~Pyar Ka Pehla Naam Radha Mohan~ EDT #4 - Page 69

When Damini talked bad about her family, Radha warned her not to do so, that she might not tolerate it, but did not Radha realize that coming in search of a married man with just childhood memories, entering his house and personal space uninvited and staying there on her own free will would cause a bad name to her family and why did not Mohan think about this before, would he allow his daughter to stay in a stranger's house uninvited for a long time

Have to put this in words as some mockery of prem, bhakti, aakarshan, insaan, bhagwan is being made multiple times.

Editors/directors of RM are conveniently & cunningly NOT showing that controversial FB scene of how R mocked with a Gita promise earlier before Hriday in same hall & lied to all that Banke Bihariji & Mohanji are EQUAL to her, she has ONLY Bhakti for Mohanji but NOT Prem he is her Bhagwanji as he gifted Gita that gave her meaning of life. 👎🏼If it was any other serial, this FB scene as a memory could have played few times. But here they are playing only that FB scene as memory where M is giving promise that he will take responsibility of R.

After R made such a hypocrite love confession in same hall last week by promising again on same Gita within span of few months, that she considers M as a normal human not God (quoting borewell sequence when he hugged her), that for her M is much higher than Banke Bihariji & her Prem for M is much bigger than that for a Bhagwanji,as a viewer whenever physical proximity of R towards M is being shown, it seems unsettling not sane.

Even after M analysing her words & softly explaining R that all past closeness/physical touches from his end were mistakes or rather casual gestures with NO wrong intention while he was helping her or sharing his gratitude, and what R feels towards him is more of infatuation, 👍🏼still immature teenager R doesn't get it in her head.

Many times D found R secretly ogling at M in that house, unaware to M. But now its open.🤪 Not sure on same day why R is getting shown jumping at every possible instance to touch or hug M tightly before all & why M isn't dismissing her, as this isn't appearing pure onscreen now, so we can't blame M's fiancee D here if she gets furious.

Seen a clip from last week episodes from G's room where R after hugging M tightly & later all blushing suddenly changes her words again & repeats her months old record, 'I'm your Bhakt you are my Bhagwanji, so I know you will save me & won't let anything happen to me'.

With a better backstory for her, these things could've been avoided. She also had a scene long back where she explains to G that 'family should always come first' [in other words, go by what i say not by what i do.]

But again, does not a married, middle aged man not know that hugging Radha, carrying her, dressing her up, touching and wiping her face, holding hands, having eye locks are all considered close physical proximities and would be misinterpreted by a young girl, and he has a daughter too who very soon would become a teenager

As per Mohan he treated R as a bachhi, as his student, as an innocent well wisher, as his bhakt, as his kid Gungun's bestie, as his confidant, as too much God fearing girl but how writers didn't give M monologues to ponder he forgot R is also a naive, unmarried, village teenager girl. After media linked her character badly with him & both got shamed in society, as a re-engaged man who's ready to wed another woman, M is expected to be more careful around R.

Could be also that M being more progressive as he grew up from a city, possibly he was educated from a co-ed college along with many female classmates & friends so such small gestures, hugs, touches, holding hands, patting backs, wiping tears, hi-fives, consoling or saving person from falling down, laughing with them or picking up injured person in arms may not always be romantic deals too?

May be M also got relaxed after R promised before Hriday & all on Gita that she has ONLY Bhakti, NO Prem for her Bhagwanji Mohanji so he simply assumed that R would never think wrongly about him or his care & gestures? and he anyway doesn't care much about society taunts which he is used to.😔 With the maturity Mohan had as Tulsi's lover cum husband, and as Damini's fiancee, as Ketaki's brother it wasn't convincing when he got shown so unassuming about R whenever she was ogling, blushing & telling lies in his close proximity,🤔 even while he probed what happened & when Gungun few times was pushing R over to him as if his heroine.

Now as a girl child's single father Mohan has to be shown to introspect. Will Mohan allow some mature rich, middle age widower man to be close to his teenager daughter, when Gungun grows up into some simple innocent teenager?😳 will Mohan keep his daughter Gungun for months together for NO genuine reason with some unrelated rich family in their house, in another city, that too alone? mainly because the said widower man's school going stubborn kid got attached to his daughter?😲 will he allow Gungun to just idle there as if a free loader in that house with NO growth, academics, work, earnings, personality development, activities, skill sets or hobbies to enhance, with NIL botheration about her life & future? what will be his reaction where Gungun keeps on displaying least responsibility, respect or attachment towards her own family & her house, refusing to come back but keeps getting into life risks even facing humiliations in that house? This angle should ideally be touched in RM script as it can connect more to family audiences, but alas, as it can demean Radha & her family so RM writers may not go there.

YEs, the writers made a big blunder in not making Radha's character more dignified with a proper introduction of her background story and also went into a romantic frenzy during ZRA to highlight RM has a perfect romantic jodi with rain dances and close scenes between RM thus making Mohan's character weak in the process and the big Gita blunder

YEs, the writers made a big blunder in not making Radha's character more dignified with a proper introduction of her background story and also went into a romantic frenzy during ZRA to highlight RM has a perfect romantic jodi with rain dances and close scenes between RM thus making Mohan's character weak in the process and the big Gita blunder

Mohan is the perfect gentleman that he is but the writers gave the viewers a wrong impression that Mohan is also starting to fall for Radha with his looks at her, wondering to himself what his feelings were sometimes and the endless RM shippers

In 8 months there was only one scene that can be considered as romantic-the time Mohan helped R with her final details for engagement,only time he answered back to those stares,can't be called eyelocks.

Rest of the times were accidents and why would a nice guy like Mohan let a girl (who helped him&Gungun many times and won his trust&care) fall and break legs,hands,neck,head when he's there to save/help her in return??? Would have done the same for D (if she would have been more smart to get his attention)-fortunately spared of overdose of what usually happens between ml and vamp.

Never doubted what he feels for R,she became a good friend and a confident,for something he could tell her how after so long he's still in love with Tulsi and can't ruin any other person life,be it D or R,with his past baggage and lack of love.

So the mistakes/mu's/sins are in the eyes of the people around him who cook up more than what it is...and wouldn't let him realize things on his own or even decide if and when he wants to move on from Tulsi memories.

But eventually, who is going to be Mohan's future love, if this is a normal serial then FL would be the one whom he would fall in love, but here, will it happen eventually what with the devotion/myth and all that

Hope someone new comes in from outside, but that is too far fetched

Lets see some chronology of how R's infatuation got showcased onscreen & how that influenced G's thinking.

After Radha started living as her room mate only Gungun got to know more about Yashoda & Devaki roles in Krishna's life as per mythology,😃 R seems to have taught G that a foster mom's love can be greater than real mom's love too.

R was shown having hot wild wet dreams with Mohan. When G asked her what kind of husband she wants? R referred to her M, whose pic G drew.

From calling G her dost/best friend till borewell incident, R started referring Gungun more as beta, she kept telling G that she is also like her maa T.👍🏼 After learning that R wants M as her husband and has romantic feeling's for her father just like TV serials heroines have for their husbands, G started teasing R more. Till then G termed R only as her bestie.

So R with her teenager infatuation clearly wanted to settle down in that house forever as M's wife & G's foster mom.🤪 At that time R had NO inkling of D's evilness, except that kid G dislikes D.

R & her Dadi hardly have shown even ounce of remorse or guilt for so called PREM harnessed for D's fiancee M, instead they got fully ready to propose M, with just two lame excuses that G loves & wants to be with R, that M has no PREM for D, so lets not bother.👎🏼

But R after her bride swap expose drama still comfortably lies to M before all in that hall, that even though she has PREM for M, she never desired to be his wife.

Just because Radha & Dadi are not evil, majority viewers were NOT able to sympathize with them at the time of PREM jaap's, as they grossly muddled up into a pit on their own, lowering their morality. 😲 Even now saying G won't be happy as D is evil can't be excuse for wanting to live forever with M in that house masking it as M needs R just like BBji needs Radha Rani or that only she can be G's maa not D.