Ms Gul! Stop promoting Domestic Violence - Page 2

Originally posted by: adeeti10

I hope to God that she shows Asad's regret and apology.

Originally posted by: shaz2009

Hi Priyanka...so glad your out here today!I am seething with absolute rage...I know this is just a fictional show,but come on...what message are they trying to give out?Why glorify this kind of violence as a man's passion,angst.pain or whatever you want to call it.You are very right in saying that it always starts off with a slap or a push and then going on to think that it's license of their rights to carry out this sort of violence.Priyanka I work with women who suffer at the hands of domestic on a daily basis too and to see all this up close and personal is not a very nice thing.These women suffer terribly physically and mentally and it's so easy for people out here to say that the situation was such that it was justifiable but try putting ones self through a situation like this and then say it's justifiable!What's more upsetting is there are women out here trying to see it in a light hearted and even in a humourous light and saying that Zoya going to console him was just not good timng.He could atleast just shouted at her stated the fact that he thinks it is all her fault for his mother's condition, but no...it had to be taken on another level and that was no little slap,that was more the fact that he full fledgedly hit her, and that too,with such force that I couldn't stop myself from shuddering.After Asad's first sct of agresion/violence of holding Zoya's neck, I really was hoping not to see the same sort of thing repeated again by Asad.I rwally dnt know what to make or think of Asad's character anymore...even if he is shown to repent later...is it really going to make everthing alright?

If Zoya has any self respect left she really needs to walk out of the Khan household asap!

Originally posted by: shaz2009

Hi Priyanka...so glad your out here today!I am seething with absolute rage...I know this is just a fictional show,but come on...what message are they trying to give out?Why glorify this kind of violence as a man's passion,angst.pain or whatever you want to call it.You are very right in saying that it always starts off with a slap or a push and then going on to think that it's license of their rights to carry out this sort of violence.Priyanka I work with women who suffer at the hands of domestic on a daily basis too and to see all this up close and personal is not a very nice thing.These women suffer terribly physically and mentally and it's so easy for people out here to say that the situation was such that it was justifiable but try putting ones self through a situation like this and then say it's justifiable!What's more upsetting is there are women out here trying to see it in a light hearted and even in a humourous light and saying that Zoya going to console him was just not good timng.He could atleast just shouted at her stated the fact that he thinks it is all her fault for his mother's condition, but no...it had to be taken on another level and that was no little slap,that was more the fact that he full fledgedly hit her, and that too,with such force that I couldn't stop myself from shuddering.After Asad's first sct of agresion/violence of holding Zoya's neck, I really was hoping not to see the same sort of thing repeated again by Asad.I rwally dnt know what to make or think of Asad's character anymore...even if he is shown to repent later...is it really going to make everthing alright?

If Zoya has any self respect left she really needs to walk out of the Khan household asap!

Originally posted by: enrique

Wats wrong is wrong he shouldn't have slapped her

After mangalpur incident he should listen to her first

And if naturally If we c he could have shout on her and told her to go away but ths violence slapping a women on national TV dat to just coz the character gt impulsive

Dats ridiculous ms Gul please get some brain from Indian women dat hw important a women's self resect is

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

dee...I really have no hopes for that...keeping in mind the pattern of Ms Gul's previous shows...we might get a 5 sec apology.

Originally posted by: adeeti10

You know what... I don't mind now if Asad and Zoya aren't a couple. If Ayaan treats her better, then maybe it's best she's with him.

Originally posted by: dmg2c

i dont want to make it personal , but anyone who wants to justify a dark character capable of violence against women as a forgivable and redeemable character is doing a great disservice to women. it is people like this who encourage violence against women in society. if the hero is doing this, then he must be followed. and this is not an attempt to show what happens. it might happen. but then those people cannot be eulogized as the hero. they must then become the villain. is AAK now the official villain? and if the show means to show others how to react in such situations, then the reaction of the forum is apalling me beyond measure. most women, mind you, women are defending him as being under grave duress. what can be said?

There's nothing wrong. If it's ok for a women to slap a man then why is it not ok for a man to slp a women.

Originally posted by: kundra

There's nothing wrong. If it's ok for a women to slap a man then why is it not ok for a man to slp a women.