Harish being Mahaan or just stupid? :O - Page 3

Originally posted by: xaviara

In my opinion, its not about either Mahaan or Stupid, Harish is just sparing her for being hurt in the long run, it is not as if he is suffering from a minor disease, having brain tumor can be fatal, so if he hides the fact from Avantika and tells her he has moved on, she is going to be hurt, but since she has been living without him for 20 years now, she will be upset for a while but then she will also try and move on, but if he tells her the truth about his illness and gets back together with her and later on something happens to him, she will loose him all over again, so which pain would he rather give her ? ? Sometimes its not about the wrong and right decision, its about taking a decision which will be less painful for your loved one.

Originally posted by: 20690

Love PKDH but this track sucks. Harish is being foolish and just hurting everyone more. Harish was my favorite until his actions now. Great post btw.

Originally posted by: ranmar

Inspite of hiding details of Preeti's abortion and spoiling three lives for 20 years, bringing misery to the family and spoiling Adi's formative years he has not learnt a lesson😡

HE'S DOING IT AGAIN, HURTING THE TWO PEOPLE HE LOVES UNBELIEVABLE 😡

Originally posted by: taniks

Great post I don't comment in this forum but this topic forced me to comment.
I think harish is being a total fool , doesn't he realize how much avantika
And adi will hurt when he dies bcos of all the unresolved feelings and issues . I know he won't die but according to him ,he is dying by doing this
He is alienating adi and inviting adi s resentment and harsh words. Doesn't he realize wot wud adi go thru when he dies besides dealing with this devastating loss ,the guilt for treating harish so badly and the separation that this other woman is creating between father and son , adi will be devastated that their relationship was so damaged in his fathers last days.
Really I feel a person who is dying will want to draw closer to his family especially a family that were apart for the past 20yrs , he wud want his family to know how much he loves them .
I am sorry but I think harish was downright insensitive in last nites epi and in a way dispectful towards the relationships he has in the dewaan family , he should have the decency to respect the mother of his child and not flaunt this woman in avantikas face. The devastation on avantika face really broke my heart ,it was heartwrenching , the actress pulled it of brilliantly .
As for the actress playing the doctor although I know she's not negative but this is a second serial that I saw her hiding the husbands truth by acting like the other woman seems like she enjoys this type of roles. As a doctor doesn't she realize that any patient having cancer or tumor will have the courage to never give up or lose hope as long as he has has his families love and support. Its wrong for a doctor to get personally involved
With patients but I agree wud adi as a woman doesn't she feel any shame to come for a family prayer. even if this just a charade she has crossed all limits first by asking adi to leave his fathers house and next shamelessly rubbing her relationship wud harish in the families face. She is also destroying father and son relationship wot a huge step to take ,it is also not morally or ethically correct . I really don't like Harish now I also feel dadi as a mother shuld give her son that one thing he lost twenty years ago she shuld put her foot down and tell adi or avantika abt harishs illness
So in his last days atleast he has the love and support of his family.

Originally posted by: xaviara

In my opinion, its not about either Mahaan or Stupid, Harish is just sparing her for being hurt in the long run, it is not as if he is suffering from a minor disease, having brain tumor can be fatal, so if he hides the fact from Avantika and tells her he has moved on, she is going to be hurt, but since she has been living without him for 20 years now, she will be upset for a while but then she will also try and move on, but if he tells her the truth about his illness and gets back together with her and later on something happens to him, she will loose him all over again, so which pain would he rather give her ? ? Sometimes its not about the wrong and right decision, its about taking a decision which will be less painful for your loved one.

Originally posted by: ankur281

The track is predctable and certainly comes as a filler till CVs could find a new twist...

Harish could have told Avantika and no point in hurting her at the point she decides to take the step forward...i didnt like that treatment to her

But hey don't term him "Stupid"...when the doctor is herself not confident of Harish to get well and terming that to be kinda miracle, then how the patient will get hope...baat yeh hai ki hum man chuke hai ki Harish will not die but Harish ko pata nehi hai na...

Under that condition, if he wants her lady love not to know all these things and be more depressed...does that make him stupid...foolish etc...Sorry then that you too like Avantika not trying or never could understand Haarish...