THE SLAP WAS NOT DOMESTIC VIOLENC n VERY JUSTIFIED

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Posted: 12 years ago
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wow...this forum kinda is looking like ipkknd forum today BASHING GUL for NO REASON...first of all rnt we the same people who shout n say WE WANT EQUALITY of GENDER...we watch HEROINE SLAPPING HERO zillions of times in movies n films and give WAH WAH to the heroine irrespectv of the fact whethr it was justified or not...even if the Hero is not at fault his getting slap frm the heroine is always applauded...SO WHY GENDER DISCRIMINATION HERE...Asad didnt Slap Zoya the way the women gets slappd by their hubbies for not cooking well or othr petty reason...ASAD SLAPPED THE PERSON WHO IS RESPONsIBLE FOR HIS MOTHERS CRITICAL CONDITION...the MOM who Means the WORLD to him...plus it wasnt as if he slappd zoya out of nowhere...HE COMPLETELY IGNORED HER...it was Zoya who came to him in the MOST WRONG TIME possible...she shud hv given him space...coz the Last pperson Asad wanted to talk to was Zoya and its very Much UNDERSTANDABLE...if i was In ASADS place i Wud hv Slapped Zoya EQUALLY HARD...coz this time the situation was Beyond GENDER...ASAD DiDNT SLAP A GAL coz when people r BLINDED BY PAIN n HATRED...GENDER REALLY DOESNT MATTER...if it was ZOYA in Asads place 2day and Slappd asad Really Hard then i m sure the forum wud hv been flooded with POSTS HOW AWESUMm the SLAP WAS and people wud hv tken GUL to the 9th sky...SO WHY SUCH DISCRIMINATION WHEN GENDER IS REVERSED...BEING women who Demand Equality in the society and are taught to b strong enuf to slap a man if he is guilty...the same WOMAN shud b Equally Strong Enuf to RECEIVE A SLAP frm a Man when she Herself is GUILTY...not jus cryy over it naming it so called Domestic Violence...EQUALITY OF GENDER shud B from both sides

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Welcome. i missed you. did you miss me too?
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Agree with you 100 %. I was shocked at first...but the slap is justifiable, considering Zoya's timming.
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Okay if an 85 year old woman was in Zoya's place. And the old crouching lady was responsible for Dilshaad's being shot? Would it have been okay for Asad to slap her?
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I totally agree with you. I don't think some people now what domestic violence means. I think that they recenetly heard the word that's why they are using the word "domestic violence" too much.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Where I come from the only time your allowed to use your fists is in self defense and even then your not allowed to use excessive force.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ABBY_JERAN

wow...this forum kinda is looking like ipkknd forum today BASHING GUL for NO REASON...first of all rnt we the same people who shout n say WE WANT EQUALITY of GENDER...we watch HEROINE SLAPPING HERO zillions of times in movies n films and give WAH WAH to the heroine irrespectv of the fact whethr it was justified or not...even if the Hero is not at fault his getting slap frm the heroine is always applauded...SO WHY GENDER DISCRIMINATION HERE...Asad didnt Slap Zoya the way the women gets slappd by their hubbies for not cooking well or othr petty reason...ASAD SLAPPED THE PERSON WHO IS RESPONsIBLE FOR HIS MOTHERS CRITICAL CONDITION...the MOM who Means the WORLD to him...plus it wasnt as if he slappd zoya out of nowhere...HE COMPLETELY IGNORED HER...it was Zoya who came to him in the MOST WRONG TIME possible...she shud hv given him space...coz the Last pperson Asad wanted to talk to was Zoya and its very Much UNDERSTANDABLE...if i was In ASADS place i Wud hv Slapped Zoya EQUALLY HARD...coz this time the situation was Beyond GENDER...ASAD DiDNT SLAP A GAL coz when people r BLINDED BY PAIN n HATRED...GENDER REALLY DOESNT MATTER...if it was ZOYA in Asads place 2day and Slappd asad Really Hard then i m sure the forum wud hv been flooded with POSTS HOW AWESUMm the SLAP WAS and people wud hv tken GUL to the 9th sky...SO WHY SUCH DISCRIMINATION WHEN GENDER IS REVERSED...BEING women who Demand Equality in the society and are taught to b strong enuf to slap a man if he is guilty...the same WOMAN shud b Equally Strong Enuf to RECEIVE A SLAP frm a Man when she Herself is GUILTY...not jus cryy over it naming it so called Domestic Violence...EQUALITY OF GENDER shud B from both sides


I am stunned and speechless at your attempt to condone this behavior and blame Zoya. Do you also blame women who get raped for being there at the wrong time and the wrong place, for wearing the wrong item of clothing for turning on the guy?

I laughed at your comment that this is not the same as a man slapping a woman for what type of food she cooked - what does it matter? He slapped her and that in itself was wrong. There is no justification of this behavior. It ruins a man and it is not something that is ok. i hope in the future that when your partners abuses you that you will know that it is NOT OK because this is the very thinking that keeps so many young girls like yourself trapped in relationships where they are treated with disrespect.

this is not about gender - Zoya did nothing wrong. She never put anyone's life in danger - she let Mariyam go - it was Dilshaad who brought her home. The uncle and the gunman are responsible - NOT Zoya.
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Originally posted by: kundra

I totally agree with you. I don't think some people now what domestic violence means. I think that they recenetly heard the word that's why they are using the word "domestic violence" too much.


And you the expert on what it does mean? 😲
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Originally posted by: hellobuddy

Where I come from the only time your allowed to use your fists is in self defense and even then your not allowed to use excessive force.

Where have you come from?
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Well Asad is the lead of the story. So obviously there were reasons why he did what he did. But does that make it okay? Asad is not the guy on the railway station who would hit Zoya out of the blue. If the reasons are justifiable to you, I'm not saying you are wrong. But I disliked the scene enough to stop watching it further. I disagree with writers behind the screenplay. Respect my POV as well.

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