Originally posted by: aditi061
After seeing conversation of ilvuday and iqbal-pallavi. They have rightly said the difference between god and human is that god forgive our hundered bad deed for one good deed but humans forget hundered good deed for one bad deed. So basically zoe is an angel and u guys are being humans. Guys ek baar ek bete ke pov se sab dekho. Voh beta jisko apne baap ka pyaar nae mila. Jaan se bhi jyada pyaare bhai ko khona pada. Apni ma ko har din nae maut marte dekhna pada unhe rote hue dekhna pada. Aaj vahi ladka apni maa ko marte hue dekhkar kya kuch bhi soch ya samajh paega? Just think once. Now ek ladki ke pov se dekho jisne apn maa ko apne saamne jalte hue dekha hai. Jisne aaj tak apne pita ko nae dekha, jisse yeh samajh nae aaya ki voh kabhi uski khabar lene kyun nae aaye. Kya voh ladki asad ke dard ko, uski har ek galat harkat ke peeeche ke dard ko nae samjhegi????
I understand Asad's position, I really do understand the pain he went through - I can't possibly fathom something like that happening to my parents, but because of that I'm not about to demean someone else, I am not about to physically hit someone else because my parents taught me better, and Dilshad taught Asad better. Asad doesn't know the pain Zoya went through and that's why he says horrible stuff to her, does horrible stuff to her but is that really fair? Just because she hides pain behind her laughter doesn't make her pain any less and Asad doesn't have the right to constantly judge her and constantly humiliate her without knowing her, and that's what pisses me of the most. He dishes out his punishment in the most torturous way without knowing any thing. how much pain can some one take until they are broken beyond repair? Fair enough he makes the mistake once, but Asad knows he misjudged Zoya time and again, shouldn't he have thought for a second that maybe I should just hear her out before I decide to slap her, or before I decide to bring her mother into this, before I threaten to kill her. Your right god forgives a man for his 1000 wrong doings because of his one good but like you said we are humans and we have feelings that unfortunately we can't shut off and when people say stuff like what Asad says to Zoe then it hurts, it freaking stings!!! and at times like that it's our self-respect and our dignity that keeps us going, it's the thought that we are stronger than this, the thought 'No man should have the power to break me' is what keeps us from breaking but here Zoya is giving him all the power to damage her.
Also an added fact God may forgive us for our thousand mistakes but not without punishing us first. The road to forgiveness and redemption has never been easy.
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