Rushed Decisions: Epi Apr 16 - Page 5

Originally posted by: bheegi

Lovely comment Qhid. I agree what you said about Zoya. Because her heart has no malice, she doesn't see it in anyone but here it's not about seeing malice, rather prioritizing what is important. I don't blame Asad. he took the first step of lying to the visa officer but if Zoya really wants to stay, she needs to put all her energy into this track. Why should Asad and Dilshaad be more worried about the engagement? Zoya seems to be ignoring the reality here. She is taking it too lightly. I think the ring scene with Tanu in the background shouldn't scare anyone...he will never marry her for sure

Just logged in :) I see your point but I don't know if its that is what it is OR that's what's being conveyed/ perceived.

Someone like her wouldn't even know priorities. She only reacts to what her heart tells her.
She even stopped searching for her dad and focused on rashid's case for Dilshaad... She saw her pain and had to do something about it. Why should it be any different now? Perhaps we get to witness the same again ... Asad got mad but lost his calm when he saw her hurt. Now again perhaps multifold?

But more on priorities if Z processed it like that ( one of us )... A fictional example..If one is stuck in a spot.. Lets just say getting married under tense circumstances..I find out my best friend has eloped and needs help... Would I do it or not? I would ...I know it's not logical but if you love someone enough then how you process information... They come first... You come last... And that is the right order of priority... Yeah you expect their order of priority would also put you on top... But asad doesn't love her enough yet... When he does he'll not care that she screwed up yet again!

Originally posted by: qhid

Just logged in :) I are your point but I don't know if its that it that's what's being conveyed/ perceived.

Someone like her wouldn't even know priorities. She only reacts to what her heart tells her.
She even stopped searching for her dad an donated focused on rashid's case for Dilshaad... She saw her pain and had to do something about it. Why should it be any different now? Perhaps we get to witness the same again ... Asad got mad but lost his calm gene he saw her hurt. Now again perhaps multifold?

But more on priorities... A fictional example..If one is stuck in a spot.. Lets just say getting married under tense circumstances..I find out my best friend has eloped and needs help... Would I do it or not? I would ...I know it's not logical but if you love someone enough then how you process information... They come first... You come last... And that is the right order of priority... Yeah you expect their order of priority would also put you on top... But asad doesn't live her enough yet... When he does he'll Mott care that she screwed up yet again!

Not quoting... Bahut lamba post ban jayega.

But it's not like that bheegi...selfless character. Selfless is when you do it for everyone. When you do it for your kids, husband it still selfish. You love these people, they will come before you, should it be this way? Don't know but it is for a lot of us...

She's doing it for both Ayaan and Asad! She love Asad ( doesn't recognize it yet) and feels connects with his pain and frustration...wants his happiness. She thinks this will bring him some joy and since he's stepped up for her she should too. Asad too would want to go..but not there with someone very dear to his heart ...he wants to but can't! Zoya knows this... Despite all of what he says she is able to listen to what he does not say.
The fact that T is creating trouble is not Z's fault! That is what I am trying to say. Her decision is risky but right! Tanveer is creating problems an show is she to know since she is a good soul!

I do get your point ... "Khaamakha why are you creating confusion and resolve your issues first." But I don't know ... But the big if is who is it that you are putting your life / future on the line for...

Originally posted by: bheegi

i see your point but has she even sat down and tried to talk to Asad? Has she considered what it would mean if they actually got engaged? Has she reflected upon the statements made by Asad like when he saw her at the dargah or what he thinks about getting engaged? she is running away from reality IMO. I have always commended her for helping others but this time she needs to be a bit thoughtful because it's not only about her but about Asad also.

Also sorry about spelling and odd format, blame it on the phone...outside waiting for someone and passing time :)

About T ... I'm cool with the actress and all but just that A and T make a very boring couple :) she is no fun.

BTW where is the synopsis where all this story is written, I've never seen..read a lot of posts here but never read the actual summary

@Qhid, @ Nishita

So true, bheegi. A rushed decision can lead to regret. So it is better for both of them to come to the realization that without the other their life is not complete. I think the impending track might jolt them into that realization. Just hope it does not jolt the audience into Asad-Tanveer or Ayan-Zoya sagai.👎🏼 That will be too much to stomach.

@ bheegi last post...good point...sagai to me personally is just another reason to party...it's not marriage...cannot be. But I agree overall this point ...sagai or no sagai.. marriage or no marriage if one is in a relationship or in love it should be for keeps. I cannot appreciate the jumping around idea even if it's to create drama. I always hope for a couple to stay together( even in Ekta Kapoor world of TV yeah)...and if there are real issues move on ...perhaps find love elsewhere but don't monkey around especially in the same family. I really get turned off by stuff like that-

Originally posted by: jasw

So true, bheegi. A rushed decision can lead to regret. So it is better for both of them to come to the realization that without the other their life is not complete. I think the impending track might jolt them into that realization. Just hope it does not jolt the audience into Asad-Tanveer or Ayan-Zoya sagai.👎🏼 That will be too much to stomach.

Originally posted by: qhid

@ bheegi last post...good point...sagai to me personally is just another reason to party...it's not marriage...cannot be. But I agree overall this point ...sagai or no sagai.. marriage or no marriage if one is in a relationship or in love it should be for keeps. I cannot appreciate the jumping around idea even if it's to create drama. I always hope for a couple to stay together( even in Ekta Kapoor world of TV yeah)...and if there are real issues move on ...perhaps find love elsewhere but don't monkey around especially in the same family. I really get turned off by stuff like that-

read the synopsis...if that really happens...I'd be disappointed. Z makes mistakes but this one would alter how I viewed her character...lets see what actually happens...