Dilshad...a mother or a wife? - Page 2

The evil in me says 😈 Salay per ek thappar tu banta hai

But the pro-tolerance side of me says today was a violence mahaepisode !

& you dont choke a woman no matter how nasty she is- not if you are the good guy! & you don't slap your grown son (specially) in front of others in the room not a son who has dedicated his life to you.

Now if he's breaking furniture we should let that be- even I throw a vase or two when i cant vent my frustration and anger at anything else 😵
that's drama & Indian drama at that ☢️ there has to be some way the lead shows his manly *Biceps contracted Salman khan pose* anger 😡

I agree with every single word. For me, today, Dilshaad failed as a mother. I have said this many times in different threads...Asad may have been impulsive but Rashid committed each and every one of those crimes except the murder. Even for the murder he covered it up...which is a crime! He definitely deserves to go to jail. I just don't understand every one who thinks Rashid is the sun, the moon and perfect...YUCK!

He is not a sympathetic character and the writers can to try to shove it down my throat that he is but it's going to take a lot more than the writers TELLING me and propping him rather than showing. :/

Originally posted by: risingsea101

Hey dear, beautiful post. i have a long reply for this, so please bear to read.😆

Either a mother or a wife, she was being mentally forced to choose a side, why should she choose anyways? It was either her son, or her husband. I get how she didn't notice all the pain Asad was through, but at the same time, he wasn't the only one who suffered.

I feel really bad for Asad though too, Dilshaad slapped him. He deserved it, but then again didn't deserve it, it was his "father" who was the main problem between this. Someone who is separating a mother from a child, over what...trust?

She still trusted him after 17 years, hey I guess it's because of how strong her love is for him, Asad wouldn't understand, he doesn't know how his mother feels. He feels his own pain and the hurt his "father" has put him through.

All I want to say is it isn't Dilshaad's fault neither is it Asad's.

Originally posted by: RMamsa

I don't know- I can really relate to Asad (similar stories) and if my mother slapped me tomorrow because I turned my father in over a crime he contributed too (keeping in mind i don't know the full story) I'd find it really unfair that she slapped me. Specially because of my dedication to her. I feel Asad din't just turn him in out of personal anger but also to protect his mother from who he now see's as a murderer!

I really hope they don't show Asad forgiving Rashid so easily because it's not easy accepting a father who left you and your mother for another woman & gave all his time and dedication to the other family (let along the murder involvement)

Honestly, Rmansa I don't want Asad to ever forgive Rashid...at worst I want him to coldly tolerate his so called father. The man is a coward and a criminal! What sort of father doesn't cop to the truth when being asked clearly by his son who is in absolute emotional turmoil from what he has witnessed? Really is your own life worth more than your kids?

Originally posted by: delena90

Honestly, Rmansa I don't want Asad to ever forgive Rashid...at worst I want him to coldly tolerate his so called father. The man is a coward and a criminal! What sort of father doesn't cop to the truth when being asked clearly by his son who is in absolute emotional turmoil from what he has witnessed? Really is your own life worth more than your kids?

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Dilshad is a great woman...she is the epitome of grace, kindness, sincerity, patience. She is the woman who is great enough to forgive Rashid for his sin and still care for him immensely. She is ready to go against the very son Asad who has devoted his very being for her and his family. She has undeniable faith in Rashid and it's admirable but I simply cannot support Dilshad in slapping Asad and blaming him for Rashid's arrest. Yes, Asad's decision was impulsive but being a mother Dishad should have made an attempt to understand the turmoil Rahid has put through the family...let alone has turned Asad into the mode of destruction..Asad clearly asked Rashd for an explanation but only to be said that he is forbidden to answer.

I am afraid to fulfill the duty of a wife ...she is failing as a mother. Dilshad needs to realize that she is the one who has to be strong for both Asad and Najma and not the other way around.

PS: All this slapping and choking is absolutely unacceptable ...it doesn't matter whether its Asad,Dilshad or Rashid choking Razia...it's just horrible and uncivilized. There as to be some other way to show anger and frustration.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Dilshad is a great woman...she is the epitome of grace, kindness, sincerity, patience. She is the woman who is great enough to forgive Rashid for his sin and still care for him immensely. She is ready to go against the very son Asad who has devoted his very being for her and his family. She has undeniable faith in Rashid and it's admirable but I simply cannot support Dilshad in slapping Asad and blaming him for Rashid's arrest. Yes, Asad's decision was impulsive but being a mother Dishad should have made an attempt to understand the turmoil Rahid has put through the family...let alone has turned Asad into the mode of destruction..Asad clearly asked Rashd for an explanation but only to be said that he is forbidden to answer.

I am afraid to fulfill the duty of a wife ...she is failing as a mother. Dilshad needs to realize that she is the one who has to be strong for both Asad and Najma and not the other way around.

PS: All this slapping and choking is absolutely unacceptable ...it doesn't matter whether its Asad,Dilshad or Rashid choking Razia...it's just horrible and uncivilized. There as to be some other way to show anger and frustration.

Originally posted by: RMamsa

I don't know- I can really relate to Asad (similar stories) and if my mother slapped me tomorrow because I turned my father in over a crime he contributed too (keeping in mind i don't know the full story) I'd find it really unfair that she slapped me. Specially because of my dedication to her. I feel Asad din't just turn him in out of personal anger but also to protect his mother from who he now see's as a murderer!

I really hope they don't show Asad forgiving Rashid so easily because it's not easy accepting a father who left you and your mother for another woman & gave all his time and dedication to the other family (let along the murder involvement)