Dilshad...a mother or a wife?

Dilshad is a great woman...she is the epitome of grace, kindness, sincerity, patience. She is the woman who is great enough to forgive Rashid for his sin and still care for him immensely. She is ready to go against the very son Asad who has devoted his very being for her and his family. She has undeniable faith in Rashid and it's admirable but I simply cannot support Dilshad in slapping Asad and blaming him for Rashid's arrest. Yes, Asad's decision was impulsive but being a mother Dishad should have made an attempt to understand the turmoil Rahid has put through the family...let alone has turned Asad into the mode of destruction..Asad clearly asked Rashd for an explanation but only to be said that he is forbidden to answer.

👏 Word Pri!A very much needed post!I am utterly disappointed at Dilshad's charcter today as her resorting to this level...be it a minor slap to many, but this from Dilshad's end was a total out of place moment! she has always come across as a woman of substance,grace,dignity and a woman of patience...not someone who would resort to such drasticality...was not called for!She has seen her kids grow up without the love or support of a father and has been shown to understand Asad's angst/pain,she herself has nursed a broken hurt for many years,wallowing in the heartbreak of infedility(from her point of view) and now that her husband ahs come across justified on why he did what he did,does not give her the audacity to side completely with her husband and make her child feel the worst taunting and agonising of guilts possible.I agree ...if Asad was a minor,this would be accounted for child abuse in the fom of physical and mental torture.Anger and frustration can be shown in other ways and there is no need for this ott dramaticness...sometimes a thing called subtletly goes along way!

Dilshad is supporting her hubby coz she knew him for years
N she knew his son is misunderstanding his dad

PS - I totally agree

Amazing post dear...
The way you have praised Dilshad is soo beautiful.

Well I am not happy with Dilshad today but her reaction was quite expected and 50% justified too.
All the emotional turmoil through which Dilshad has gone in less than 24 hours can make any sane person lose control over himself/herself for a while.
It must have been really a horrible scene to see her own son pointing the gun at her husband and even shooting it even if the shot was deliberately missed coz of the swear she gave to her son.
Dilshad was already disturbed and then Ayaan's phone must have made her really worried.She already knows and believes that Rashid is not guilty. So when all this was happening and her own son tells her that he has send his abbu to jail, a slap or an outburst is much expected.Both Dilshad and Asad are people of few words,so the slap didn't surprise me much eventhough I was not happy and totally justified with it.
I wonder if Dilshad ever slapped Rashid for betraying her trust..I wish mommy had shown more trust on her son than her unfaithful thali ka baigan hubby.

It's high time that Dilshad decides what she feels regarding the presence of Rashid in her life.
She will be made to chose between the father and son very soon,I guess in future and I hope that she may take the right decision.

You have said it very rightly that while performing the duties of a wife,she should never forget her role as Asad and Najma's mother..

In the whole situation Dillu was totally biased towards Rashid which I didn't like at all.She should be happy that atleast Asad gave Rashid a chance to explain himself.It's not Asad's fault really if Rashid is brainless ofcourse😆

I don't know how many of you noticed this but the scene after the slap where Dilshad sat down on the couch in hall and Zajma and Zoe tried to send her to the room,mommy was shivering with anger while silent tears slipped through her eyes.
It was proved by CVs today that Asad has inherited all traits from his ammi only.Both mother and son have a habit of burning themselves inside by staying dumb.Why do they love silence sooo much?Gosh!!

And here comes the slap issue again.
Well ,I would say that it's all about perception my dear.
Slapping may be horrible for you but it might seem justifiable to others as per the circumstances.

If parents are forbidden from raising their hands on children when needed, right from the first day of the birth of a child as slapping is quite uncivilized then only the Almighty can show the right direction the young generation.
So, I really don't support u in calling the slap uncivilized and horrible.I was expecting Dillu to slap Asad when he was throwing things in his room but thank God Zoe entered that time.😆

But anyways,the topic of discussion is really interesting here.I enjoyed reading your post and the replies here a lot.
Take care!

i just dont get how she can be so blind to asads pain. dilshad spent many years with rashid n had two kids with him so yes maybe she feels she knows him enough to know he didnt kill anyone or try to kill her. but how does she expect asad to feel the same way. all asad knows of rashid is that he cheated his mother and married another woman and then left his family for that other woman. and now when rashid had a chance to explain, he didnt.

I think the whole family should sit in a circle and play pass-the-slap...its one thing they all seem to have in common, so maybe they can all bond over that...think of it as a kind of group therapy...😆

A slap a day keeps bad TRP's away?

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Dilshad is a great woman...she is the epitome of grace, kindness, sincerity, patience. She is the woman who is great enough to forgive Rashid for his sin and still care for him immensely. She is ready to go against the very son Asad who has devoted his very being for her and his family. She has undeniable faith in Rashid and it's admirable but I simply cannot support Dilshad in slapping Asad and blaming him for Rashid's arrest. Yes, Asad's decision was impulsive but being a mother Dishad should have made an attempt to understand the turmoil Rahid has put through the family...let alone has turned Asad into the mode of destruction..Asad clearly asked Rashd for an explanation but only to be said that he is forbidden to answer.

I am afraid to fulfill the duty of a wife ...she is failing as a mother. Dilshad needs to realize that she is the one who has to be strong for both Asad and Najma and not the other way around.

PS: All this slapping and choking is absolutely unacceptable ...it doesn't matter whether its Asad,Dilshad or Rashid choking Razia...it's just horrible and uncivilized. There as to be some other way to show anger and frustration.

Originally posted by: crazy4KASH_AR

Amazing post dear...
The way you have praised Dilshad is soo beautiful.

Well I am not happy with Dilshad today but her reaction was quite expected and 50% justified too.


But anyways,the topic of discussion is really interesting here.I enjoyed reading your post and the replies here a lot.
Take care!

Arey Wah meri cheeti! showing tolerance & giving your POV at the same time! You are makeing me proud Crazy!