Asad Ahmed Khan - Page 11

Originally posted by: Jayne

Having known Dilshaad, upbringing cannot be blamed.

There are plenty of bad seeds that fall from good trees, and vice versa.

This crap is all on Mr. Khan alone.

BTW, I, too, feel that they are building up to Ms. Farouqui ditching Mr. Khan and marrying/falling in love with someone else since that other person will show her true love and respect.

Will it be Mr.Khan's bro?

Likely not.

Actors and character-set-up do not suit.

Jayne

Agreed, Dilshaad seems like a cool character but Asad is not a character Im liking, I normally love men who talk little do more and throw in some attitude (love such characters) Asad is not coming across like that if they intended...he is coming across as an a** hole, and I agree those can breed anywhere...mommy aint got to do anything with how they turn out...

Repeating what I said in another post. Just have to vent my frustration and anger. What a waste to KSG's brilliance and hard work!!

Maybe Asad thinks his feelings for Zoya are just infatuation and he does not like many of her qualities - its not just about the cloths she wears, its her independent rebellious nature, stubborn, not abiding by any of his rules, not keeping the house clean... So he feels that he cannot stay in love with Zoya forever and eventually he will start disliking her and its better to move away now than later...I remember Asad saying to his mom that he was not scared for himself but was sacred that he might hurt somebody else. So in his mind he is sure she is not right for him and his family. He is not aware of the depth of his feeling for her, he thinks he will get over her eventually, when she goes away, he is trying to convince himself the same.

Originally posted by: Rin03

The thing that attracted me most to Asad's character in the beginning despite his MCP ideals was that, He respected women.

Asad does not have any right to tell anyone whether they deserve to have a family or not...I think he should first look at his own situation.

Originally posted by: narangi314

I have to disagree with you on this one my friend...You cannot respect women if you are a chauvinist! IMO it's a contradiction in terms!Asad only "respects" women as long as they conform to HIS ideals in dress, behavior etc...

This respecting women thing is the biggest load of *&^%!

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Ah Your right 😆 I have no idea what I wrote in my frustration. :-P
But what I meant to actually say was that he had rather old fashioned ideals or thinking, he was a bit chauvinistic as well in his old fashioned way but I thought he respected women a lot! I mean when your brought by just women and no father figure, you naturally respect women.

The keyword here is I THOUGHT… It didn't actually turn out that way in regards to Zoya and jeans clad, modern thinking women.

Originally posted by: Rin03

Ah yea Your right 😆 I have no idea what I wrote in my frustration. :-P
But what I meant to actually say was that he had rather old fashioned ideals or thinking, he was a bit chauvinistic as well in his old fashioned way but I thought he respected women a lot! I mean when your brought by just women and no father figure, you naturally respect women.

The keyword here is I THOUGHT' It didn't actually turn out that way in regards to Zoya and jeans clad, modern thinking women.

Originally posted by: narangi314

You're right about that! His archaic attitude is actually quite inexplicable given that he was brought up by a single mom...

But so far, he has given NO indication of respecting women..on the contrary he is quite close to the khap panchayat in his attitudes ... yuck!

I think in one scene he says that he wants women to be like the way Dilshad behaves and her nature and all. But I dont think Dilshad to be old fashioned. Sure, she behaves gracefully, maturely and dresses pretty well and modestly. But I never felt she thinks women should duck their heads and walk behind men. So even I dont get where his old fashioned ideals come from.

I wouldn't quite say he is like those twisted old b*stards. I dont think Asad would have ever allowed his cousin to be married off to her rapist if he had known.But yes, his mentality is like the rest 95% of indian chauvinistic men.
The guy does respect women I think, Dilshad who Im sure would never allow her son to disrespect a woman, but it is only until they back talk or wear jeans. For this guy its like first impression is last impression. He was quite ok with Zoya until she said "All men of this country act like they have never seen a woman"

Originally posted by: Rin03

I think in one scene he says that he wants women to be like the way Dilshad behaves and her nature and all. But I dont think Dilshad to be old fashioned. Sure, she behaves gracefully, maturely and dresses pretty well and modestly. But I never felt she thinks women should duck their heads and walk behind men. So even I dont get where his old fashioned ideals come from.

I wouldn't quite say he is like those twisted old b*stards. I dont think Asad would have ever allowed his cousin to be married off to her rapist if he had known.But yes, his mentality is like the rest 95% of indian chauvinistic men.
The guy does respect women I think, Dilshad who Im sure would never allow her son to disrespect a woman, but it is only until they back talk or wear jeans. For this guy its like first impression is last impression. He was quite ok with Zoya until she said "All men of this country act like they have never seen a woman"