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amail1601

@amail1601

Sparkler

Posted: 14 years ago

#101

@kaheela....got it!!

@naaju....at least they didn't show it like in other shows. here I'm grateful for small mercies. :S

n erm....I'm not into physical intimacy before marriage or a relationship myself, but I guess here it was just a sort of.....acknowledgement of a relationship?

I mean, pia didn't let kabir kiss her. could have. but didn't.

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@lighteningbuzz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#102

Originally posted by: ka7eela

hey naaju..maybe they are married secretly like Romeo and Juliet 😉

@ bold it was just a sweet kiss yaar!..i liked it😆

@blue i think you meant EK!😳

@green: I agree with Kaheela here. I think it was a cute kiss and they both like each other. It's not like they have wrong intentions towards each other becuz, they are truly do care and love each other so, the kiss there was okay. It's just a reflection of expressing your love to the other person. In my personal opinion, I think a kissing before marriage is okay in their case as long as you really and truly love that person but, sleeping with them is not okay.

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Sushmita

@sushii.

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#103

True, its sooo irritating to have a physical relationship before getting married. Whatever you may call, its not modern but cheap! 🤢

And also it was way back in history, I mean its not even the 21st century they were showing in that scene! People didn't do such things in India even in the 1960s forget the time of Maithali! 😳

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amail1601

@amail1601

Sparkler

Posted: 14 years ago

#104

Originally posted by: Mrs.Pandey
True, its sooo irritating to have a physical relationship before getting married. Whatever you may call, its not modern but cheap! 🤢
And also it was way back in history, I mean its not even the 21st century they were showing in that scene! People didn't do such things in India even in the 1960s forget the time of Maithali! 😳

@bold...erm....lots of stuff used to happen in 1960s and before - just that it was done behind closed doors. 😆😆

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Sushmita

@sushii.

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#105

Originally posted by: amail1601

@bold...erm....lots of stuff used to happen in 1960s and before - just that it was done behind closed doors. 😆😆

Well I don't think it used to happen in India though, that time and before the people use to remember that there are boundaries! *Lets not talk about the other kind of girls now* Even now many girls think before doing such things, imagine in that time then! And as the topic maker said "When a boy truly loves a girl he should respect her and not get into the bed with her without marriage, otherwise whats the difference between us and animals who mate with whomever they fancy!"⭐️

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Kaheela

@ka7eela

Dazzler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#106

Originally posted by: lighteningbuzz

@green: I agree with Kaheela here. I think it was a cute kiss and they both like each other. It's not like they have wrong intentions towards each other becuz, they are truly do care and love each other so, the kiss there was okay. It's just a reflection of expressing your love to the other person. In my personal opinion, I think a kissing before marriage is okay in their case as long as you really and truly love that person but, sleeping with them is not okay.

payal i totally agree with you again (seems this is my fav line)😳😆

@blue again you spoke my mind, i just hope my mom doesn't read this otherwise she will kill me🤣 ..not that she reads IF

@red totally, its 100% wrong!

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Kaheela

@ka7eela

Dazzler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#107

Originally posted by: Mrs.Pandey
True, its sooo irritating to have a physical relationship before getting married. Whatever you may call, its not modern but cheap! 🤢
And also it was way back in history, I mean its not even the 21st century they were showing in that scene! People didn't do such things in India even in the 1960s forget the time of Maithali! 😳

@ bold so true!, its not only irritating but also disgusting how they try to connect pre-martial affairs with true love!🤢 its like they are glorifying it and promoting it!

@brown, i think some did but they weren't so open about it like they are now!

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amail1601

@amail1601

Sparkler

Posted: 14 years ago

#108

Originally posted by: Mrs.Pandey

Well I don't think it used to happen in India though, that time and before the people use to remember that there are boundaries! *Lets not talk about the other kind of girls now* Even now many girls think before doing such things, imagine in that time then! And as the topic maker said "When a boy truly loves a girl he should respect her and not get into the bed with her without marriage, otherwise whats the difference between us and animals who mate with whomever they fancy!"⭐️

Erm...not really....have heard a lot of stories from my grandmothers.....what they tell about people in our own family, and the ones around them. Normal, 'respectable' people.....and it's not just about 'other kind of girls' - there used to be abusive uncles, lecherous cousins or brothers-in-law and a lot of other stuff that our society does not like to talk about. Even literature of those times and earlier tells us about this stuff, either openly, or by just hinting.

People of both kinds have existed throughout the ages - it's just that now they are being a li'l more open, or we can say that the media is exposing them. Don't want to go into the whole history of this thing coz the way we have studied it...it's tooooo long n shocking.

😆😆😆

There's something rather special about being 'exclusive'....... 😳😳😳😳😳😳

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Kaheela

@ka7eela

Dazzler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#109

Originally posted by: amail1601

Erm...not really....have heard a lot of stories from my grandmothers.....what they tell about people in our own family, and the ones around them. Normal, 'respectable' people.....and it's not just about 'other kind of girls' - there used to be abusive uncles, lecherous cousins or brothers-in-law and a lot of other stuff that our society does not like to talk about. Even literature of those times and earlier tells us about this stuff, either openly, or by just hinting.

People of both kinds have existed throughout the ages - it's just that now they are being a li'l more open, or we can say that the media is exposing them. Don't want to go into the whole history of this thing coz the way we have studied it...it's tooooo long n shocking. 😆

There's something rather special about being 'exclusive'....... 😳

@bold agree with you, however at those time i think its was lesser and people weren't that open about such relationships.

however most important thing was, no one used to say that these were tales of true love, people used to call those unethical relationships by their true names!😳

they used to call a spade a spade and not glorify a shameless act by associating it with a beautiful bond like love!