asad doesn't go aroung holding girls' hand unless there's a deep connection with them. So even Tanveer was nice and genuinly meant well.. if she did act all touchy with Asad then.. Then it would be out of her character.. But clearly it is all IN her character now.. So Asad's the only one you can look at here.

Originally posted by: neha2607

Asad-Tanveer come from a background where public display isn't considered appropriate. Karan and Surbhi are different from the characters and the background from where Asad-Tannu come. With due respect I don't think the comparison is appropriate.

I am not going to go into discussion on the right and wrong because we can obviously agree to disagree 😊. But on the script I have to agree that this track has been dragged to no end. Not being able to see any loophole gets a little illogical at one point.One one end there is a justification that no best friend or in Dilshad's case no woman would feel that the girl who is like her daughter would do something of this sort. But I think the show needs a change of story here, because this track if stretched any longer shall get exhausting for the viewers.

Originally posted by: sonam_

I'm pretty amused by the double standards people have on this forum...The one's who seem to detest the closeness and friendship between Asad and Tanveer really love and appreciate the same kind of closeness between Karan and Surbhi off the camera... The high regard they have for relations like love and marriage apply only to fictional characters and shows but when it comes to reality everything seems cool even if it is the other way round... I know this has nothing to do with the show but since you made a topic on hypocrisy and downright unethical friendship I couldn't help but point out the bias...When people are ok with it in reality then why not in a fictional show...???