Can we just ease up on Asad?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Can we give Asad a lil break?

Yesterday all wanted Dilshad to choose Tanveer because he said the engagement was a "drama". Anyone still want that?
When he does something sweet and out of character. There's "oohs" and "aahhs".
When Asad does something which is in sync with his character he is deemed the worst person alive. He deserves the harshest punishment.
We all know how this man is...So why does everyone go ballistic when he goes back into his shell?
Everyone wanted him to get engaged to Tanveer to teach him a lesson. Really?

The same female that tried to kill him twice and his family?
The same female that tried to get Zoya DEPORTED?
The same female who along with the Queen Bee (Razia) made Zoya believe that her father is DEAD.
The same female that just now tried to KILL Zoya and will most likely try to do so again?
The same female that manipulated Asad AND Zoya and created misunderstandings between them.

And she does this under the title of "childhood best friend".

Seriously... I wouldn't wish Tanveer on my worst enemy. That b*tch is TOXIC. And as big of an ass Asad is sometimes. I don't think he deserves to be connected to someone as disgusting as that clown. And Zoya is a strong girl. I think she can/will learn to handle Asad in his good times and bad and vice versa. We know shes the only one that could. So how bout having a little bit of faith in these guys. And just go with the flow. Don't flip flop all over the place. Cause then you become just like Asad... hot and cold 😆.

If Dilshad really does choose Tanveer then so be it. But I won't WISH for her to be picked. No one deserves to be with a person like that.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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well said and enough said 👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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👍🏼 well said. Asad definitely does not deserve such a witch as friend, forget fiance/wife.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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True...we shud try to understand things from his perspective too...its not easy for him to make an announcement to everyone that he's in love...he knows it deep in his heart n he has kind of accepted it too...!!!

I wud never wish for him to pick Tanveer even if he has hundered more fights with Zoya...AsYa are meant to be together!!!❤️
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nupsie

True...we shud try to understand things from his perspective too...its not easy for him to make an announcement to everyone that he's in love...he knows it deep in his heart n he has kind of accepted it too...!!!

I wud never wish for him to pick Tanveer even if he has hundered more fights with Zoya...AsYa are meant to be together!!!❤️


Exactly...You said it right there!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Don't want Asad to get married to Tanveer...NEVER !!!!

I also wanted / want Dilshaad to choose Tanveer...I still do, but only to bring Asad's feelings to the surface...
The off and on show of Asad should stop somewhere and he should also stop hurting Zoe...
Asad shows his feelings only when he's about to loose Zoya and that is not a good thing...Even if Zoya ever realises
( she is another idiot ), how will she express her feelings to him, when he keeps pushing her away or telling her she should stop dreaming..., coz there is nothing btwn them...
Why do I still get the feeling that Asad hasn't fully learnt to respect and appreciate Zoya for the person she truly is ????
Why do I get the feeling that Asad still hasn't really learnt to TRUST Zoya, which is very important in any relation

Maybe if he gets engaged to Tanveer and realizes that he will loose Zoya this time for real and also slowly discovers Tanveer's true colours, he might learn to respect and appreciate Zoya wholeheartedly...accept her the way she is...
I would love to see Dilshaad cooking this entire engagement / marriage scenario up with Zoe and Najma just to make Asad come clean abt his feelings and finally admit them, instead of running away each and every time
In this way, a relation btwn these 2 is not possible as long as there is no trust and no communication

Edited by eshasrk - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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agreed 👍🏼

he may deserve the cold shoulder from zoya. but he does not deserve to be with tanveer!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: eshasrk

Don't want Asad to get married to Tanveer...NEVER !!!!

I also wanted / want Dilshaad to choose Tanveer...I still do, but only to bring Asad's feelings to the surface...
The off and on show of Asad should stop somewhere and he should also stop hurting Zoe...
Asad shows his feelings only when he's about to loose Zoya and that is not a good thing...Even if Zoya ever realises
( she is another idiot ), how will she express her feelings to him, when he keeps pushing her away or telling her she should stop dreaming..., coz there is nothing btwn them...
Why do I still get the feeling that Asad hasn't fully learnt to respect and appreciate Zoya for the person she truly is ????
Why do I get the feeling that Asad still hasn't really learnt to TRUST Zoya, which is very important in any relation

Maybe if he gets engaged to Tanveer and realizes that he will loose Zoya this time for real and also slowly discovers Tanveer's true colours, he might learn to respect and appreciate Zoya wholeheartedly...accept her the way she is...
I would love to see Dilshaad cooking this entire engagement / marriage scenario up with Zoe and Najma just to make Asad come clean abt his feelings and finally admit them, instead of running away each and every time
In this way, a relation btwn these 2 is not possible as long as there is no trust and no communication

I think the trust issue goes back to when Rashid was in jail. Remember everyone was against him and eventually Zoya did break his trust by scheming and plotting with Ayaan to try and keep him from appearing for the trial.
Asad is still in the battle of accepting his feelings and denying them. So that's why I never expect him to express his feelings about Zoya to anyone but himself.
And i agree with this he is confusing Zoya but she cant express her feelings if she doesn't even know what they are.
I don't think he needs to be engaged to Tanveer to realize her true colors. That realization can happen without any engagement taking place. What he needs to do is start using his brains/getting together with Zoya to figure out why certain things happened.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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hey awesome post completely agree
when ever asad s n "dill main kuch zuban pe kuch" mode everyone starts being meany to asad. i dont know y people dont try to look from his perspective also? seeing one side of coin i.e only zoya is wrong u need to look from both's pov
btw i agree he doesnt deserve soemone like tanveer who s main reason for d problems. if anyone needs to be blamed are billi n raziya these two actually create all MU's
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: eshasrk

Don't want Asad to get married to Tanveer...NEVER !!!!

I also wanted / want Dilshaad to choose Tanveer...I still do, but only to bring Asad's feelings to the surface...
The off and on show of Asad should stop somewhere and he should also stop hurting Zoe...
Asad shows his feelings only when he's about to loose Zoya and that is not a good thing...Even if Zoya ever realises
( she is another idiot ), how will she express her feelings to him, when he keeps pushing her away or telling her she should stop dreaming..., coz there is nothing btwn them...
Why do I still get the feeling that Asad hasn't fully learnt to respect and appreciate Zoya for the person she truly is ????
Why do I get the feeling that Asad still hasn't really learnt to TRUST Zoya, which is very important in any relation

Maybe if he gets engaged to Tanveer and realizes that he will loose Zoya this time for real and also slowly discovers Tanveer's true colours, he might learn to respect and appreciate Zoya wholeheartedly...accept her the way she is...
I would love to see Dilshaad cooking this entire engagement / marriage scenario up with Zoe and Najma just to make Asad come clean abt his feelings and finally admit them, instead of running away each and every time
In this way, a relation btwn these 2 is not possible as long as there is no trust and no communication

i'll want to reply to d trust part😊
1.after mangalpur asad told her not keep mariyam n house she kept asad caught her dt broke his trust fr d first time.
2. then rashid case when zoya tried to keep him away from d court
asad still believes n think dt she will always break his trust. once u lose someones trust its hard to gain it back. zoya hasnt done anything to which asad cn trust her she has always broken his trust.
if u remember his line "apne meri parvah bhi nahiin ki" it means he still thinks n believes dt she will always break his trust. zoya needs to do something to gain trust from asad😊
Edited by youth_showsfan - 12 years ago

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