Ayan forces Asad to marry Zoya ! Edited again! ( - Page 9

Originally posted by: -Fizzi-

Islam is extremely complicated and beautiful at the same time. Most of the laws of Islam support men and not women. But you can't change that. I totally love this show and hope that it doesn't get so complicated that people stop watching it. Whatever happens its gonna remain my favorite so let's just hope for the best. :)

Originally posted by: ummesulaiman

@Bold: I vehemently disagree with this statement of yours.

I don't want to sound harsh...but despite being a muslim...you seem to be ignorant about your own religion and it's history to have made such a stereotypical blanket statement.

While people may manipulate religion or laws to serve their materialstic and personal gains...Allah is definitely not unjust to any of his creation, whether they be male or female.

Originally posted by: ummesulaiman

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@Bold: I vehemently disagree with this statement of yours.

I don't want to sound harsh...but despite being a muslim...you seem to be ignorant about your own religion and it's history to have made such a stereotypical blanket statement.

Whilepeople may manipulate religion or laws to serve their materialstic and personal gains...Allah is definitely not unjust to any of his creation, whether they be male or female.

Wow! I agree Allaha doesn't do injustice to any of his creation and these laws are made to help women in the society! Allaha has made these laws and we should respect them and the religion! I have read all of your posts and agreed with all of them! I gained respect for u because u respected our religion Islam and corrected/ clarified things to people who had a sort of negative point about the divorce issue. I don't no who u are but honestly speaking u have gained a lot of respect from me!

Originally posted by: -Fizzi-

Okay maybe I said to much. :| I'm sorry if I hurt you at all.

yeah I think u said a little too much and that to about your religion! It's not about hurting someone but u should'nt say anything about any religion. I think that u should understand Islam and the laws that are made by Allaha!not being harsh but if u ever get really close to the religion and gain more knowledge about such issues, then u will understand the beauty of Islam! It's ok! You have a different view on this but do respect allaha's laws!

I agree With you cMoletely...
Some People use halala for their own benefit..there was a
Man in my village who divorced his wife and then was regretful for doing so...he then got his wife married to another man on basis that he will divorce her staright after consummation...but he fell in love with the woman and didn't wanna divorce her...this is fine he could keep the nikha...however other people started forcing him to discove her...he ran away for some time however they found him and made him divorce
her forcefully :O
So yeah these things do happen in reall life...and it's wrong to make the second husband divorce his wife forcefully...but then there are a lot of things people are supposed to do but they avoid it or bend their religion according to their own specific needs

Originally posted by: gems4emma

The husband isn't supposed to say talak three times in a row.This is a severe cultural mistake and distortion.

I went to an Islamic high school here in the USA and we had an extensive Islamic Studies class on marriage during 11th and 12th grades.

The husband can divorce his wife three times.

The first time he says "talak", then there is a waiting period, then they can get back together if eveyrthing is resolved in that period OR become legally divorced.

If they remarry or get back together after that, the husband can say talak once more. The same cycle occurs.

The third time he says it, after the waiting period, they can not get back together. The only way they can get back together is if the wife marries someone else, consummates, they divorce (for the first time) and then she remarries her first husband.

Again, you aren't supposed to say "talak talak talak" three times like that in a row. It's a mistake many Indian/Pakistani/Bengali Muslims make.

Women CAN obtain a divorce. Its called Khula. She can go to an imam/religious leader to make it official. Technically, she's "asking" her husband for a divorce, but when she says she wants a divorce, its called khula. He is obliged to divorce her.

In the case of khula, the waiting period is only 1 month. In talak, the waiting period is approximately 3 months.

I knew this is the case.
People in asia really need to study there own religions.
Because they misread so many stuff.

Originally posted by: ummesulaiman

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@Bold: I vehemently disagree with this statement of yours.

I don't want to sound harsh...but despite being a muslim...you seem to be ignorant about your own religion and it's history to have made such a stereotypical blanket statement.

Whilepeople may manipulate religion or laws to serve their materialstic and personal gains...Allah is definitely not unjust to any of his creation, whether they be male or female.

@fizzi and bold bit- sorry I don't want to sound harsh as well, you really need to study your own religion than.
Because law supports both male and female,
But in Asia this often over shadows because male dominate more than female and bcs female don't know much study they often belive what there male community suggest. Learn aerobic and everything will come very clear.

Originally posted by: salvatore-nina

Wait, so there's no official documents to sign? They just say talak three times? This is something new I'm hearing. I'm Muslim and from the divorces I've heard about, they usually just sign some official documents.

Yh that's how it's done islamically. The only reason people sign documents is to meet the rules and regulations of the country they're in. Also islamically, if your away from your husband for more than 6 months the marriage doesn't stand anymore. You have to re-do the vows unless there's some unavoidable circumstances.