DOTW: Preconceived - Page 4

Originally posted by: Chill_Out

'How' is something which comes naturally to me, Kanks. I have no answer for that. I can answer for a 'Why' though. I think you'll agree when I say that what meets the eyes need not necessarily be the reality of the situation under consideration. Hence, it is essential to view beyond what is visible for a proper understanding and to prevent misunderstanding. Isn't that what insight is all about? How can we tell when a person is lying? How can we differentiate fake people from genuine ones? Likewise for circumstances wherein, if we view on a superficial level, we can clearly demarcate the right and the wrong and pros and cons. It is only when someone bothers to go deeper is when they realise that things aren't as transparent as they seem and the situation is wayy more complicated than imagined. Understanding it from all perspectives may be difficult but in the end, mostly, we end up with a correct and objective judgment of the same and I think that's necessary because it helps us differentiate between the right and the wrong in it's true sense (:

And I went totally off topic with the discussion didn't I? 😆

I guess I can reduce my number of hugs for you 🤗

Originally posted by: -Kanky-

I thought I could tell a person was lying. If you'd met me a year back, you would have found your and my thoughts to be kindred spirits. Eventually, I have evaluated the nothingness of my clear sight of situations and persons. I dun believe in what I see, let alone what is not visible physically. I realize that skepticism ain't something healthy so much, but it is nothing I can help.

Off topic? No. Intricate relation? Yes. Want me to explain? 😃

Originally posted by: Chill_Out

Kanks, I know what you're hinting at and as mature as you are for your age, truth is, you've just been here for only 14 years. No one's perfect. Everyone makes mistakes in judgment. I still can't say for sure whether I can judge someone absolutely correctly or not. The most genuine people prove to be double-faced and the most horrendous people turn out to be sweethearts. Experience counts as well and ultimately, you'll learn to trust your instincts more than your eyes (:

It is related? Really? How? 😲

Originally posted by: -Kanky-

Feels like I am a day old, if you ask me. My predicament ain't perpetual, and I excel at surviving, I will be good. I'm a bully, by the way. On interior basis, I am still half the same, so I find you hypothetical. 😃

It is related. Pia believes in what does not exist, Abhay's heart. It's like molded out of a priceless metal, if we negotiate. But in truth, it does not exist. And now that she's forgotten it, she 'sees' what is not 'visible physically'.

Connected, right? 😆

Originally posted by: Chill_Out

Kanks! 🤣.🤣

You're a hilarious woman 😆.😆.😆

Very well connected, my Lord! Totally agreed 😃

Originally posted by: -Kanky-

I'm Bond, even though I never watched a minute of any movie.

Basically, I am just lucky with humor. 😳

When you agree, it feels irrational. Eh?

We must contradict each other, somehow!

Originally posted by: kawaii hime

Hello larki! Since you asked me to participate in the discussion...! So I am here!

- Why do all the guys have to love Pia?

Hmmm...like it has been established, not every person fell for Piya. At first it was Kabir just so the CVs could establish the fact that Piya is someone to be loved. Abhay loved her because well...he was supposed to. He's the lead, she's the lead, leads fall for each other = DUH! And Jay doesn't love her. For them its basically the attraction a guy feels for a hot girl. Errr...that is to say physical attraction. His concern for Piya is part of his many layered personality because deep down he isn't all keen on hurting her. Right now, they are undergoing a hate-attract-fight-be together phase of a relationship. Buts that a different discussion altogether. The fact that Piya has 'all the guys' falling for her is because of the twist of a show. The CVs of a daily soap can get only get so much ideas... Same old jealousy, separation, trying to move on ultimately to hug your 'soul-mate' desperately. 😆

- Would you like to see Jay in a flinching-in-pain demeanor?

OH PLEASE! Never!!!! The hurt which Kabir gave me is already fresh in my heart. Although it is being established that Jay will fall for Piya, or he might fight Abhay for her but the end is clear (God! WHY?!) that she won't be with him. I agree that Jay deserves someone to love him without any strings attached. But if he does go through some heartbreak, I hope that he has the courage to laugh it off. Although I don't have many hopes...CVs...😳

- Which kind of 'preconceived love' in the show is your favorite?

Hmmm...there have but two preconceived loves in the show: Abhay-Piya and Kabir-Piya. Since I have NO tolerance for AbhiYa (there, I said it! 😉) I'll have to go with KaPi. Sigh...my first love 😍 There was something in them, there IS something in them. No matter how many guys Piya goes to, its Kabir that always welcomes with open arms and asks no questions. For many people he acts like a 'despo' or a 'devdaas' but to me, he has the strongest emotions for Piya. The wish to always see her happy, to be with her, to spend good time with her, flirting harmlessly with her only to laugh it off, cheering her up, celebrating good moments with her, being there for her when she feels down, taking the responsibility of all the causes of her sadness; for a normal, worth-while relation, the male half has to have all these feelings which Kabir has (and this has happened in the show). The best part, he doesn't want to hold her down. He lets her fly and silently wishes for a safe journey, while he waits that someday she'll come back to him. Honestly, I think Piya should leave Abhay, Jay, Sid etc and go back to Kabir. The girl has had too much drama in her life already, Kabir is the only sensible reality for her 😆

There ya have it! Well...these are the only responses I could get out of my head 😉 But nice questions!

Originally posted by: Chill_Out

Haha!! I AGAIN agree that we hardly ever agree. But it's good fun interacting with you anyhow 😆

Originally posted by: -Kanky-

All my antagonists tell me how FUN I am.

Eeh eeh, do you wish to talk PKYEK?

Or do you want to spam?