Slap -Qubool Nahin Hai!-no matter what - Page 3

Originally posted by: Laila2009

For so long I thought I was alone on this forum...the ever popular post makers here were not on the same page as me and I even had some people report me for not agreeing with them. It really upset me that the people resorted to this degree that they would shut me down in this way for speaking out.

I did watch this show and both my sister and I did not like it. I told my cousin to watch this show; I just PMed her and told her to forget about it - she would be disgusted by this episode.

I have completely lost interesting in this show...it has left a sour taste in mouth. I simply cannot fathom any romance happening between Asad and Zoya at this stage. Asad's character has been ruined.

From an Islamic perspective (and this is a Muslim family), the practice is not condoned either. I have spent the past 20 years in this field and know every US expert - Muslim, Hindu etc on domestic abuse/violence etc. I know the people who wrote the books and have even consulted for them...none of them would endorse this...and still having been in this field for so long, I had young girls here taunt and try to educate me on what is domestic abuse. Not only were my eyes abused by what I saw today but I had of course, those people who supported abuse, abusing me on this forum...go figure why they saw nothing wrong in what Asad did.

Originally posted by: awesome

but i thing she deserve that slap

i don't know y u all r blaming asad

its not his fault

its all zoya's fault i mean she has to understand saving one's living by putting others life in danger is wrong

i thing she deserve one slap sometimes she is too annoying

first asad warn her if she is in touch with mariyum then tell him

beside his warning she still hide that girl n put dilshaad n najma life in danger.i know she helped mariyum but she can tell asad am sure he will help mariyum.but not she use her good for nothing mind.

Originally posted by: iiDona

One post is not enough, I have to take my frustration out before I leave for good.

I never liked Asad.

Yes, he was attractive but, his personality was plain repulsive. I thought that was okay, he was allowed to hold his opinions so long as they did not violate others' rights.

Today was the height of all hypocrisy. The man who supposedly fights eve teasers, goons and all sorts of abusive powers suddenly turns into one under pressure. Since when does he have special rights to justify his actions based on his circumstances. I could just as easily say the eve-teasers who bother Najma come from a broken home and therefore, should be forgiven. Doesn't make their action any less immoral, does it? Why, now, is Asad being given a free pass?

TBH, I view this soap as a fondant version of a stale cake. The tried and tested submissive women plot served under the pretense of changing times. Changing times???? I should have seen this coming with the complicated family history but, too late for that.

Adios!!

Originally posted by: r.s._08

In my opinion I don't really thing the slap has anything to do with violence against women like most people seem to be taking it. Everyone does things that they later regret. I feel like the CVs are showing just how low Asad could go and how he has to change from this man to the one that Zoya will fall in love with. They need to have him realize the consequences of his actions and how he needs to change himself. I think this was a brilliant scene (not that she gets slapped) b/c so far everyones been in love with Asad (mostly b/c of how hot he is, or the smouldering looks he gives Zoya) but no one has yet outwardly hated him. I think this scene makes a lot of people do just that as can be seen by the numerous comments (I hope this is the reason they added this scene). Also, its a bit annoying that everyones looking for Asad to be some hero that should be kind towards women and respectful. The point is to show Asad isn't that guy, its the journey to become that guy in my opinion. Asad needs to have a dynamic to his character not be static; thats just boring.

Also, I really hope that they don't do this whole slap scene and then have Zoya go back to her cheery self trying to make everyone laugh. That is the part that makes me so angry. She needs to realize that she cant use that tactic in every situation. In my opinion, the audience needs to see her vulnerable side which I definitely haven't seen yet b/c she seems to bounce back from everything that gets thrown at her.

She also definitely needs to set Asad straight. Yeah, to a certain extent she may be responsible for Dilshad's condition, but isn't Asad as well? She needs to stand up for herself, needs to demand self-respect and definitely no mitwa moments until thats accomplished.

Thats my take :)

Originally posted by: Laila2009

No-one deserves to be treated this way. No-one. She does not deserve to be treated int his way at all. It is not OK - slapping women is not an acceptable behavior - it is wrong.