Zoya: Emotionally Challenged? - Page 2

Originally posted by: forumfanhain

You spoke words out of my mind. I feel she is too, emotionally challenged than Asad. She does not want to answer her own questions. The day Zoya and Asad look beyond their layers at each other: Zoya behind Asad's seriousness, and Asad behind her childishness, they will find two very similar people. Stung by their past, hurt to their core, with a soul pining for love... Not wanting to make the first move, not as ego, but as a wall. Yet, Zoya does come across as a childish egoistic girl (Asad's interpretetaion of her) and by doing what she has done today, she has only augmented his judgement. On the other hand, as an oscilatting fan, a yo-yo, Asad has also, only further augment Zoya's judgement of each other. They need to both step aside, and think for themselves as to what they want. Both, need to!

Imade a hurried post with the same topic, but must admit you beautifully wrote the facts, much more baeutifully than i did!

Originally posted by: ameilia

Wow i loved of u have put Zoya into words👏.Awesome post.I am glad u wrote this because quite frankly all i have been seeing is that how could Zoya deny in front of Asad,he doesnt need to tell her,she should know by his actions that he loves her etc etc.

I think all Zoya needs is assurance.Every woman needs to be assured that the man she loves,loves her back.Zoya may understand Asad to some extent but that doesnt mean she knows him inside and out.Especially for a bipolar guy like Asad that does something totally out of character then quickly changes his mouth in another instant.

Zoya had said that she will get him to admit his feelings but have we ever heard her saying she loves Mr Khan??Sure we know by her actions and expressions that she is deeply in love with him but have we ever wonder why havent she admit to herself that she loves him?She needs him to say it.U cant just know a man loves you,he needs to show and be proud of being in love with you.Asad's cold behaviour then warm concern then he retorts to the cold shoulder can be very confusing and very irritating. Zoya wants him to tell her he wanted to be engaged to her.She wants him to tell her that he needs her in his life.

You brought up a good point about rejection and that fear of being rejected has made Zoya the way she is.Zoya may seem confident and bold but inside there is a weak woman that yearns for love.Zoya knows the minute she admits to herself about her feelings they automatically becomes real and that is something she would not be able to deny or push away.That is why she constantly pester Asad to tell her about his feelings.She knows but she wants to hear.Its not enough for you to show your love one minute then act like a jerk the next.She needs to know that Asad wont abandon her cause who better to know the pain of abandonment and also the fact that she did feel rejected by her Abbu better than her?

Ps. You writing and posts are really good.You should write more😛.

Originally posted by: BlahBytes

Another great post. Although turning it into an almost comical situation irked me a bit, I was not at all surprised by Zoya's response. She is extremely fearful of Asad's rejection. Of others she may be more tolerant but with him the wounds run deeper. If you've not yet seen, try and watch the episode where Zoya stands with outstretched arms for an Asad who she thinks is running towards her. (This one must be 7th March or the 8th) When he hugs another girl instead her world just falls apart. I think this scarred her further.

Both Asad and Zoya are equally broken and make a whole if and only if they are together. Happy times though are not too close and I actually like that. Angst and star-crossed lovers are my favorites too. A teeny bit of logic thrown in to a show and I am content 😃

Originally posted by: sam.

Great post , zoya is as emotionally scared as asad because of their respective pasts its just that asad shows more obvious signs than her . Her fear of rejection runs very deep that's why she wants asad to confess first .That's why I think getting them married right now is not a great idea neither of them is ready for such a huge commitment ,they have to move on from their pasts before they can take the next step !