Zoya has no self-respect!! - Page 4

Sorry to offend u dear! Just stating my perception! Dear have u ever seen the ugly truth in indian culture? If yes than what happened in qh was nothing in compare to that! U can't state asad action as domestic violence. Just try to keep urself in his shoes. Had, god forbid, it been ur mother on her death bed nd the person whom u think is the reason for her state would not be seen alive. U would eventually kill the person. All asad did was in emotional turmoil and anguish... Yeah he should have heard her out but do u think he would beleive her if zoe had said that it was his ammi to bring back mariyam. He would all over again blame her. Now coming to zoya. Dear zoya do have ample of self respect. Imagine u have a huge fight with ur best friend which turned out to be violent. Won't u forgive ur best friend when he/ she realizes their mistakes. U would definitly decipher their state of mind at the time of fight. Same is the case with zoya. She herself have suffered with enormous pain nd had a very dark past. She witnessed her mom burning to ashes right in front of her when she was of 3. Why on earth wouldn't she understand asad's state of mind when she knows about his past nd also the fact that he is living for his ammi. If his ammi supported him he can fight with whole world all alone. She understood that his world came crashing down seeing his ammi like hers crashed when she saw her ammi. She never blamed him for what he did but the situation. For had not it been his ammi's life he would have never done it...

Originally posted by: ilvuday

what is wrong vid u guys??

for once put urself in asad's shoes n think...n would u mind if he had slapped razia instead??😡

thank god! For a change someone thought rationally and understood asad.

Originally posted by: ButterflyWing

Its not like that . She has self respect but do not have any ego . . . And she is very understing person . Though I am still dissapointed , Asad doesn't show that much of guilt I expected him to feel, which is more .

Originally posted by: Ishita131

Its not that Zoya has no self respect. I think its because thats the way Zoya is. Selfless and forgiving. She dosent hold grudges and if someone apologises and really means it she'll forgive them.

And she understands that even if what Asad did was wrong he really regrets it.

So yeah. Dont be too judgemental. Its an indian dram and Zoya is a very forgiving person.

Originally posted by: iqbal-pallavi

You know I'm in two minds about this, on one hand I thought she forgave him too easily - I mean for god sake he slapped her, then threatened to kill her and topped of with a lovely comment on her mother (Sarcasm) so she really should have made him feel lower than dirt. However, when I think about Zoya's character I agree with some people when they say she doesn't have an ego that's why she forgave him and that does show how nice of a human being she is. What I was really disappointed in was the fact that she should have kept her self-respect and kept a distance from Asad, fine she forgave him (That shows she's a better person) but she should behave indifferently with him, which indirectly sends the message that 'sure I forgave you but all is definitely not forgotten and you could screw a goat if you think I'll let you treat me like a dirt again.'

But here she's behaving exactly the same way as she used to? I mean seriously W*F?

Originally posted by: aditi061

Sorry to offend u dear! Just stating my perception! Dear have u ever seen the ugly truth in indian culture? If yes than what happened in qh was nothing in compare to that! U can't state asad action as domestic violence. Just try to keep urself in his shoes. Had, god forbid, it been ur mother on her death bed nd the person whom u think is the reason for her state would not be seen alive. U would eventually kill the person. All asad did was in emotional turmoil and anguish... Yeah he should have heard her out but do u think he would beleive her if zoe had said that it was his ammi to bring back mariyam. He would all over again blame her. Now coming to zoya. Dear zoya do have ample of self respect. Imagine u have a huge fight with ur best friend which turned out to be violent. Won't u forgive ur best friend when he/ she realizes their mistakes. U would definitly decipher their state of mind at the time of fight. Same is the case with zoya. She herself have suffered with enormous pain nd had a very dark past. She witnessed her mom burning to ashes right in front of her when she was of 3. Why on earth wouldn't she understand asad's state of mind when she knows about his past nd also the fact that he is living for his ammi. If his ammi supported him he can fight with whole world all alone. She understood that his world came crashing down seeing his ammi like hers crashed when she saw her ammi. She never blamed him for what he did but the situation. For had not it been his ammi's life he would have never done it...

Its always like that in 4Lions

After seeing conversation of ilvuday and iqbal-pallavi. They have rightly said the difference between god and human is that god forgive our hundered bad deed for one good deed but humans forget hundered good deed for one bad deed. So basically zoe is an angel and u guys are being humans. Guys ek baar ek bete ke pov se sab dekho. Voh beta jisko apne baap ka pyaar nae mila. Jaan se bhi jyada pyaare bhai ko khona pada. Apni ma ko har din nae maut marte dekhna pada unhe rote hue dekhna pada. Aaj vahi ladka apni maa ko marte hue dekhkar kya kuch bhi soch ya samajh paega? Just think once. Now ek ladki ke pov se dekho jisne apn maa ko apne saamne jalte hue dekha hai. Jisne aaj tak apne pita ko nae dekha, jisse yeh samajh nae aaya ki voh kabhi uski khabar lene kyun nae aaye. Kya voh ladki asad ke dard ko, uski har ek galat harkat ke peeeche ke dard ko nae samjhegi????

Originally posted by: Laila2009

<font color="#660066">We can all play this game of what if...what if Zoya was your daughter and a guest in a house and she was being treated like this by her host, would you say "O, it is fine" or would you intervene? What if this is the man who is going to marry her?</font>

how do u know zoe is going to marry asad. Maybe she marries ayaan. Nd secondly yahaan zoe ke koi mom dad nae hai. Yeah right uske aapi nd jeeju hai. But do u think tum agar kisi maqsad ko poora karne aati ho or in cheezo ko tum apni family se kabhi share karogi taaki voh tumhe pehle bula le aur jis vajah se tum aayi ho vohi adhoori reh jaae. Gussa ho jaana bhot asaan hota hai. Kissi par ungli uthaana bhi bhot asaan hota hai par kissi ke dard ko samjhna bhot mushkil hota hai nd no one can understand this better than me. Jab mai uss insaan ko maaf kar sakti hun jisne meri life barbaad kardi toh i don't think zoe ne kuch galat kia ya kuch aisa kia jisse hum uski self respect ko question kare!

Originally posted by: aditi061

thank god! For a change someone thought rationally and understood asad.