Slap -Qubool Nahin Hai!-no matter what - Page 2

Originally posted by: Laila2009

For so long I thought I was alone on this forum...the ever popular post makers here were not on the same page as me and I even had some people report me for not agreeing with them. It really upset me that the people resorted to this degree that they would shut me down in this way for speaking out.

I did watch this show and both my sister and I did not like it. I told my cousin to watch this show; I just PMed her and told her to forget about it - she would be disgusted by this episode.

I have completely lost interesting in this show...it has left a sour taste in mouth. I simply cannot fathom any romance happening between Asad and Zoya at this stage. Asad's character has been ruined.

From an Islamic perspective (and this is a Muslim family), the practice is not condoned either. I have spent the past 20 years in this field and know every US expert - Muslim, Hindu etc on domestic abuse/violence etc. I know the people who wrote the books and have even consulted for them...none of them would endorse this...and still having been in this field for so long, I had young girls here taunt and try to educate me on what is domestic abuse. Not only were my eyes abused by what I saw today but I had of course, those people who supported abuse, abusing me on this forum...go figure why they saw nothing wrong in what Asad did.

Originally posted by: _naksh_raz

I still can't make out whether he slapped her of cuffed her. She was bleeding..what will he do after apologize?
Not enough!

Originally posted by: Laila2009

For so long I thought I was alone on this forum...the ever popular post makers here were not on the same page as me and I even had some people report me for not agreeing with them. It really upset me that the people resorted to this degree that they would shut me down in this way for speaking out.

I did watch this show and both my sister and I did not like it. I told my cousin to watch this show; I just PMed her and told her to forget about it - she would be disgusted by this episode.

I have completely lost interesting in this show...it has left a sour taste in mouth. I simply cannot fathom any romance happening between Asad and Zoya at this stage. Asad's character has been ruined.

From an Islamic perspective (and this is a Muslim family), the practice is not condoned either. I have spent the past 20 years in this field and know every US expert - Muslim, Hindu etc on domestic abuse/violence etc. I know the people who wrote the books and have even consulted for them...none of them would endorse this...and still having been in this field for so long, I had young girls here taunt and try to educate me on what is domestic abuse. Not only were my eyes abused by what I saw today but I had of course, those people who supported abuse, abusing me on this forum...go figure why they saw nothing wrong in what Asad did.

Originally posted by: RadheKrish1

I feel badly for what you had to go through! Women are their worst enemies sadly!

This week started off strange for me. I am attending a seminar on Women issues-South Asian women issues which involve rape, domestic violence etc...and I was just telling my non-Indian friend yesterday how this new show I am watching has given me some hope for positive outlook towards women in our culture. I also stated that there is this discussion going on this past weekend about, "will Asad be physically abusive towards Zoya bc his mom is shot?" and I said it so confidently that it will not happen and I was so looking forward to Monday's episode but I could not see it at work so quickly decided to read the update and Whoa! am I glad I did not see it!

Just reading it upset me so much-its not just the show its the outlook of the people that is disappointing! I was so confident that Asad would NOT be physical. I had to tell my friend I was wrong the show is not all that I expected!

I really wish I had not come across Qubool Hai but like I said in one of my previous posts I was obsessed by it and kept playing the episodes in the background while doing chores till I fell asleep so now I am free of it for now and can get my life back on track :)

The audience is changing and the writers need to know that most people/fans now-a-days don't find abuse forgiving and will not stick around. Even my male friends were disgusted and suggested, that I stop watching such "crap"

This show had a lot of hope!

Originally posted by: McNinja

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I'm glad there are more people who agree. Personally, I wish they never had shown such a thing because now they have a lot of pressure to justify both of their characters.

Im kind of shocked by how much people are trying to justify it, there is no amount of emotions tht make hitting a woman right. Women of all people should understand this.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

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I'm glad there are more people who agree. Personally, I wish they never had shown such a thing because now they have a lot of pressure to justify both of their characters.

Im kind of shocked by how much people are trying to justify it, there is no amount of emotions tht make hitting a woman right. Women of all people should understand this.