Letter to BCCC - See P41 Update - Page 40

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: crazy4KASH_AR



I wonder if a slap is called violence then every time a woman slaps a man then she should also be charged for violence.


I wonder why you are so fixated about violence towards men when data and research shows that abuse towards men is 1/10 or less compared to women. In most instances it involves gay couples. I am just bewildered and fascinated about your emotional outburst on the forum in response to my post. 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: S.Stephy

Great job!! I hope this brings about some positive effect. Its sad to see how the male lead physically abuses the female lead and then this is casually brushed away as though its no big deal... all for the sake of romance. And this seems to have become some kind of trend...

Edit: I read through a report on the BCCC website, and after reading some of the complaints that got dismissed, I think this too might be dismissed. But my skepticism aside, I still applaud those involved for atleast taking this stand and I really hope it does bring some effect.


You know, like I said, it probably got deleted 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: misst

I agree with you totally, from where this 'romanticizing the slap' came up?? The PH strictly din't give any romantic angle to it, it was shown so real horrific way that it promoted so much debate here and people call it romantic?? I don't get this at all, just because a few handful people expressed their opinion as they imagined it to be romantic doesn't mean everybody felt it romantic, I din't feel it, you din't feel it and many like us are there, then why this issue I seriously don't get. It's like you presume something and conclude that it is right, and say slap is romanticized! I don't agree with it at all.
chiksoup@ don't worry show won't face the problem of shutting down, the channel will be asked to respond to the letter first, when channel is spent on the show and they are gaining good trps they will defend it.


I too agree.. even I didn't find any romance in that slap and neither the PH showed it even after that slap or apology... this so called "romanticizing of slap" is not at all in picture...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: chicksoup


You didn't answer the question.
Can you find me a single person who said they felt good watching Zoya getting slapped. You have made that assumption, so you must have read some one.

Or did you just not understand what people meant?

And I mean it. You say it is not a petition..but if a rival channel pushes it...a very popular show can get shut down.

Afterall, movies don't get released for the flimsiest of reasons.

Yeah, I hope people don't take you seriously, but seriously there are some nutty people out there on every board. You'd know if you have dealt with Govt. organisations in India.

SP made a point shutting down IPK. YOur precious board might want to make a point too.


WOW, I didn't know this could have so much power...it's rather encouraging to here that - even though that was never my intent. Goes to show how powerful words can be.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: karan-007

ohhh plzzz yu n your lot of research, actually i would lov to see your research 😊


(Shakes head) please, you are now sounding ignorant.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: karan-007


okiess next time if someone do that with yu just complain even if your parents i don't see anything wrong in moi parents doing that to me 😃


Doesn't make it right.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Chicken Soup Short story


Oddly enough your story is favoring a justification for the slap - instead of outrage your lead is sympathizing and making up explanations for the slap. Slaps are done in anger - nothing else. I am not sure who you wanted to help with it.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: chicksoup

I am sorry.I addressed you because you responded to me. You seemed to be in this thing together...

' If we don't believe in freedom of expression for people we despise, we don't believe in it at all.'

Who despises whom?

It is more like you guys are despising the nonbashers and telling us we are romanticising violence...

People who have the heart and patience to sit through what the makers are trying to tell, and the humility to know the story is safe in the maker's hands...

we don't despise any one...freedom of expression is good. Don't misuse your rights and your freedom.


The post is in response to those who justify it, romanticize it and think it is OK to for it to happen. I have not abused any rights...I have chosen to voice what I see. If you are happy, write to the BCCC and tell them that you are proud of what the PH has done.
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Posted: 12 years ago
You have my support Laila and Co. who pursued this matter with such dedication.Honestly just sitting back, relaxing and enjoying every damn thing be it wrong in the name of 'fiction' is not okay.Yes, no body raised a voice earlier but discussions have been going on against ghastly portrayal of violence against women in a lot of serials before QH. Just because no one took a step further than that does not mean you should have kept quiet as well. After all just a spark is required to turn into a full fledged flame. I am sure you will garner more and more support and I really do hope atleast something positive does come out of it. Even if nothing happens, the intentions were sincere and right and that does command respect.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Macbeth

This is what I call heights of childishness. I cannot believe people have so much time and energy to write letters of complains to authorities concerned for a slap shown on a television show which was nothing but an impulsive action in a fit of rage.And whoever said that Asad had the " right" to slap Zoya because he feels 'haq' over her? Whoever said that the scene was supposed to romantic or the creatives were trying to glamorize violence? Show me one post that said -" wow...the slap was so romantic".

Seriously ...there are a lot of women in the real world who are victims of real domestic violence.Its high time we step out of our houses to do something for them instead of reacting over a mere fictional show.


Macbeth, your post amuses me that you would see this as a height of childishness for drawing attention to an issue. If the issue of real concern to you, then you would be equally bothered with what we saw on the show as you claim in real life. Right? I am curious, as much as you are stressing we need to do something in real life, pray what do you do other than complain about what I am doing either here or in real life?

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