DOTW: Preconceived - Page 2

Originally posted by: -Kanky-

He is cordial, I should say.

But really, Siddhant can do so much more and I'd always watch it. Doesn't have to be Sid, Sid's reign's over for me.

Originally posted by: Sidchu

I prefer sid only for me I think he is better than jay so sid's comeback is awaited now as article can be out anytime😃😃

Originally posted by: Chill_Out

- Why do all the guys have to love Pia?

All guys don't fall in love with Pia. Abhay, Kabir and Jay in the process makes it only 3 and she happens to be the female lead hence, the show will not pay heed to the 6374653893645 zillion men in the world who haven't fallen in love with her ;)

And unlike other shows, we did have focus on characters like Shaurya, Sid, Shankar, Neel and Danish who did NOT fall in love with her either (:

- Would you like to see Jay in a flinching-in-pain demeanor?

Honestly speaking, no. I will definitely not like it but it will happen and no one can avoid that. The only alleviation from such a pain will be if Jay falls in love with someone else again and she becomes his shoulder to cry on initially. Otherwise, falling in love with Pia will provide heartaches to every guy who does so.

- Which kind of 'preconceived love' in the show is your favorite?

I don't think I need to mention that it will always be AbhIya and I can't even call them my 'favourite' because they're the ONLY ones for me. Their love wasn't even preconceived for me at least. I never expected them to develop to such an epic level in my eyes despite the fact that their bond has hardly been given proper focus in the past 8 months. I love KaPi and Jiya and they're amazing as friends but my ship as far as eternal lovers go will always and always be AbhIya. They rise much above being a 'couple'. They're Soulmates <33

Awaiting your reply, Kanks 🤗

I'm so sure you're rolling your eyes *pulls cheeks*

Originally posted by: Pocahontas

Why do all the guys have to love Pia?

Because creatives have no other innovative way of giving prominence to important male characters.Thankfully, Sid was spared the horrors. Panchhi and Misha are equally gorgeous , maybe even more and have great hearts. Any man can fall for them. But what the writers conveniently forget is that every man has a different perception and definition of his ideal womanhood. And am sorry , no woman in this world can be every man's dream.

Would you like to see Jay in a flinching-in-pain demeanor?

Absolutely not. I don't know about others but i firmly believe that every man , every woman in this world deserves a lover who loves them and only them. Likewise , my wish for Jay is also the same. I am not going to revel or enjoy in his heart's downswing where he suffers and is pained because he wants someone who has always belonged to someone else. Jay deserves someone who loves him and only him for what he is. Somebody who will always be 100% his. Heartbreak and pining lovers sound great in poetry but life is far more sensitive and the heart a seeker of love that is only and only its.

Which kind of 'preconceived love' in the show is your favorite?

I guess i will give the crown to Maithli's pathological obsession for Abhay post the 200 year gap and her transformation into evil. The darkness, the obsession , the remorse and the fixation is riveting. There is no love and yet its there. It is apparently pre conceived now from Maithli's side and yet there is a deep bond that runs between her and Abhay. The bond that did not let them kill each-other.

Originally posted by: -Kanky-

Give me one reason and I'd promise not to roll any of my four eyes.

No, I like you rolling your eyes hence, I shall give you no such reason

Eternal love serves no point, no entity it makes up for. Abhay and Pia should have been highlighted better, I must agree on that, though. However, I just fail to execute my perceptional requirement for loving anybody, like a generalized belief. I feel you need to be friends. I see no reason why Edward and Bella love each other. I have a little idea of why Abhay and Pia make lovers that way, because they are silent confidantes.

Kabir could make a better lover to Pia, on the basis of my belief. But Pocahontas just mentioned, the creative team is not innovative.

Hmmm...so your theory happens to be KKHH. Personally, friendship as a bond rises above everything for me. Once upon a time, I was strongly into "Love stands still when all else has fallen and Friendship stays strong when Love betrays'. True friendship, of course and I do agree that good friends need not be lovers but it is essential for lovers to be good friends. Abhay and Pia skipped that stage of friendship and straightaway went on to love. But then, AbhIya have always been out of norms and love can never exist without friendship. Even when Abhay wasn't exactly in 'love' with her, he was still there for her and others as well. And even Pia's attraction can't be labelled as 'love' as soon as she set her eyes on him can it? Yet, she was there for him not letting herself hate him despite the fact that she had every reason to. Isn't that what friendship is about as well? Being there for each other through thick and thin and a proper understanding and insight into your friends and accepting them with their flaws? I don't see anything which two friends can share which AbhIya don't. Just because they never called themselves 'friends' doesn't mean they aren't. This is going by my belief of what friends are all about (:

Jay gets to suffer inevitable surreal heart-crush blues. 😳

Definitely! I can only hope he finds solace! Even Kabir hasn't found one yet 😔

Originally posted by: -Kanky-

Everything is so lifeless about obsession, even after all the gush of adrenaline it provides you. Vampires dun get that either, so it is even more lifeless.

Perhaps when I asked the second question, I did not mean I would love to watch him in pain, whatever magnitude of it he succeeds in depicting. True, theoretical heartbreaks in truth are different from dramas. Some I have known do not let you live, naturally. Ridiculing and betraying feeling, invokes a begrudging appeal on your inside. And you never grow out of it, twenty more may come and thirty-five may escape!

Maithali was just hopelessly trying to scare me, being all spooky in that freezing-Abhay scene. I would rather believe in the vivid preconceived existence of human configurations of 'love', I got a sinister but better grip on them. =)

Originally posted by: Chill_Out

It's always a pleasure interacting with you, Kanks! <33